I consider the time spent with the women I see as a shared experience, hopefully mutually satisfying and enjoyable.  My arousal and enjoyment is directly related to my partner's.  With that in mind ladies, do you welcome a few questions about your sexual preferences upon our first meeting or would you prefer to let those desires become known in the heat of battle?

And here's why. For me, if I know that your level of arousal is directly related to mine, I tend to panic and shut down...It puts way too much pressure on me to perform and if you are not doing what it takes or there is no chemistry (remember you chose me) then I am left to do one of two things, get an Oscar or tell you "it's going to be all about you", as in don't wait for the earth shattering orgasm.

Now, given that you may have let it known that my level of excitement etc determines yours, I am more inclined to go the Oscar route, being as you paid for me to fulfill something.

Now do these preferences have to be directly sexual in nature? If not I love being massaged. It is relaxing and the more relaxed I am the better I am.

Maybe for moi, it's best of we get comfortable with each other and if everything is moving in the right direction I could possibly vocalize a particular preference. being asked after 5 minutes of meeting will most definitely give me the deer in the headlights look for a millisecond and after I recover possibly say, "let's see how things progress, you might surprise me and I might not have to tell you".

open up my bag of toys and ask how good you are at TER Jeopardy?

That's OK...either way it'll be fun

Well...more for me if you aren't good at TER Jeopardy!

And that "deer in the headlights look"...usually on Final TER Jeopardy only  LOL

So what is TER Jeopardy? Sort of like name that sex toy? I can do that. Good one!

But some ladies like to play with toys that can cause a bit of pain.  Clothespins may not look too scary...but after a while there is a definite bite to them.

So...if in TER Jeopardy we can ask questions like:

"Who is the most asinine poster on the GD board"....and if you said CCPA...that is wrong...SORRY

The correct response, and we would accept either, is McDonald or lungman

And since you got it wrong...two clothespins get attached to some part of your anatomy.

So you can see that staying up on TER events is crucial in playing that game.

Perhaps I can ask London if she would like a rematch?  Sort of like the "Tournament of Champions"  LOL

Hi CPA,

Since you didn't put the answer in the form of a question the lady would have to put a clothespin on your appendage & watch in delight @ your response!! HA!!!

Clothes pins to the tips of my ears. And I would have chosen breather boy aka lungman.

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You have to put the clothes pins on.....and I won't be mean, each nostril...must be booger free afterwards though.

And if one gal is the "contestant", and the other gal is the Vanna (Domme) character...

Well, that is a lot of fun as well.

This is supposed to be fun, isn't it?

choose me for what neighbor??

breather boy keeps premature infants alive...show a little respect.

I think we all agree keeping someone alive is awesome but really, we have doctors and nurses on here and you don't here them using the "I keep people alive" card.

I was once in the medical field and saved lives. You took offense at breather boy...lung man..get it..nope right over your head.

And respect is earned and you on here ..well since I am not needing your medical expertise and I read some of your crap, you don't deserve my respect.

for me, it's important that such things are known about each other long before we ever meet. because i always screened for compatibility, it was typical for me to spend weeks or sometimes even months in communication with a new gent before ever even discussing a meeting. during this time we will discuss everything from that embarrassing incident in kindergarten to the wife and kids, the job, life philosophies, and everything in between and around. our personalities need to be complementary as well as our sexualities. this does not mean discussion need ever become sexually explicit, but over time i should know a man well enough to understand his needs and desires, in and out of the sack. so when we finally do meet (if we meet), it is just a matter of fitting the final piece in the puzzle.

i am not one of those providers who acts or provides a "fantasy." i developed genuine relationships with my clients, many of which turned into actual friendships (as in, they are welcome to dinner with the Hubby and i friendships). so the importance of compatibility cannot be overstated.

and i have to agree with saturnsky that any man saying or implying that his pleasure depended utterly on my own would make me very uncomfortable. not just because i am a pleaser myself, but because it creates immense pressure and you are basically setting up someone to fail (the provider, in making you happy). not a good thing.