Lately, I ran into few providers who were charging a lot but service was not worth. For example, there was a provider who charged 800 for an hour. During the session, she was about to do CBJ. When I asked for BBBJ, she said that it is 200 extra which I paid. She did BBBJ for less than a minute. So, in total, I paid 1000. I was done in 15 minutes. We talked for few minutes and then I asked for round 2. She said - Round 2 is available for extra charge. Really? 1000 bucks for less than 15 minutes session and just 1 round. It was really embarrassing as I was already in the session with her and realized that it is a complete waste of money.

No one likes to pay for something they feel they are not getting.
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But you didnt touch on how you found/vetted these women. Are they both well regarded/well reviewed and known for providing those services to others, or did you roll the dice and it was more of a TOFTT sitch for both?  
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With well verified women, you can usually get this info before you set the date but there are never any guarantees as other things, like hygiene for one, can play a part. But paying that kind of serious money and being dissapointed can be frustrating so I hear you.

I echo Robert’s points. Also, make sure to review them and save others from the same issues.

Yes, I scheduled the appointment after going through her reviews. It was like 90% positive reviews and rest 10% average. So, I thought it would be good to go.

800 an hour is riding the high bar for what im willing to pay. 1000 you are getting ripped off dude.  

Read the 10% "not positive" reviews carefully.  If the reviewer has a good track record (some good scores some not) then those tend to be more accurate.  Too many reviewers just give high scores to gain future favor with their provider.  

The upsell is the absolute worst. I know because I used to do it 20+ long years ago it's a rookie mistake. Look at me now! I am the ultimate GFE! I'm proud of my progress & professionalism. My reviews are, like credentials. 🫡  Pick a pro. A+ VIP - very important pussy! 😆

Without a doubt!  Well said!   Much better than the VUP.... Very Unknown Pussy

That sucks! Some reviewers are pretty generous.  Unless someone has pages of 9-10 rating reviews, I pay close attention to the few negative reviews bc they often tell the truth about experiences like you had.

Nobody is perfect. Everyone at some point in their lives is going to be taken for a ride. These are known as learning experiences. I've been fortunate to only have a similar experience just once, which was my first time. I had no interest in making the situation awkward, so I went about my business best I could so I could get the most out of it. Back then I didn't know about TER, but I was a member of a number of online forums, and I made sure to discuss my experience there. Those forums and some of the personalities I met along the way became invaluable in making sure that I did my best to never run into a situation similar to that again.

This is why I have a race/ethnicity box on my booking form. IYKYK.

Absolutely stunning

Definitely write a review!  Especially if she has reviews already, there seem to be a lot of fake reviews out there lately.  So we can hone in on the outliers, why is yours lower scores?  And it helps identify the fake review farms.

QB looks incredible in that photo!

Are you suggesting that certain races/ethnicities are cheap, and therefore you use that box to filter them out?

I’m really not trying to open up a can of worms, but let’s just say that there’s a reason every sex work related forum is full of Black men complaining about a good portion of escorts not seeing them once their race is revealed. I wasn’t the least bit shocked when Readytorock said he was Black on the politics board. No, I don’t feel bad for saying this because hobbyists stereotype providers all the time. It is what it is.

Pretty sure that's exactly what she (?) said. And she threw the cheap insult at him when he said 800 is the upper boundary?

their budget to a car salesman should be bitch-slapped.  Were you?"

If I had to guess, she didn't call him cheap based on the $800 alone. They've gone at it in other threads over much lower amounts. I'm not justifying it or taking a side, just pointing out that detail. But using race/ethnicity is bothersome. You can be cheap and any race, and you can be generous and any race.

You get it lol. No need to be neutral.

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This is exactly what TER is for. Write and submit the review so others will be aware of this Provider and can their decisions on who to see based on this information. Don’t be embarrassed that something like this happened to you. We have all (at least most of us) have been through something similar. Let us know!

Damn. Wish I'd known. I wouldn't have seen those last few ladies at 800 per, or that stunner for 1200.

Readytorock is who I was referring to. He also does BBFS, no deposits, and no screening. He’s a walking stereotype. I don’t know much about you, but you don’t sound cheap.

I will take your side on el cheapo being exactly that. Surprising how he’s treated you too. You’re his type and at a rate he loves. But clearly your personalities don’t match.

Have you now shifted that 90% positive, 10% not positive to something like 89 - 11?

post link of provider or it didn't happen

If that review is of what happened, than yeah… I get you.
Interesting is that she’s got some pretty good reviews, can’t say this is a case of YMMV here
But something went wrong … somewhere

I looked at the review history of OP, and yeah, if the recent April reviews are the ones in question, that's too bad.

Maybe it's just me, but I deeply prefer the simplicity of providing an all-inclusive pricing model. I charge for my time. And then we do what we like. That's it.

I'm too lazy to pay an upcharge.   Apparently, we have more in common than I thought.  Lol

His review history does open the question that maybe this “Lifestyle “ might not be his thing.

Seems most of the women he's seen gave him the same "2-minute" BJ. Could it be a conspiracy?!🤨

Consider a food critic who can have many bad experiences and still be in very much in the lifestyle of comparing and contrasting food.

