Thankfully I'm not associated with review sites because a lot of people like to be nasty and have unprotected heterosexual sex and I'm not into that realm of behavior, & I prefer female clients, but I've noticed a lot of ladies complaining about this thing called "negging". It's basically men that beg for lower prices while trying to use insults to do it.

you are perhaps correct saying you're not associated with review sites. I've never heard the term "negging" and thought it was a typo. But whining for lower prices has been going on for ever. Complain all you want but that's like pissing in your blue serge suit. It gives you a nice, warm feeling for a short while and nobody knows you did it.

Yes unfortunately begging is really common in the regular dating world. It's a tactic made popular by incels to lower a woman confidence in order to also experienced it a lot from potential sugar daddies who wanted to give me a lower allowance which is what turned me on to being a provider actually.these men were broke and thought begging was the way to have cheap sex from young naive women.

"B" and "N" are right next to each other on QWERTY keyboard.

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Actually, negging is a word which means back handed compliment, but I think begging or nagging makes more sense here..

thank you for taking the time to join TER, since you say you are NOT associated with review sites, and get this off your chest.  I always have protected sex, and that includes protecting myself from providers who have a chip on their shoulder.   In your case, it's pretty easy to figure out.  You like women, and if you had your way, you would ONLY see women, but there simply are not enough bi-female and Lesbian customers, so you have to see men in order to make a living, even though it disgusts you, so you focus on the negative aspects of seeing men and came here to whine about it.  This is only going to make you job suck even more.  I feel sorry for you, but this business is what it is.  

working with experienced pros.

Lol... the mere fact that she posted this threAD on TER is associating herself with review sites.

but it's difficult to attract customers when you start off saying your prefer women over men.  Who among us wants to be with a woman who hates being with us?  she didn't think this one through.  Lol

Blue Serge Suit. I had one of those a few decades ago. Nick, you're showing our age.

And serge is so durable you can pee in it for years.  I bought my dad one when he turned 90.  

I learned that line years ago from my Dad.

"I'm asking for a friend."   LOL

I'd imagine for it to work the woman must already have some tendency to lower her self-esteem. In which case I suspect there are probably other more effective methods of picking her up and hooking up with her. Or in this case, negotiating down to lower rates.  

That said, I'm sure "negging" as you define it, does work.  
It's the end of the month and rent is due...
She's the stereotypical SW with low self-esteem and daddy issues...

So, do you use female condoms or dental dams?

I do it all the time during sessions.

Negging in civie pickup culture is employed against hot chicks who supposedly are use to "nice guys" paying them excessive compliments.  This bad boy comes along and doesn't bow and kiss her feet, instead implies that she's not all that.  This shakes her up a bit and into a different dynamic than where she usually sits.  
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It's probably counter-productive with less than hot chicks, as they were more likely to have heard this before. it just makes them feel bad.

My goal is not to attract the people on review boards. 🤭 Also, the only circumstances of which I've seen a male client was for hardcore BDSM, that I don't mind, since I like seeing men be and do corruptible things.

Yes, I always use dental dams or other forms of protection when engaging ladies.

Sounds like I hit a sore spot for you! I must say, I enjoy that. 🤭

The only circumstances in which I see men are the ones eager to participate in hardcore BDSM. I do get the occasional nag to open to full service to men, but there's nothing that would make that worth it for me, especially seeing the screenshots of the review board comments plastered across social media.

Personally, I won't deal with people who are so damn cheap that they have to haggle prices. The so called clients should understand that we(The Providers/Escorts) are putting our lives more at risk