I have noticed that sometimes Bi female providers don't like clients giving them daty. The $64 question is why ?

One bi female provider me that she only lets other women do that to her.

It seems like hetrosexual female providers enjoy daty more. Sometimes they tell you to stop "Oh it is too sensitive", but yet you can pump away.

Do female providers feel like they will fall in love if a client gives them daty ?

I am amazed how wet female providers get after you give them daty. They become complete freaks and really enjoy themselves.

Had only one encounter with a bi-female who advertised FS.  It was one of 2 times that I never posted cause I was so pissed.  Got started with kissing and she said, "I don't do that".  Moved down to titty playing and nipple sucking, "there sensitive".  Went to DATY and maybe got 3 licks in where she said, "I save that for my girl friend".  Put the condom on since she didn't want to and tried MISH where she said, "I don't do FS".  Things went south after that where she tried a crappy massage but Mr. Happy have given up.  After words were said, the good thing was that she gave me back my money.  I'm happy that I nolonger see her advertized on EROS and Room Service 2000.

1. These women are most likely not bi but lesbian and don't want you going there.

2. women do not "fall in love" from DATY.  Check your definition of "love."

3.  The clit gets sensitive from DATY and yet you can "pump away" during intercourse becuase the clit is not getting such intense stimulus.

Very simple answers.

Of the two very bi women I know and have been with, both enjoy men only for intercourse, and prefer kissing and DATY just with women...  Perhaps it is, in fact, too intimate for them.  Both really prefer women, and are somewhat anti-men...

One feasible theory puts bi and homosexuality on a continuum: at one end there is the strictly homosexual, at the other end the strictly hetero, and in the middle those with equally split tendencies.  We all lie somewhere on that continuum, according to the theory.

Maybe you need to find a bi provider more on the hetero side who does still enjoy and is not repulsed by men.

Please stop...you're killing me.

Your post is full of conjecture and generalization, and for someone who is using an alias, it is not laughable, it is irritating.

Again...what the fuck is normal?

Among adults, Normal is what you like, perverted is what you don't like!

My post is not full of conjecture and generalization. I had noticed some behavior and wanted to know if people have experience the samething that is why I asked the question.

Nothing is normal that is why I used the alias to get people to read the post.

1. These women are most likely not bi but lesbian and don't want you going there.

Why in the world are they being providers to males ? Is it just for the money ?

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I suspect easier for Lesbians to be providers (albeit probably not really excellent ones) because they can view it as just a job that doesn't detract or threaten their emotionally committed involvement with other ladies.

Not every lesbian has self-identified as a lesbian from an early age. Also others that did may have resisted for fear of peers, family, church, or school ostracization. So later on in life they make some difficult choices. In no particular order:  a) they came out of the closet and  b) they became a provider.  It is conceivable that they do not view men as anything more than a job. And perhaps the intimacy of DATY is something they are uncomfortable sharing with some guy that they'll never see again.  Perhaps they cum easily from DATY and choose to never do that with a man. Perhaps their partner has said I understand this is your job but there has to be some special moment that is ours only.  A similar question could be to any man who has thought of swapping - I'll bet there is something that you don't really want your wife to do in a swap - is it dfk? is it bbbj?  You might be okay watching her bang away rcg (covered of course) but if she ranked that condom off and begged for his big load and swallowed you just might be upset?

Can you tell it's been a loooooong time since college health class?

Yes it is for the money.  I know of several totally lesbian escorts who freely admit they are in it for the payday.  They don't like sex with men but the money is a huge draw.

are we sposed to register suprise here?

LOL not at all.  I was just answering the man's question.

To start with I am a bifemale. I am not a provider and I don't plan on becoming one. Don't get me wrong I have all the respect in the world for them and for what they do. I'm a hobbyist like most of you here. I also have my opinions like you.
  Have you ever thought that heterosexual women may have only had men do this to them? If a bisexual woman or lesbian performed DATY on her, she probably would prefer a woman do it rather than a man. As a bifemale I know how I like it performed on me and I use the same techniques that I like on them. Keep in mind not all women like the same things done to them, so you will have to take the time and explore some to find out what they like. You have no idea what really feels good to her. You assume that she likes it because you are enjoying youself. Most men think that they can just jump down there and start in on the clit, well it may work for you sometimes but not very often.  
   By the way it's her P***y and if she don't care for you to DATY then respect her wishes.

Nothing to be potentially jealous of.

Ahem! Hello, my name is Michelle, you don't know me, but....... umm, I uh, read your review, and umm....bookmarked it, and uh...was wondering, um, if you're not the fuzz or anything and uh, wanted to maybe, next time you're in the mood, book *me*, because that was one freaky hot review!

(P.S. Guys stop laughing... You think you have a hard time reading that review, geez... It's like Highlander when you find a reviewer like her...I'm serious!)

Actually, one of my absolute all time faves is not only a lesbian, but is in a committed, long-term relationship and sometimes tours with her non-provider mate.  (i.e., mate travels with her but is not there during sessions.)

Everyone thanks for the replies. This will be helpful for me and others in the future.