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So what's the deal with FMTY?? Ladies, what's your deal..

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 1432 reads

posted 4 years ago

Do ladies ask for a 50% deposit? First class air? 4-5 star hotel stay (I would like to think that it'll be an overnight at your place). I see ladies promote it and I'm sure the terms could be negotiable...but what's the norm?
My experience...I think I've done a few FMTY, or I guess you can call it that..There's 4 ladies I know from LA who will meet me in Vegas almost anytime, 3 of them ask for air, no problemo, I'll call SW Airlines, make sure they get an "A" boarding pass and all the peanuts they could eat....But not one has ever asked for a deposits, or no first class seating, (SW..hahaha) and no 4-5 star hotel so in other words, no fuss no muss. easy peasy..But really, what is the norm??

636sd4 years ago72 reads

By the time

I'd even consider doing fmty, we're going to have a good enough relationship as to where there is no need for deposit or fancy demands. That said I'll fly them 1st class and I'll get them their own hotel room in whatever hotel I'm staying. All that said, I don't do fmty anymore. It's just not worth it. I'd rather just find a local provider. Now, off the clock, I probably have my regular providers join me on a trip every few months.

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QueenBia4 years ago74 reads

No 1st class needed.

Travel must be paid for & a 50% deposit to book. I usually stay with the friend flying me out to them. Domestic I have been flown to HI, LV, PHX & NY. International I have been flown out 1st class to Vintana’s in Cabo & we had a personal butler. The worst was a delayed flight for 10hrs at sky harbor airport.

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inicky464 years ago83 reads

Not a lady and never done FMTY

I prefer to do the flying. But I do get it that, if you're home-bound by circumstance and have plenty of bucks it might be a decent option.

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lopaw4 years ago74 reads

Re: Not a lady and never done FMTY

I AM a lady and have also have never done FMTY. I'm blessed with many fine local and visiting ladies in my large community. There have been a handful of intriguing gals from back east who don't tour in the wild West that I've considered it for a second or two, but my ADD kicks in and it's back to the local cuisine .

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GiaGenet4 years ago84 reads

It really depends on the provider (and the date)

For FMTYs I generally ask for a $500 deposit plus an additional fee separate from rate to cover transportation and accommodations, which I book for myself. Requirements for more bespoke arrangements will vary depending on what we are getting into.

I don’t expect to fly business class, but I do appreciate it. To me, the point of a FMTY is balling out and having a fantastic time. Obviously most of our needs can be met locally, but there is something undeniably exciting about traveling to be with a lover who, in that moment, wants you more than anyone else in the world.