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The_Mrs.2160 reads

If you were married and not working would you be pissed if your husband saw providers?

autumnlee977 reads

I'm generally cool with folks doing what they need to do, I just don't like being kept in the dark

Panthera12962 reads

I noticed that your hubby is prowling around for pussy as we speak. I hope you didn't kick him out of the house or anything.
Make sure he has his pill box and medical bracelet with him. You know that we have always been concerned about his health and welfare, lol.

The_Mrs.972 reads

You'll b the first to know sweety haha

you should also ask the question, "How natural is it for anyone to be with one and only one partner and be completely happy..." Its like jumping off the cliff. Yes, you can get all mad at yourself for breaking your bones, or losing your life, although that would be ironic, but gravity is going to act no matter what....

Although, people may appear faithful on the surface, deep inside they are cheating on their spouse all the time. Fantasizing about having sex with different people.. They may not cheat for variety of reasons such as:

Religions Upbringing...
Fear of getting caught and embarrassment, divorce etc..

But deep inside, they do want to have sex with different people...There is no one woman which encompasses all the beauty in the world...

If one understands how nature works, the anger can only be mitigated

The misses says listeners miss the Mrs.

Translation... You are a weird dude...

If I am wrong, and you are saying that you are a provider that is currently NOT flipping tricks..
Your Husband is still fucking escorts, and you are jealous?
You should know that isn't fair.
You might have taught him that it is okay..
Now you don't feel the same way, and wish you could take it back?
It isn't right to blame him if that is close to what happened.

TheMrs. is well known to the old time posters around here, as is her hubby. And she is just starting a discussion here. (that's what discussion boards are for after all). She not only doesn't have a problem with her hubby seeing escorts, but she sometimes joins in, and yes she is a retired escort herself. Your Dad Nick can fill you in if you don't believe me:)

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And, yes, you do suck.  But Daddums still loves you.  That kind of love is unconditional.

Sorry Mrs. Sometimes I get confused reading through all of this stuff

tg_baby932 reads

Not married, but if my future partner and I are sexually compatible, I doubt I'll want to assume the risk and complications of a swingers' lifestyle.

If we're not sexually compatible but happy otherwise...then I hope he finds what he needs someplace else. Bad sex can be really...well, just bad. I really can't imagine being happy in a relationship like that, though

On what type of agreements the two of you have together or not.  

I was working and married in the past and he knew what I did before we got married.  Now if he participated in P4P, that would be fine because it's p4p.  Doesn't really mean anything.

BUT if he had fucked somebody for free, oh hell motherfucking NO that shit would have not flown with me.

According that most men aren't a 1 woman man, they are probably going to bring troubles to the relationship regardless if he is seeing a provider or just has females that he is with on the side. I believe that cheating is a trait that all men carry. Let's face it, men like variety, therefore, one woman is never enough for them at one given time.

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Are you kidding..........I would be pissed if i was working and my husband saw providers.......My money is my money and his money is our money.........LOL

no if I wasn't. We can get as bored or turned off if weight gain or he became sloppy as much as the guys do. The fact that someone else was servicing him and letting me off the hook, I say more power.

But since I think that this is an important and relative question, I am going to answer it as such.

1.) This is one of the key reasons that many providers (both active and retired) refuse to date or marry hobbyists- the allure of "strange" often eventually draws them back. Before you know it, they're back to their old "tricks," pun intended.

2.) The idea that current and former whores are somehow damaged goods and un-deserving of fidelity is critically flawed thinking. However, if you mutually decide to open up your realationship, it should be a two way street where you get to "play" as well.

Personally, I hope that you decide to have some fun of your own. OSP has always struck me as a big dick, and NOT in a good way. Enjoy!

The_Mrs.849 reads

How sweet. He has always thought the same of you and most OLD providers

PaulaDeen791 reads

I'll bet he did!  When that didn't work, he invented the Nurse who posts his deteriorating health updates on the board.  Maybe he thought SS would come running to be by his side if she knew he was dying?

I guess that rouse didn't work out so well, he killed off the Nurse, and had a miraculous recovery.  I think he keeps The Mrs around until he/she announces they have parted ways.  Wonder if it will be a tragic murder, or an amicable divorce?  The plot thickens.

It's appropriate because her character is a madam who runs a escort service in Washington, DC.

If I no longer wanted to fk my man, I probably would not care that he was seeing a provider. My views on cheating have drastically changed after being in this business, and I no longer feel it's the end all be all when you have a best friend and love for one another. Of course, if I no longer felt sexually attracted to him, that would mean I was going without as well, so I can't be so sure I would even want to stay in that relationship

PaulaDeen797 reads

the real issue with him is his left  hand ("the provider") is getting the attention his right hand ("The Mrs.") once was.   Looney Tunes isn't just Saturday morning programming :D

Judging by the number of "likes" on your posts, it appears that a lot of people know what you're talking about and I have no clue lol.

I would actually encourage him to see a provider. If you want more pussy without me getting any, you have to REALLY want it! Lol! Seriously though, I would rather it be safe, with clear boundaries, and with someone I can *reasonably* expect isn't going to turn into a whackadoo.  

If it was without telling me though, it would be an issue, but not because of the provider aspect of it. Not everyone needs to know everything, but I work best with someone who at least lets me know what's going on.

hell yes lol! But only because I see it like this, I am one of THE most open minded, accepting, women when it comes to sex. I love porn, I love to lick pussy, I like taboo, and kink, I like A LOT

So I am not a prude, or a sexually repressed wife. So I feel like, you want to try something new, then hell yes, I am down! There is no reason he should exclude me imho.  

Now if I was not the way I am above, that might change my thinking... But when I will go along with and try to fulfill all my husbands fantasies, needs and wants, there should be no reason we dont do it together.  

So yes, I would NOT like him seeing the hooker alone

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