Thankfully I'm not associated with review sites because a lot of people like to be nasty and have unprotected heterosexual sex and I'm not into that realm of behavior, & I prefer female clients, but I've noticed a lot of ladies complaining about this thing called "negging". It's basically men that beg for lower prices while trying to use insults to do it.
If someone approached me like that, it would tell me that they were desperate, poor and agitated. That's not the type of person I want as a client.
I get that my preferences aren't everyone else's, but low-risk and low-volume seems like the best way to go.
you are perhaps correct saying you're not associated with review sites. I've never heard the term "negging" and thought it was a typo. But whining for lower prices has been going on for ever. Complain all you want but that's like pissing in your blue serge suit. It gives you a nice, warm feeling for a short while and nobody knows you did it.
Actually, negging is a word which means back handed compliment, but I think begging or nagging makes more sense here..
Blue Serge Suit. I had one of those a few decades ago. Nick, you're showing our age. 
And serge is so durable you can pee in it for years. I bought my dad one when he turned 90.
I learned that line years ago from my Dad.
"I'm asking for a friend." LOL
Yes unfortunately begging is really common in the regular dating world. It's a tactic made popular by incels to lower a woman confidence in order to also experienced it a lot from potential sugar daddies who wanted to give me a lower allowance which is what turned me on to being a provider actually.these men were broke and thought begging was the way to have cheap sex from young naive women.
As a provider I've only experienced negging from one man and I blocked him immediately. He actually went on to text me from his work phone and berated me for blocking him. I blocked him again 
I'll give his info for any ladies who want to avoid him. I don't even remember how he found me but good riddance. Stay strong and don't let the bad apples affect you. Being a provider is great if you throw out the trash quickly and stick with the sweet gentlemen
"B" and "N" are right next to each other on QWERTY keyboard.
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thank you for taking the time to join TER, since you say you are NOT associated with review sites, and get this off your chest. I always have protected sex, and that includes protecting myself from providers who have a chip on their shoulder. In your case, it's pretty easy to figure out. You like women, and if you had your way, you would ONLY see women, but there simply are not enough bi-female and Lesbian customers, so you have to see men in order to make a living, even though it disgusts you, so you focus on the negative aspects of seeing men and came here to whine about it. This is only going to make you job suck even more. I feel sorry for you, but this business is what it is.
Lol... the mere fact that she posted this threAD on TER is associating herself with review sites.
She also posted the same threAD on another review board site.
She's doing a real good job of NOT associating herself with review sites. LMFAO.
but it's difficult to attract customers when you start off saying your prefer women over men. Who among us wants to be with a woman who hates being with us? she didn't think this one through. Lol
My goal is not to attract the people on review boards. 🤭 Also, the only circumstances of which I've seen a male client was for hardcore BDSM, that I don't mind, since I like seeing men be and do corruptible things.
Sounds like I hit a sore spot for you! I must say, I enjoy that. 🤭
The only circumstances in which I see men are the ones eager to participate in hardcore BDSM. I do get the occasional nag to open to full service to men, but there's nothing that would make that worth it for me, especially seeing the screenshots of the review board comments plastered across social media.
working with experienced pros.
Negging is a practice endorsed or even taught by male dating coaches who typically focus on targeting insecure women. From UD:
Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances. This is something no decent guy would do. They say that the assholes get the girls, but I can spot negging a mile away and I reject these fuckers straight off.
Negging in civie pickup culture is employed against hot chicks who supposedly are use to "nice guys" paying them excessive compliments. This bad boy comes along and doesn't bow and kiss her feet, instead implies that she's not all that. This shakes her up a bit and into a different dynamic than where she usually sits.
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It's probably counter-productive with less than hot chicks, as they were more likely to have heard this before. it just makes them feel bad.
I'd imagine for it to work the woman must already have some tendency to lower her self-esteem. In which case I suspect there are probably other more effective methods of picking her up and hooking up with her. Or in this case, negotiating down to lower rates.
Just seems like a pretty dumb and extremely low percentage practice.
That said, I'm sure "negging" as you define it, does work.
It's the end of the month and rent is due...
She's the stereotypical SW with low self-esteem and daddy issues...
Lots of reasons why a SW would give in to negotiations, whether for lower rates or unprotected sex.
So, do you use female condoms or dental dams?
It could happen that the woman you are with just had nasty unprotected heterosexual sex!
Where would that leave you in your attempt to distance yourself from nasty unprotected heterosexual sex!
Rhetorical question, feel free to ignore!
Yes, I always use dental dams or other forms of protection when engaging ladies.
I do it all the time during sessions.
“Please don’t stop!”
“Please do that again!”
“Please don’t make me finish yet!”
Personally, I won't deal with people who are so damn cheap that they have to haggle prices. The so called clients should understand that we(The Providers/Escorts) are putting our lives more at risk
