did a quick release, the recovery time will be short and fast. (It is a lot cheaper even if you have to order a new batch online.)
Just tell him that it is like learning how to ride a bike. Viagra is the backup training wheel. With his young body, once he got the confidence and the experience, he will be fine without it.
JMHO, this is better than introducing him to this hobby. In general, there is nothing wrong with showing a young adult the joy of hobbying. However, since hobbying requires quite a bit of money, if for some reason he got hooked onto the BBBJ, CIM, etc., he might do something stupid or detrimental to his future to get the quick buck.
In addition, since he has a girlfriend, hobbying might change his outlook on woman and destroy his relationship. If he really loves that girl, he might blame you for the breakup.
Let him know that it is all right to move slow, and stay on third base for a while.
He is still young and does not need all of the intensity that "going all the way" brings. That intensity is more than he can handle right now, that's all. And maybe fear of pregnacy.
You can tell him that it is OKAY to not have sex yet (Gee, actually wait until he is out of high school? What would Madonna and Christina A. say!). Less intense "safer" sex that he could have would be HJ only, or his girlfriend could show him how to fondle her clit properly (by giving a show, or by holding his hand).
If this is still too fast for him, let him know that it is okay for him to just kiss and cuddle, (she can wear lingerie if she wants) with NO SEX ALLOWED. That will take off any pressure. No performance anxiety. And if he is not mentally ready for sex/ mature enough, tell him it is okay to say he wants to wait a while.
If he is a MINOR do not take him to see a provider.
-SR
other then to tell him things that may reduce his concerns. All the best to you both. Harry
I think there are more issues that lie beneth what is really going on.
He is not ready for an escort. The issue might have to deal with sex, but setting him up with a woman will not help, not at this time.
Shaye
Holy shit~
Teach him about being safe. He is only in High School for crackers sake!
Going soft on a woman is not about being gay! lol. The first time is filled with expectations and nerves.
Tell him not to worry, nature will take over. By the end of the second time he will be able to pound nails with that thing! (Oh to be 17 again!)
If he is still having problems after a few more times, maybe then you get medical intervention, but after one time... please!
I'm no expert in child psycology, so I will save my long winded BS.
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I agree with some of the others, do not get him an escort.
Be ther for him. Give him advice. Let him know you love him and are there for him, but don't get him an escort. As cool as that sounds, it's not cool. If he lost his Father, and you are his uncle, this is not condusive to that relationship. He will ultimately lose respect for you, and the relationship will be changed permanantely.
It sounds like you've been a good role model for him. Not replacing his father, but still there for him in that role. Ask yourself, would his dad do this for him?
in the old country (across the pond), taking young men to a brothel for proper "education" was almost a right of passage, reserved for the upper-middle-class and aristocracy even ... the infamous brothels of Paris were famous for their tutelage to some of the most famous men of arts and letters
but dem dayz are gone (sorry, lost in reverie 
... who knows anything anymore ... but hearing a little guy cry over the fear of being gay is heart-rending indeed ... still, you don't know what can of worms you're opening up in his life by taking him to a provider ... touch call
i'd play it safe and send him to a counselor first
Ugh, don't take him to a provider. If he's inhibited with his girlfriend, he'll be even more nervous with a stranger in a contrived situation with a clock ticking.
