Is this true for provider too and why do you say so.

You can never say all people act in a certain way.  But in general women like assertive men.  Jerkiness is a proxy for assertion, so yes, jerks tend to do better with the ladies than timid men.

I wouldn't start out by seeing her in the setting of a paid session.

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As for your question... It's not black and white, there are many shades of grey. Everyone's definition of a "nice guy" or "jerk" varies quite a bit.  

Please note that some of the line items are tongue-in-cheek.  They're  jabs at the PUA community and its teachings.

and not date nice guys, though they would like to hang with the nice guys as friends.

#1: Negotiate the rate. It's all about the money and she'll respect you if you ask for a discount because losers are afraid to.
#2: After you negotiate a discount and set up an appointment, cancel it and let her know it's because you got something better to do or you just decided to jerk off instead.
#3:  Set up another appointment, but stop for a hotdog with lots of onions on the way.
#4: Demand service before payment because you don't wanna get ripped off.
#5 tell her she's kind of fat compared to her pictures.
#6: Cum in her hair.
#7: After you blow your wad, flip on the TV and watch SportsCenter because you still got 10 minutes on the clock.
#8: Take a shower before leaving and soak the bathroom. Drop a deuce in the can too.

If I can be respectful, I absolutely expect this from a client. Why would I want to be around you if you're a jerk? There's too many polite, smart, wonderful people out there who I genuinely enjoy spending time with for me to want to waste my time. Jerks, go home.

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Based on my experience, most ladies say they like a nice guy and mean it.  The rest *say* they like a nice guy, but don't mean it.

I've been known to bring flowers to a first encounter. Even on occasions when I was almost positive that there would be no second encounter (touring ladies from far away who were unlikely to return to my area). With regulars, frequent small gifts, and sometimes no-so-small ones if I could figure out something they would like.

I love the nice & romantic guys!!

That is very simple -

Reading most of the provider profiles one thing that stands out to me is these ladies want to be treated with respect. Girls love newbie just to let you know. It is okay whatever speed is yours. Dont try to be you just be.

I would disagree with that theory.  The attraction to strong males is evolution in action.  Evolution favors the strong.  Of course a woman is likely to get a tingle for a guy she knows will kill or subjugate his adversaries.  Not saying that women don't have rational minds (well, maybe I do say that ) but everyone has biological impulses -- we guys get turned on by body shapes.  That's not some bullshit cultural relativism, that's a million years of natural selection.  So regardless what her rational mind tells her about jerks, she gets hot for the jerk as the sperm donor and protector and benefactor of her DNA legacy.  

Be Nice! You don't want to be put on a girl's DNS list!

yes, even though we claim to be "civilized" and skills like bear wrestling and sabre tooth tiger slaying are no longer in vogue, we are still hardwired for "survival of the species" and Jerks aka Alpha males still make the best sperm donors.  

i prefer nice guys rather than jerks. when you have someone nice there in my opinion. It just allows me to be more open as to where if I was around someone not so pleasant it would be me looking at the time instead of being able to enjoy myself and him. And also I'm a giver so if your not getting off or if your just not into it then it kinda brings the chemistry down. and nobody wants that.