He repeatedly receives, from his POV, poor service from women who otherwise have excellent reputations. The only consistent factor in these situations is him. That doesn’t automatically prove he is the problem, but it does suggest that he MIGHT be, and that is all Hpy was pointing out, I believe. Of course, he can correct my interpretation if needed.

According to what or whom? Their other ter reviews?

You said, “…people who complain about bad experiences publicly generally almost overwhelmingly had those bad experiences.” There’s really no way to know that. People complain for all kinds of reasons and some are valid, while others are not, and there’s simply no reliable way to veriffy his account.
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Also, why give the OP’s account more weight than all the other reviewers? What makes his version instantly more credible by default? It’s at least plausible the OP contributed to the situation (bad hygiene maybe?) or is leaving something out.
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All Hyp did was posit another possibility about the bad experiences. He wasn’t stating it as fact, just offering an alternative explanation. With so many unknowns, both his interpretation and yours are well within the realm of possibility.

Larissa Lins who he gave a 7/3 white listed him. Clearly, she agrees it was her not him. Nah, probably not lol. But wtf why did she white list him after such a shitty review?

I dont think I have ever seen that before. Certainly possible she thought she had a bad day, and that was her way of making it up to him? IDK.

I have to believe it was a mistake. I can’t imagine any scenario where an escort would knowingly white list a guy who just gave her a poor review.

I usually ask for a Whitelist right after our session.  The review takes up to 72 hours to post.  So perhaps, she Whitelisted him before the review was public.

I am of opinion that each voice matters equally. Just like in  
 a general election, both you and a bum off the street have the exact same power of vote.  

I don’t treat every voice as equal because some people have proven themselves to be more reliable than others. Also some reviewers are into different things than me, which means I’ll ignore their opinions as well. Would you ask a vegan to review a Steakhouse or BBQ restaurant? There are times where I have to made judgment calls and ignore someone or give their voice more weight.
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For example, there is a guy who reviews in my area and always seems to have a miserable time. He leaves a lot of negative reviews, very few good ones. There have been a few providers that we’ve both seen and reviewed. In each instance I had a great time and left a good review while he had a terrible time and left a scathing review. These providers had good reviews overall and he tends to be the only bad review. I’ve learned to ignore his reviews. I’m not saying that he’s lying. However he just seems to consistently have issues that don’t apply to me.  
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As you pointed out, it does go the other way too. There are guys that only give out 9’s and 10’s. Those types of reviewers give me pause as well. I’m not really sure if I can trust them because I’ve never seen them leave a bad or average review. I tend to discount their opinions as well.  
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I don’t treat every voice as equal because I’ve learned the hard way that some people aren’t worth listening to.

I agree with you on this. When looking at reviews, I’m a big fan of looking at a reviewers other reviews. For me, the best is when I come across someone who has seen a few ladies I have seen and our ratings are fairly close. Big red flags are guys who rate consistently high or low. I also take with a grain of salt if they haven’t reviewed many ladies. It’s hard to know how legit a review is when it’s the only review that person has written.

I use the reviews as a starting point and nothing more. Its the info i get by pm that is the difference maker so i have no let down about the reviews at all. I place them in their proper context and i.e. somewhat important, of course, but not the determining factor.

Why is that so hard to admit? Again, he is the odd man out so to speak. Does that mean he is wrong or lying? Of course not, but I can readily admit that.  
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You dont seem to ever admit that the reviewer could possibly be at fault like with my hygiene mention. If numerous women are only giving him 1-2 minute BBBJs, then hygiene very well might be the reason but you glossed right over my mention of that.  
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Can you at least concede that is a possibility here?

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Lemme tell what what I think, as I try to be that fly on the wall while reading a few of his reviews.Now I can't say exactly where things  blew up on him during the session but there's a number of things where I can say where things aren't going well., its a build up I see reviews where there's either a communication problem, or his expectations aren't met and he got antsy.
I'm not going to dissect blow by blow of where I see a problem but they're there.
I think of it this way, guy goes to a party, everyone is having a great time except him. Replay this scenario a few times and the conclusion is...it might be the guy.
That's my take....what can I say?

It just shouldnt ever be the assumption, because such an assumption implies groupthink and majority always being in the "right"

Thank you for letting me know about "Larissa Lins who he gave a 7/3 white listed him. Clearly, she agrees it was her not him. Nah, probably not lol. But wtf why did she white list him after such a shitty review?"

In the private forum there was one guy complaining about how there are too many positive 9/10 reviews, but then it was pointed out to him that he also only gives 9/10 reviews. His response was that he doesn't post negative reviews. Wtf

I am tired of these ladies who upsell or try to get you out as fast as possible . That is why I like nuru but I see you why ladies don’t do it because they can’t handle being in a room more than 15 minutes with guy. I like however like to play and tease and use. Nuru is allows me to do that while you go on an absolute wonderful chemical adventure until the moment I decide you can cum. The build up is what it’s all about not the cum and go. Hope the next one you pick treats you right. I might not be a stunner in looks but I make I up for with my Nuru and I darn orphans of that!