For an oily massage do I need to buy special massage oil or will baby oil do just as well... Thanks...
Check out the link. I plan on doing something like that next week.

on where you want to end up, you might want to make sure the oil is latex compatible.

...it can work as a massage oil as well as a lube that is safe for sensitive areas, hypoallergenic and won't break down latex. It is also relatively inexpensive compared to commercial massage oils/lubes.

It ought to be outlawed as it makes me break out.

In any case, I use almond oil.  It is unscented, very good for the skin, and is absorbed by the skin so that it doesn't end up feeling greasy.

Drink plenty of water before and after the massage as oils are dehydrating.

Everywhere I've looked, every credible source, indicates that ALL OILS break down latex.

... I was completely mistaken. Vegetable/plant oils bad for latex. Thank you!

It's a great oil to cook with, grapeseed...high smoke point and very light flavor.

Why not simply use a non latex condom? Then anything you'd like to use for the massage is fine