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thirsty

no bbbj, no visit,that simple.

I think the CBJ issue is one mired in sexual politics. I think if you're going to charge escort rates, it really is sort of a necessary thing, unless the lady sees something unusual on the guy before commencing.

There is one lady who I'm dying to see, she charges $400, but it's CBJ, and that's putting a damper on the whole deal. I'm in the midwest this week and one of the Miami gals in my burg is a stunner, but she's CBJ too. Would have already booked if not for that little factoid.

To my mind, it's a trust issue. I realize a lot of ladies need to work on a "lowest common denominator" basis, but it offends me a little to receive de minimus service because of the (perceived or not) misdeeds of another.

I agree....I wouldn't see anyone a second time if it was a CBJ....When I first started seeing providers in mid 90's, CBJ was the norm at the NYC incall place I went....But those days are definitely done, (and so are the $200 hr. rates to, as appointments are much costlier now, but they are also alot more fun to!)......

Either one blows, sorry couldn't resist

Who wants their hose sucked through a sock anyhow!!

My first time was CBJ and she was sooo good at it and so beautiful that it was incredibly hot.  I just had a BBBJ recently from another and it freaked me out a little!

Don't get me wrong..I love it but it does make me sleep a little less!

Normally I would answer no, but a couple weeks ago I had a great CBJ that just kept going after I came. It was great, a lot better than a BBBJ with the old hand job finish. Just my opinion.

Well to be honest...it wasn't much of a debate

We'll have to cum up with a better chat topic next time.

thirsty

Not knowlingly.  Unfortunately you don't always know ahead of time what is on the menu--reviews get hyped, provieders change their rules, etc.  If I don't get a BBBJ I don't return--unless the fee is substantially reduced.  I don't feel I should be asked to pay for full serivce if a BBBJ is not included; to me that is part of full service.  

I get even more upset when somebody advertises a GFE and I find they don't DFK.  For me in addition to completing the act, a session must at a minimum must include DFK, a BBBJ, and DATY to be labeled a GFE.

Sadly, there is a lot of misleading advertising in this business.

I know what BBBJTC is also BBBJTCCIM but what the hell is BBBJTCNQS - Basically clueless about the NQS

It was decidedly dissapointing.
We even lubed up prior to jacketing the silo...
A silver lining is that more time was spent in FS  ;o)

I hope to join y'all (that's right, I'm local) but 8 pm is a little early for me to get online...

No Quit No Spit - basically CIM with a swallow finish.

DFK and BBBJ and DATY is a must for GFE then why not also BBFS ?? ( yes I am being sarcastic !! )

I can be safe and still do way much more then any GF will ever  do for you .

xoxo CindySpice

What has trust have to do with it  ???

What if the night before you saw me , you saw another girl who gave you herpes  ( or something else ) and you don't even know it yet . What has that got to do with me trusting you or not .??

FUNNY how in the 80's and 90's everyone kept safe and worried so much about it . Now in the 2000's it isn't a problem anymore and too many are willing to take a risk because "it just feels better "  

Was there a cure to aids I haven't heard about ??
So you don't die from Herpes so it is ok to have it ?? ( BTW having herpes puts you at higher risk to get HIV .)

But who cares as long as it feels good , right ?

You're off on a different tangent than what he was talking about.  Health is indeed one issue, but he's referring to providers that already offer BBBJ but not CIM.  They trust that the guy won't "let'er rip" with no warning.  When guys do the sneak attack thing, the provider may become hesitant to take BBBJ right down to the last seconds.

Well that also has nothing to do with trust . Sometimes it can "slip" , not to talk about pre cum .........

Either way looks like for many health is no longer an issue !!