I haad it happen to me a few weeks ago and it was with one of my favorites but it got me thinking. How often does it happen. For me that was my first. I've had some last minute cancels which is close to the same but to hear nothing suck from both sides. I'd say I'm 5% or less but I do a lot of homework. Any estimates on how often it happens? And then how about the cancellations under 24 hours? I'd say the number goes way up. 20 to 30% depending on how far out it is booked?

I just had my favorite provider cancel on me two hours before we were to meet. An hour earlier she had given me the hotel, and an hour later she had to cancel.

...milk and cereal for her kids?

A NCNS doesn't work with me, especially on a very first Session. If I made an appointment with a Girl then she NCNS with me I'm done with her. No Second Chance with even if she has Great Reviews. Now if I've seen her a few times and she NCNS, then I'd be more Understanding.

If she fails to contact you and you are sure she is avoiding you, feel free to trash her online.  Don't rush this.  You would not look good or feel gook if you trash a girl and later find out she was in the hospital...death in family...etc.

About 9 years ago, I had 3 NC/NS in the course of about 3 months, then nothing until last year when I had 2 over 6 months.  I think that is not bad considering how many appointments I make.

As for last minute cancellations, I had one this year, and that's the only one I can think of.

and cancellations under 24hours, another impossible to guess. This stuff rarely even sees the  light of day.  

I had scheduled with a provider and been talking with her for two weeks. Was verified and all things were good. I had plans to be in NYC and while I was on the train there I get a message from her that something came up in her civil job that she won't be available for the weekend. True or not I don't know. She apologized and offered a discount on a future visit. Haven't decided if I will book with her again. I was lucky and could schedule something else last minute and it turn out to be a great experience. If it wasn't for that I would have been very upset.

Clients & providers alike...  Most clients who do a NCNS are prob on a blacklist Listed by a provider . You guys should do the same,  sooo inconsiderate... Like one has nothing better to do then sit around waiting for cock or pussy....

Yes, she knew about my travel. I've seen her several times.

I can't agree more.
Frankly I am tried of hearing providers complain that NCNS only affects them.

I had over 8 no/no show or cancel at the last minute from thursday till today. I just moved to san fran and its pretty hard networking here. The little calls i do receive are typically play calls or no call no show or last minute cancelations. Im not used to it and Im curious if a guy is not serious about the appointment why book one. just simply follow up with a decision.

One time I came close after a car wreck, but I still called said guy and scheduled the date 2 hours later, after the police left...I'm that good of a business person, and I was not hurt at all. My thought process was, "Well this wreck is going to cost me a pretty penny until I can collect on the insurance, so why would I toss hundreds of dollars to boot?" I find it tacky to not take 10 seconds to send a text and inform someone of your issues, unless you are in the middle of nowhere without a phone, Ipad, or PC, and how many people does that really happen to in 2013, where we live for our gadgets lol.

So I'm going to speak my mind !!!  It is just disrespectful on so many levels. As a provider we prepair to see the gentlemen from putting time out of our schedule to getting dressed and making our self look the best we can to driving to the location we are to meet at  Ect....

what is even worse is when they run you around for a couple of hours and then still stand you up!

Took a shower, closed my eyes for a minute and woke up the next morning. My phone had blown up with texts, I felt horrible. I sent an apology, but never got a reply. I think I'm on her shit list

I know smh thats the only reason I even wrote on this thread.
A few weeks ago a individual stood me up .  he booked me 2 weeks in advance I confirmed with him the day of. then before I left my house I confirmed once again to let him know i was on my way and that I would be there at the time we agreed apon. all was set to go then I get to the location and it was if this individual lost his phone because I never heard from him again. What made me feel even more stupid is that I sat and waited for about 30 mins just as good faith because what if he had really lost his phone or something happend ... I was very upset !!!! Lol  then two weeks later he contacted me and said oh I'm sorry I had to go to the airport on an early flight but I will be coming back in a few days would you like to reschedule I never replyed back to him I wanted to tell him how I felt, but that would have gotten me no where. all he had to do was call me and say he had to leave. To be honest I live 10-15 mins away. So your telling me that in 15 mins you just had to up and leave town. sorry that's kinda of unbelievable ... "VERY UNPROFESSIONAL"

message her ONCE only "Missed you.  Are you OK?"  Ball is then in her court.

If you're a provider and you have set up an appointment and there's a reason you can't show up you should always call the gentlemen so then they can at least book another lady for the night. If you're a hobbyist and do have to cancel but don't call it's just as rude because the lady may have used all the gas she had to drive to your location or if t's an incall she may have told another hobbyist that she as busy at that time then she misses the money for both and hotel rooms are expensive. It's just common curtosy on both ends.