And when TOFTT what are some of the things you take into account? E.g. Website, ads, photos?

I only hobby so many times a month.  So I can only go with reviewed ladies

Don't have the extra money if we don't match up.

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I've done 25 reviews ,one was rejected never to be posted, and I have seen one lady that had no reviews. Not counting the ladies I have seen that were not reviewed at the agency  where the sun was  shining and the wind was blowing.
Back in those days I didn't consider their new talent as TOFTT .

If she has a website with detailed contents, she's most likely not a cop. You have to eliminate the possibility she's LE by knowing more about her. LE normally don't put up elaborate websites to entrap you.  They may do a ad on BP or CL.

If she has a lot of pictures, not just 1 or 2 - then she's most likely not using fake photos. 1 or 2 photos is not enough for me.

I also interview the lady before TOFTT and ask all questions straight up. I tell her "well, since you don't have reviews, do you do this and that". If she gets offended for these straight questions, then there's no way of knowing what's she really offering except her time being with you. The honest ones will say "I do CBJ but not BBBJ". Some will even say "I do not do Full service or GFE, just body massage." Got to be clear on that!

Lastly, she has to be quick with communication via email or text.  If she does not communicate well, the risk factor goes up that she's unreliable, unprofessional, or a fluke.  I got to see that she can hold interactive communication between us - several emails.

...unless she was with a reputable agency.  If you are considering this, you need to search all the photos you can find with tineye and google the phone number and search in other places.  The professionality of a website (and even a website at all) counts a lot, as most cash-and-dashers don't have websites.  

Most of all, you need to go in there with you spidey senses tingling, and GTFO if she does one of the following:  tries to upsell you, asks for your license to call someone and say that you got there, or the photos you looked at aren't her.

to me by a provider friend, or (perhaps a bit less so) but a highly trusted hobbyist.

Unless it includes a recommendation from someone I trust that either (A)doesn't review, or (B)can't because they're a mod.

Other than that, I find it hard to wrap my mind around seeing a lady without reviews.

I'll admit, when I started this, I saw a lady off the Strip in Vegas. But she was too good to not fuck. Know what I mean?

I was lucky.

But knowing what I know now, that was fucking stupid.

And now, I'm actually glad I'm in the position(I said position!) That I can be more careful as far as my criteria as to whom I see.

BTW, got a review coming up in a few days!!!

I have few enough opportunities to see new providers these days, I want t o stack the odds in my favor.

I started to see escorts 4 months ago and have seen 12 ladies sense then. Only 10 had reviews. The other two were validated by other means. One my wife knows and the other was a double with a lady that had referrals. Also 7 years ago before I heard of TER I went on one date and it ended badly. She had no referrals that I know of. But I don't count that time because I didn't know better back then.

Have had some good times on the cheap. Haven't regretted it yet.

but at least I did not have to worry about LE or a total B&S. And my agencies always find a way to make it up to me very generously if I am unhappy.... which is pretty rare to tell the truth, but it does happen....

BOTH were excellent adventures. Not likely again.

For my crowning acheivement, SamPerDiem.

Would never cold contact a lady unknown and untried.

However.

I stumbled across Sam at the pool in Vegas and after nearly half a days worth of conversation and staring at a perfect  nineteen year old body in a sexy string bikini I caved in and felt confident / horny enough to take the chance.

That first two hours spent together was repeated again later in the sameweek.

I came across her as she had begun to post on this very board, and became intrigued with her.  We started almost daily email correspondence and I decided to set up an appointment with her.

As it turned out, she got her first review just a few weeks before we actually met, so it wasn't pure TOFTT.

She was dynamite too.  I saw her several times but unfortunately she retired shortly after.

I only hobby occasionally & I am unlikely to TOFTT.  Still, I would consider it IF I have a good vibe about her from a preponderance of data.  A web site is a must, several pictures from different angles (not explicit necessarily but showing a lot of skin), the chance to get to know her through phone & e-mail.  Her presence on the boards.
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[QUOTE]I also interview the lady before TOFTT and ask all questions straight up. I tell her "well, since you don't have reviews, do you do this and that". If she gets offended for these straight questions, then there's no way of knowing what's she really offering except her time being with you. The honest ones will say "I do CBJ but not BBBJ". Some will even say "I do not do Full service or GFE, just body massage." Got to be clear on that![END QUOTE]


IMO,if she answers those questions at any point, you may have more to worry about than whether or not you're going to get the services you're looking for...

By the time I ask those questions, I've already done due deligence and made sure she's not LE. I've already background check her by then. And if I was not for a tiny bit sure she was not LE, I would not ask.

Gee, wonder who that could be.......