Happens all too often. Made an appointment with a lovely girl at well regarded incall place. Got there and was told that she was "about to do another session". I guess they assumed that the typical customer is desperate enough at that point that he'll tolerate such idiotic conduct. So sorry, but after a break in period of coming to understand what I will and will not put up with, my policy is to walk rather than signal that I will accept behavior like that in the future. So, I got dressed and prepared to leave. Didn't get mad or point a finger. Just made it clear, you pull bullshit, you don't get my dough. End of story, O.K. ? To my surprise, they went and got her back from her "other session" and profusely apologized. The other guy must have been pissed as hell,'cause she's a pretty lady.
But, Yo, I am paying the same hourly rate that I'd pay to a degreed professional, and I demand professional conduct when it comes to agreements about time, price, or service. Mess up or jerk me around, and I get angry, not pitiful, horny, or desperate.
Whining is the absolute worst. Whiners get the boot with no discussion, no recourse. I have gotten up off the bed, five minutes into the hour, all this in a nice, "upscale" place,
told the girl very firmly that I didn't give a damn what she thought, told the management she was an idiot, and left.
In general, the way people conduct themselves in small matters, like how they handle communication, is a major tip off to how they will handle other issues. Ever read Mark McCormack's book "Things They Don't Teach You In Harvard Businees School" ? He looked at everything a person did as important infomation about their probable future conduct.
I'd infinitely prefer top be with a lady whose behavior indicates self respect and respect for others than an egocentric emotional cripple who likes to spread the pain.
Remember what Mark Twain said: "Don't bother trying to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and it annoys the pig."
