I have seen and reviewed many providers from many parts of the US.  For the most part I have had a great time.  Some were not so hot, but more in the rudness and "didn't click" catagory rather than due to lack of brain power.

I recently saw a lady who left me rather puzzled.  She was nice.  The service was very good.  Her reviews vary, but over all are firmly in the 7 and above for performance arena.  We had an extended session which included dinner.

Because of the dinner we had time to talk and explore fascets of our personna other than bedroom antics.  She wasn't rude nor was she unattentive.  She just seemed...slow.  And by this I mean mentally less than average.  I was rather taken aback by her lack of ability to converse on anything.  It became somewhat awkward for me at first because I thought I was asking things that were too personal such as. "Where where you raised", etc.  But it eventually became clear that she was not uncomfortable with me as though I were prying, but that she was pretty much just not there.

It made me realize that I guess that I have been exposed to a fairly astute crowd here in the TER discussions.  And that the escorts have been fairly bright women.  Women in some charge of their lives with a conscious mind as to their activities and the consequences (even if in denial) regarding escorting.

As the evening progressed I felt odd, but not uneasy.  I knew that I wasn't taking advantage of her.  After all there had been many before me.  I noticed that, though she had taken steps to groom herself, she had chosen colors that didn't match well and such.  Not in the punk or avant guard on purpose sense, but rather in the sense of just not getting it.

I came away with a strange feeling of having had a very nice time sexually, but with a sense of wanting to be protectively kind to her.  She is such a nice girl, but really just doesn't know.

I'm wondering how she ever ended up in the business and how she takes care of the "business" part of the business.  Obviously other guys have seen her.  Was I duped?  Do others feel as I do that most of the providers and clients for that matter are at or above the IQ median?

I'm posting this under an alias (much to the chagrin of some of my fellow posters on this board) specifically to not disclose the names of the ladies I've seen and thereby exposee them to  scrutiny as a result of the topic.