You're not allowed to review me, she says…

I choose to be a man...

This is why I never mentioned reviews, or asked for them. EVER. It leaves a sour note...

So far no one has begged for a review. Last lady I visited probably won't be getting one. The sex was great,  but set up, attitude, and another non sex thing left a bad taste in my mouth.

that is a can of crock!

at least they were upfront in not asking for reviews, so you have the option of not dealing with the headache conversations. In my experiences this has come in the middle or end of the session out of nowhere.  

The thing is...it's not that they don't want reviews...it's that they only want GOOD reviews...9's and 10's only.

There is no such thing as "not accepting" reviews...

Should be the 1 you review ! You lost me ? So you only review the good times ? Go read curlys !!!!!!!!!!

Turn you down based on what and how you write ! So you have to decide whats best for you or alias review in a few months. After other reviews go up. Now if she has a legit reason , RESPECT IT . Honestly its all bullshit , unless its a ripoff. Or unsafe in a certain way. But rule #1 if she doesnt have steady reviews somethings WRONG , why guys like to tell nice things and tend to skip the bad 1s. Sooooooo well reviewed provider !

Or put presure on to be someone your not . Your real and your wonderful. And that speaks volumes. Others like you are all smart . Who needs that crap. xoxoxo  

is if any guy hated her will he admit it in a review?  

Deserve it , and the guys who see 9/20 10/10 know the deal , so its bullshit ! Solid 8s are the best time and the guys know it too. See its to rate high in the search !!!!! And many guts , i hate to say are dumb ? Cant read the reviewer right . So there are various reasons. Okay there was a girl , fraud ripped off a guy. Another guy posted about her , also fake photos now i posted the truth. Another guy said "oh i like her and i dont care the pics are fake"  now i told him to go read the thread where another guy called her out for robbing him !!!!!!!! The puppy guy didnt care ? Now she was lying and taking busibess from other girls , why ???????higher scores !!!!! Yup and its wrong !!!!!!!!!

happened here. Having seen the lady before I was shocked. I guess something went wrong but I was very happy to see her again...and again.  She said the "2" really hurt her biz but what I don't get if all other reviews are awesome how does one REALLY bad review outdo all the others?

Your talking about if its in the middle . But the phone will stop ringing after a bad #!! 10/10 .sucks its alot if pressure.  
 

It happens to all of us, I have one.  You rub some guy the wrong way and he takes it out on your reviews.  Most hobbyists can figure those out, but the lady in question may have been more concerned about how it dropped her overall score.  The whole review manipulation is unfair to the rest of us who don't try to mess with our reviews.  The most I do is look over someone's reviews if he requests a booking with me, and if he has scoring women with my body type low I will tell him that I don't think I'm his type and leave it up to him to decide.

Thanks for telling me I am definitely reviewing you now. Being asked politely after a session if everything went well is one thing but being told what I can do and what I can't, well I'm sorry but I just paid for your service and I will review your service if I decide too. If you feel you have the right to tell me not to review you then you should maybe not see clients that day. This business is all about customer service and if you are having a shitty day maybe you should take the day off.

My current fave has many 10/10s but a bunch of 8s and 9s and some 7s.  A very recent review was an 8/8 and I was thinking "What is wrong with this guy?" or "Maybe she's burned out or it was a bad day?" or ???

I am sorry but 10's are given out too easily

You're right. I'll get on it before the 3 month mark.

Hobbyists tend to forget how important decent reviews are or else NOBODY will see the provider. Also, most guys don't see how bad reviews deeply impact the quantity of clients she ends up seeing. The lady ends up seeing close to nobody for quite some time. A lot of girls don't have a large amount of money in their bank to be okay with seeing nobody for that length of time.

Reviews
"This is the section where the guys get to review providers who advertise on the web. You can now know exactly what to expect before you make the call and spend your hard earned money. The bonus is that the opinions expressed are real and not sent in by the adult entertainers themselves..."

In what situation would a provider with pages of 9s and 10s all of a sudden be out of business for a month because of a bad review? That review would have to be absolutely terrible, and even then it would probably get written off by most potential clients.  What you are saying is a stretch. A 7 or 8 isn't going to put you out of business...and yet we have providers thinking 7s and 8s are abysmal scores. Also, if she gets a string of terrible reviews, she probably deserves them.

