Wondering if this same guy is harrasing other people. I don't know if he's really a racist just nuts or into some way too far role play but this same guy has been contacting me from different numbers and emails. Bothering me non stop saying nasty sexually charged racist things. I'm unsure of how to go about this.

Do not feed the troll; Like any troll he will go away if he does not get a reaction.  Unfortunately, there really isn't much more you can do as a practical thing.

Then block the emails and numbers. Every time he tries a new number, block it. These guys crave attention. Don't give him any and chances are he faded away. If he's only an email and phone troll, that's about all you can do. Ignore until he disappears. If he is actually someone who knows you or where you are located physically, (i.e. Former client), that's different. Then you may need to get police involved  (TRO) or some big threatening friends to scare him off.

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he can NOT touch you from either his computer of phone.  He WILL run out of telephone numbers.  Block EVERY NUMBER he calls you from and send EVERY EMAIL he sends you to SPAM, no matter the email address.

I see you must really hate this asshole

That's one LONG asshole there.

Just know that most of us think that behavior is deplorable.  
It's not indicative of most hobbyists and you have our full support.

That's what a woman who's being harrassed REALLY needs to hear... that it's not all men.

today's technology you can block anything.  

Just block all the different emails and phone numbers from the nut job.

who is disrespectful to providers.........considering all they go through to provide their service.  And....what's not to hate........this guy sounds like a very aggressive bully who deserves to have his head handed to him.  There are more than enough challenges in this world........without someone singling out a person for whatever..........

As others say, just ignore. Not sure if you recognize most numbers or not but if so let the one's you don't just go to VM. Email's a bit easier to deal with -- delete, mark address as spam....

Thanks for the support I guess. I've been blocking his emails and numbers he has. I was trying to see if anyone knew this creep so he could be stopped for good...

I appreciate this reply. He contacts me at least twice a day by email and phone I don't know if I'm allowed to post the nasty things he's said to me and the harrasing emails but I feel like he might escalate and actually try to see me.

does he have a TER profile?  Otherwise, how would one "know" him?

as much as i abhor politics on this board,.... + 1!

I think as far as posting things here you can always try -- you could even put a rating in the subject if you think some of the readers might be too sensitive to read it but clearly we're all old enough.

Not in the same sense as the providers but the mongers on this board clearly have accounts and possibly a review history.

And while mongers have accounts, no other members can look at them the way they can a provider's profile. Besides, not all mongers review.  In fact, most don't.  So I think Las Vegan was either being sloppy or talking out of his ass.
Only Ace Ventura gets to do that

Yes,  you could change your ads, web site addres, phones.  Screen all calls & messages. Or leave the old up but get new & tell your trusted clients your new address is your "private line".   Only give out your Private line after screening...  & you must screen more heavily.    

LOL