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hokjock 22 Reviews 2246 reads
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I want to hear from the guys and the gals.

I've spent some time with a particular provider.  I find her to be trustworthy, safe, and responsible.  I'm planning a business trip to a nice location, one that is a popular hobby location.

I want to offer this lady an opportunity.  I'll cover her airfare and get us a high quality hotel.  I'll be out all day and she can use the place as an incall.  I only ask that she allow me to take her out to dinner each night.  So no overnights or late night meet ups.

Basically it's an all expenses paid trip where she can make money.  I'm only wanting some company in the evening.  Warm body to lie next to at night.  Intimacy is negotiable, maybe a deal on the side.

Ladies, is this something you would ever do with a client?  Guys, would you ever make such an offer to a lady?

Steve_Trevor90 reads

if she gets caught making money in your room, you will be in a LOT of trouble.

You could face a very aggressive and creative District Attorney:  
1. Pimping
2. Facilitating prostitution
3. Human trafficking
4. Running a brothel
5. Accessory before/after the act
6. Fraud (fraudulent use of the hotel room)
7. Wire fraud if she placed ads on the internet
8. Endangering minors (if kids were on the same hotel floor, or accessed the ads).

How many of these result in a conviction is irrelevant. Your life will be drastically impacted just by defending yourself in court and the public.  

Life is good - until you get arrested.  

 
The Cat

And the consensus is that’s it’s a bad ideal. Room is in your name, she get busted by LE, or some weird shit goes down and there’s a ruckus in YOUR room. The things that can put you at risk are endless.
Do a search, and you’ll have more reasons not to do it.
I’ve done something similar in Vegas but she only did outcall.

I wouldn't do it with just anybody.  Somebody I trusted was very safe.  Someone who has been in the business a while, well reviewed, screens her clients, etc.

I suppose I could just require her to get the room and I'll make arrangements to reimburse her.

first you like to see her only for a dinner date and then you write you like to feel her  at night next to you.. sounds like a dinner date with an overnight arrangement? ?
If you like to arrange to see her on your business trip and you arrange the hotel room she should be only for you and never - ever use the hotel room as an "incall place" to see other guys...

where I totally agree with all the previous posters, there is the issue of strangers being in your room where you may have some kinds of valuables and or personal information left laying (lying?) around.   Who needs identity theft?

 
The question now comes to this:

 
Is this gal so enamored of you that she is willing to give up several days of possible income to enjoy an all expenses paid vacation with you where she may get some income if you decide to pay her for sex?    If so, then good for you, go for it.

 
I would say however that you have a unicorn situation there.   Most gals believe, and right fully so, that it is their time and you have to pay for it whether you want a 24/7 fuck fest or just play tidily-winks.

 
Good luck no matter how it turns out and thanks for posting an interesting question    We could use more such posts.

My only valuables in the room will be underwear, lol.  Everything else will be on my person.

Perhaps it is a unicorn situation.  That's one thing I'm trying to uncover.

So far everyone has commented on the impact of the risk but nobody has commented on the risk itself.  The penalty for getting in a plane crash is death yet we still fly.  The risk is low.

I would really like to hear from providers who have been in this business a while.  Have you been arrested?  Have you been arrested by a client that you screened?  How many guys on p411 with okays managed to get there even though they're LE?

But you made your points.  You wouldn't do this.  Maybe somebody who had done it can comment on how they motivated any risk or why they were willing to take the risk?

CurlyW-NatsFan103 reads

You can pay her in cash for the room, and let her book a separate room just for incall in the same hotel..  Don't get tangled in legal web of facilitating prostitution..  

 
Also are you saying intimacy is negotiable? Hmm.. Why would you not want to fuck her at the end of the day.. What is wrong with you?  You must be terribly lonely. I feel for ya..

CurlyW-NatsFan84 reads

Geez.. Socrates. !! What do you think..  

