I don't think you are difficult at all .
I think it may be a bit difficult for people ( myself included ) who are very opinionated and not afraid to express themselves , trying to communicate what they want to say , while trying to keep it short and to the point......so sometimes what we want to say gets misunderstood or lost in translation ( for me English is my 5th language )
And it is ok to agree or agree to disagree .......not everyone has to share the same opinion .....
As long as one person isn't trying to force others to think as they do .
Yes we can have a debate , conversation , trying to maybe even convince another side to change their mind .
Like as the issue of Gay Marriage. I am all for people having the freedom to do as they want as long as they are not hurting other people .
One of the reasons that I have always been Pro - Gay Marriage. Not because I am a 100% liberal .
certain issues I am Liberal and on other issues I am Conservative , but that is probably a discussion for the political board
With that said - isn't the definition of FREEDOM is that we are FREE to do what we want/chose ?
But I also get people who may have grown up a certain way and therefor are against Gay marriage.
I don't agree with them , but I do get where they are coming from.
I may have a debate trying to explain to the other side why this is important. but I don't force them to believe what I believe in. and I expect the same from the other side .
that is where many of the double standards that I have a problem with in our society .
Both sides have problems . That is why I consider myself to be on my own side LOL LOL LOL
When you first compared Milley's twerking with gay marriage , I didn't understand why you did that .Now when you came back explaining it a bit more , I went OH ok I see why he brought it up.
I think that part of the reason that Miley's twerking is controversial is because even though she is a
legal adult ,( over 18 ) many still see her as the Hannah Montana Disney kid .
No matter which extreme she try's to go to , to shake that off.
You know like those fathers who say - My daughter isn't going to have sex until she is 35 !
Really ??? that is silly . But for some fathers their daughters will always be daddy's little girl.
Also another problem is that Miley twerked up against a 37-38 year old man . ( even though she is at a legal age )
It would have looked and felt different if she was twerking up against Justin Bieber. or Liam ( her ex )
and of course at the end of the day as an entertainer she still has to create a shock and Ahh to keep her name out there .
Anyways to your question - "What is the most controversial thing I have seen on TV" ?
Now keep in mind you are asking someone who isn't offended easily ( if all ) is very open minded , tries very much not to be judgmental about anything , has seen it all ( or at least all most

)
So not shocked that easily ......... I really couldn't think of anything ...... maybe something like -
If a public figure is admitting to doing crack , why is he still in office ???
Now I don't have a problem if that is what he chooses to do with his life and I am not judging .
His life , his choice
BUT I do think when someone is high, they are not in the position to make certain decisions......
So how is he even still talking about keeping his job ?? This isn't even about "alleged" anymore .
This is already - Are you freakin kidding me ??
OR probably something like Beastiality (although I have never seen it on TV ) that is where I draw
the line in my open-mindness .
Of course I am also against anything that would involve minors/rape/molesting , but maybe because that is discussed/shown so much more , it isn't as shocking ....... I mean it still always shocks me - OMG how can someone do that to a child ,.......
I hope what I am trying to say makes sense
Just because something doesn't shock me doesn't mean it is something I would do .
For an example, a golden shower . Not something I would want to do .
Not something that I fully understand ( but I do partially understand the humiliation psychological aspect ) As long as it is between consenting adults and no one is getting hurt , well who am I to judge or say - yuck gross .
Does that make sense ???
That is how I define , open minded with out judgment .
xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: bigvern
I don't find Miley's (I called her Molly LOL) twerking the least bit controversial. The same goes for gay marriage. I wanted to make a comparison between the two while looking through my conservative filter.
...if I thought Miley's Twerking was controversial, well how controversial could that be, when we live in a country that legally embraces gay marriage?
I don't think the envelope can be pushed any further. Keep in mind I'm factoring in things beyond entertainment, which is not fair to this conversation, but I can not over look those things.
Don't mind me I can be difficult to converse with.

I appreciate your summary of the topic at hand, and agree with what you're saying.
One more question, if you will...What is the most controversial thing you've seen on TV.
Not that I was offended, but I saw a chick on Mtv take a piss fully clothed.
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