With my ATF's, what I read in their reviews by others doesn't exceed what I experience, and more often than not falls short.
But there is one time that sticks out. Back when I was a relative newbie, I read a review of my original ATF written on a night after she cancelled on me with a BS excuse about being sick, in order to attend an M&G. The next day, there were posts on my local board highlighting how great the M&G was, including a couple from my ATF. She even went as far as to call me that morning to inform me of the post, with a weak explanation not to read anything into it. A week later, the review pops up on her by some dude who went back with her for an afterparty date that night. The review made this clear beyond any doubt whatsoever. I was not happy, of course, and let her know that the next time she contacted me. She was apologetic, and a bit contrite. I could have fired her, but I saw her anyway, she threw in an extra hour, and arranged for me to get invited to the next NYC M&G a few weeks later, my first. So, it worked out in the end. That's about as unhappy as I ever got regarding a review. BTW, I still see my friend whenever she's in town. This happened over 11 years ago.
Sorry for running long. If a lady you see on an ongoing basis provides others with services that make you jealous, you really don't have an argument if someone posts a review of an overnight, and you've only seen her for hourlies. If there are menu items mentioned in reviews by others that she has not partaken with you that are of interest, mention this to her if you see her regularly.
Good luck hobbying, dude. You sound like you need it, and don't let the hostile audience here discourage you.