As someone who does not manipulate my reviews, I can assure you that I am plenty busy, even with my 7s and (gasp!) a couple of 6s.  No, I'm not a HDH, but I'm doing just fine, thanks.  And I'm doing it honestly, which in the end gives me a better reputation than the girls who give discounts for high scores, or those that make threats if they get a score they deem unacceptable.  Trust me, I know who they are, and so do many of the hobbyists.  If you don't, then you're not paying attention.

The numbers cause so much drama, I think it would be better if TER just got rid of them, and everyone was forced to read the text of a review to decide if it was good or bad. Is that just me?

1.  I agree that the numbers often don't match the words.  One of my 6s in appearance says I'm beautiful, and the only 6 I have ever received in performance says that my service was consistent with my past reviews, which, for performance, are almost all 8s, 9s and 10s, with just a few 7s.  There is definitely a disconnect between the number and the words in both of those reviews.

So if a guy consistently gives 10's then their reviews are useless.   You might as well not review at all.  Furthermore, if you are giving someone a 10 and they dont deserve it, then you are screwing other guys out of their money.  I would rather get an 8 from a guy that gives all 7's, then a 10 from someone that hands them out all day long.

And this is exactly why TER offers the option of a review alias

Mainly because this is a review site.  It's why people join.  Any member has an absolute right to write a review, good, bad or indifferent.  If a girl provides poor service, people have a right to know.  If it affects her ability to pay her bills maybe she'll straighten up and fly right.
You are also wrong to say "NOBODY" will see a gal who gets a bad review.  In fact, most guys will still consider a girl who has only one or two bad reviews if there are also lots of good ones.

Step up and tell TER!  
Seriously!
This community is here for a reason!
And I have seen a couple of providers, especially on the Florida board that have been reviewed lately and the provider says if your not going to give me a 10/10 then don't review.  
What? That's bullshit. And the funny thing is, they get reviewed with 7/8/9's and then this type of behavior is mentioned, and the truth comes out about why they get 10/10's inderservigly so!

AMEN!!! That very thing happened to me recently and by the time the provider was done bitching to TER the review was unapproved (after it had been posted) and I was threatened with being banned! Top 100 lady and god forbid I gave her a 7 on performance. She went NUTS!!

After looking at their other reviews. I'm pretty sure those dudes that drop a deuce or trey are Aspergers or smelly or turbo fat or all 3....  

A few years ago I wrote a pretty nice review for a gal who had mostly 9/9s, but I gave her 7s because the session just wasn't that good.  And I didn't even mention that she had garlic breath! The review went up but was pulled after a few days.  Admin told me it was because they could not verify that the session happened.  Obviously, she wasn't happy with the 7s and told Admin the session never happened.  It's still in my "My Reviews" section marked "Unapproved."

leading up to the session saved?  

Yes, I know if you take "once in a lifetime" literally you should only give out one.  But that's not the way most reviewers see it and I don't even think TER intends it to be used the way you said.  If you doubt this, just look at TER's instructions on how to calculate performance scores.  To me a 10 is someone who provides the absolute best session possible, and it could not have been better. I give out very few 10s, but I'll continue to award them to the "best of the best."

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Disagree. When I was 15 the first guy I had sex with was a 10 then a year later the next guy was a 10 because I did not know any better. Well, same thing happens in hobby life. What would you want guys to do...go back and change all his past 10s to 9s because he found someone better after the fact? That's silly. If "in that moment" she was a 10, that is all he is scoring...not for the rest of his natural born life. Her timed session was a 10, and his next timed session might be a 10 as wel because there is no 11.  

Never thought to look.  Maybe it's in my PM file but I'm too lazy to look.  Anyway, I don't need credit for the review since I have more than 500 free VIP days.  Anyone who wants the name of the gal can PM me.  She's a fairly well known NY provider.  Again, a perfectly nice girl but we just didn't click.  
More important, back then I didn't really understand how TER's scoring system was supposed to work and, despite the lack of chemistry, based on the services she provided she probably deserved a 8 for performance.

