i only bring this up because 2 ladies i am currently in email contact with to set up dates have both responded to my initial contact with "thank you so much for thinking of me!" as their first words.  i know in reality it's just good marketing, but it does flatter my male ego that a lady would thank me for my interest in her.  

I have been doing this for approximately 19 to 21 years. So, to me a "NICE TOUCH" is excellent communication(When it comes to details--So, that we are both on the same page), Some pleasant words of honesty ("Thank You. I truly enjoyed myself & I'm pleased. I will return.") &/or Great review/recommandations to others that maybe looking for females like us is a plus. I think that if a hobbyist likes the Provider, then He/she should spread the word in a respectful & Discreet manner.

When she responds with a picture of her wet juicy crack....lol.....Nah, BPJ, those are nice touches, have fun.

I love it when it's clear from her ads, web site, board posts, and emails/PMs that the provider has a positive attitude, is playful and fun-loving, demonstrates respect (eg professionalism) and kindness towards others, and has a sharp intellect/wit and knows how to use it. Also that she communicates clearly.  There's a few other things but I'll resist the urge to write a thesis on this subject.  

..hmmmm...maybe that's a big thing.

I just responded to a message with, 'nice to virtually meet you'!  

TER PM? no reply. and she even posted in the Ad Board.

I like that!  
 

Some of us providers get a bazillion emails daily.its impossible to respond to all of them if were getting 100+ emails at once.we don't sit on our phones or computers all day.Some of you need to be more realistic -_-

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So true, and a great point! I try to make it clear in my communication that I'm flattered and excited to be able to meet someone new.
Likewise, I love when a guy making an inquiry is polite, says Please and Thank you, and is general cordial and positive. It makes such a good first impression!

with a bazillion leads, you must be riiiiich after lead conversion

A little flirting goes a long way! Not just some dry respond. I like to see a little bit of personality on an email exchange!

I have that phrase on my website and use it in initial inquiries.

While some guys may wonder if it's something about them or their approach, you reach for the far more logical idea that we just don't care at all about business. It's true. We can't stand business. The ads, discussion posts, threADs, flattering photos, and review manipulation around here are all just for shits and giggles.  

A true ray of sunshine !  Thanks for sharing 😘

I find it absolutely shocking that women are not replying to your emails... just shocking.

If you respond to my respectful emails, I applaud you.

you seem to think that being controversial on a message board translates to being the same in private.

That was funny and totally unexpected 😂😂😂😂😂

That's nevah going to happen lol

tell me that my introduction email was one of the nicest ones she'd ever gotten. I got the warm fuzzies and I haven't even met her yet! We ended up riffing back and forth about a few things and I'm anticipating our visit

Whether or not they can successfully maintain a separate 'facade' in private, I do believe that it is a part of their character that will manifest itself in their actions and/or communication, to a greater or lesser extent.  

after a bbbjtcws. It's more real than a good marketing! lol