 
If you are wiling to pay a hooker (whose job is to suck your dick) just for companionship, and top of that saying that sex is negotiable, what else you could be other than a very lonely man.... And listen, there is nothing wrong with being lonely.. It happens.. We live isolated lives sometimes..   But why do you need a paid companion for this? Just join one of the 100s of dating websites out there to find yourself a decent match, and take it from there..  

 
On top of that  you want to get tangled in legal web of facilitating prostitution? For real?

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My College years I worked for an agency that booked my calls & I was arrested, but I hired the best escort attorney in SD, so the charges were dropped. I would never trust anyone to screen, and book my dates ever again. There’s a risk involved when you agree to purchase the room in your name knowing she will be doing dates, and pay for her travel to do so. In law terms your pimping & pandering across state lines = The Mann Act.

I think it’s a bad idea. I would never. Let her buy her own room. She should tour on her on accord. You don’t really know anyone that well, unless you live together. Take her to dinner. Does she snore? Lol Smile for me! Overnights can suck if you don’t have chemistry. My personal opinion hope that it helps you make an executive decision.

So if somebody did this deal with you, what is the likelihood you would get them into some kind of trouble?

I don’t tour & I never post up in a hotel to see several clients. I only cater to 1 lucky gent maybe once a month. This is my hobby, not my career. I have many jobs. My primary is Super Mom & head of household. I would never be in this situation, nor would I entertain it. Sorry, but to answer your question no because my screening & safety checks are sold AF this late in the game darling.

worried88 reads

This is while you're on a work trip?!  What's your angle?  You want free sex or free time with her?  This is unclear.  

If one of my very favorite clients offered me this situation, I would definitely take him up on it.  

Obviously there has to be trust both ways And the client has to trust that the provider has strong screening methods so there wouldn't be any sketchy guys coming in the room.

I have gone on a few trips to Florida and invited a favorite client to visit me there and didn't charge him but I made it clear that if he wanted intimacy he'd have to pay an extra fee each time.

It can't hurt to ask!  

Plus you could always show her your post here and ask what she thinks about my answer 😊

John_Laroche91 reads

All expenses paid, maybe an allowance on top, and anything physical between the client and the provider are a la carte. The only difference was she only did outcall, but if you're comfortable having johns fuck in the bed you sleep in, have at it.

Personally, I think you should offer her an allowance on top of all expenses.  

You do leave out some key info in your OP. Have you overnighted with her locally, or are you married, so this is a unique opportunity? In any case, good luck. I hope she doesn't snore.

I could ask her to do outcall only, though it might make the offer less enticing if it means she might not get enough business.  I don't know the ratio of out to in on traveling providers.

As for beds, would probably get a room with two queens.  And I would entertain the idea of an allowance.

I did a similar thing several years ago with a traveling provider whom I had seen numerous times, including multi-day sessions.   However, it was my apartment, not a hotel.  She came to Chicago while I was working.  I paid for her airfare and meals, etc., and she did outcalls (no in call!) for four of the five days she visited, mostly while I was at work.  She was popular in Chicago at the time, so was able to fill up most of the four days (and one early evening)  with appointments.  

It didn’t turn out as I’d hoped.  I was looking for more of the great sex we’d been having.  Instead, she was tired, slightly emotionally off-kilter, and spent most of the evenings with me screening and confirming upcoming clients.  On other words, it was a business trip for her, rather than the more personalized rendezvous that I’d hoped for.  

(PS:  I’m a pervert voyeur and would even have joined her with her clients (had it come up), and the whole escort thing turns me on in a big way, so it wasn’t anything like that.)

All these bitches look at you as $. Don’t be dumb and pretend your Casanova

If you want this girl to be your dinner date, hire her in her home city! If you are traveling to a town that is rich with providers, hire different girls in that city! Variety is the spice of life!

bit the bullet and make it worth her time to be with just you, then you eliminate all the legal fears others have mentioned... she'll probably be more excited with the added effort you make and "may" make it extra special for you too...

As others have posted too many thing can go wrong….this ain’t a perfect world!

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