In my work a bad review can seriously hurt my business also. Guess what,  it's the risk we all assume the moment we hang out a shingle.  Wanna sit at the big kids' table?   Then deal with it.

I do not have perfect scores, and I am GLAD! I stay busy too.. (well as busy as I choose to be)  

Everyone is DIFFERENT !  I can tell you this....if a providers is getting all 10s I'm VERY suspect.  To be honest I PM most of the guys that have seen the women I want to see and they tell me the truth.  After the first 4 or 5 women I saw, I started to PM guys and they told me what I needed to know without a filter.  If she was HOT, lean, in shape, or fat, baby fat or if she loved to fuck or suck of would lick his balls and CIM.   It's the BEST way to communicate with the TER community because it's private and they can say what they want without being called names and worrying about their own Rep.  Does that makes sense?   Have a great weekend guys...and gals.  I'm off to a date....AKA to get LAID  :  

How can you truly enjoy your time together if you are talking about "writing about" how much you enjoyed your time together. Seems a bit bizarre..surreal.

Yes life is full of disappointments. BUT, if you charge a very high rate and get bad reviews, nobody will see you. Guys think, "Well, I can see so and so for cheap and she has better reviews than the high priced girl. She must be better than her. The HDH looks like she's not as good as she used to be anyways since she has a new bad review."

then she doesn't deserve to be a HDH.  Why is that so hard to understand?  What has she done to earn it?  

IF it's a good experience and to only write a review if the experience is sub par to warn your fellow mongers.

They are many legitimate reasons for a lady to not want any, or any more reviews. She might be going UTR, she could have a stalker, or she might just not want to appear "high volume" all of those would be good reasons to "request" no reviews. A sub par or over rated woman who "demands" no reviews is quite a different matter, and no woman can expect you to keep your mouth shut after essentially ripping you off by not delivering what you were expecting.

London, I realize it's your time, but I wouldn't waste it trying to explain anything to these guys.

Why would you even bring this subject up during what is supposed to be an hour of sexual fun between you and a woman?  Do you really think you have anything to gain by this other than putting her on edge?

That being said...

If she has reviews you have every right to give her a new one.  If she doesn't want to participate in TER and the review system she can ask to have her profile and her reviews taken down.

Contact admin.  If you say no reviews than you don't get to advertise.  Contact admin for more information.  
But I think you just threw yourself under the bus darling!  
If providers request no reviews, then they are hiding something!  Age, Fat, Wrinkles, Hemorrhoids,  Etc.....
What are you hiding?

Posted By: SensualDomme

A lady can request no reviews and still advertise. Per admin, if a review is submitted, they will accept it. But, no she will not be banned from advertising... Otherwise my ads would have been deleted.  
   
 As far as manipulating the numbers, yeah, that's total BS and if a lady's game is where it should be, there would never be a need for that conversation. Secure vs insecure, plain and simple.

Almost the same thing happened to me!  She was top 100, I gave her a 7 because she cancelled an hour before the appointment, asked me to reschedule to the next day, then she was late, clock-watched, and cut the appointment short.  She freaked, told TER the session never happened.  When I proved it did, and the review stayed, she tried to black list me.  

I hate reviews! But I also understand why they are important. I prefer intimate moments to be just that. Only between us. But I completely understand why reviews are necessary to know if the girl is who she says she is, her services, and overall attitude. I get it. I agree with the no number system. I actually did ask 2 gentlemen to not review me after our dates. Not because i was worried about scores. It was for privacy reasons and that's all.  Now after reading this I feel like I shouldn't have asked them not to but I was doing it for their behalf,not mine.

not sure what they are trying to hide except bad service. I will not see a provider for 1000 and up that is not GFE for example. There are plenty of cute young women 18-24 that are gfe, reasonable and have a great attitude. Maybe the pricy non-reviewed providers do not want to compete with that? just sayin

I enjoy my reviews for the same reasons! If I didn't have reviews in the beginning I'd still be doing all the wrong things! I learn from my reviews whether they are good or bad. That is the beauty of it.