I don't expect any responses, just thought I would share something interesting, never happened to me before. To place in context, BBFS. Not would you do it.......kind of????
I was with a fantastic lady about a month ago. First time visit and she loves to play with toys while giving head. This part is important to my story. I had read in her reviews she likes do to the stripper pole action, some outside grinding, as she was a former dancer. So we are doing that, and it feels a bit warm and moist, so much so I am about ready to loose it. I share that fact so she slides off me and returns to giving me a BBBJ. So now I am ready to fuck and she prepares to mount me CG. Alarmed, I ask, "Hey, what about the condom?" She giggles and explains she had inserted a female condom with her toy, and I must have missed it. She also informs me that there was no stripper pole action, but that I was inside her. I felt so stupid. Upside, it has been a VERY long time since I benefited from a female condom. So ask yourself the question, you have a VERY hot lady about to ride your cock, would you stop the action or be too caught up in the moment? I must confess, the thought did cross my mind of not saying a word before insertion.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TlsOyL0Z_po
Provider I’ve seen several times before got ready for cowgirl. I said something like, “Uh, forgot the cover!” She looked embarrassed and said something like, “Woops, sorry about that!” and grabbed the cover that was stashed under the pillow.
I know her well enough to believe she just got caught up in the moment and forgot. A similar thing has happened to me with a few other providers over the years, each time I caught it in time. Once was during full body slip n slides, and my cock got really close to slipping in, maybe it did for a split second, but we both realized it and we stopped and put a cover on.
Another provider I know is really good at applying a cover without my knowing it. Usually with her mouth, but once she was straddling me and giving me a HJ behind her back, then she quickly switched to cowgirl. As I freaked out, she smiled and lifted off a bit, revealing the cover in place.
It's a little bit weird that you didnt feel her insides and thought she was just p2ping you. Also weird that you didn't feel the fc2. But you probably got caught up in the moment..
I won't lie, I had providers straddle me BB without asking. A few times I did not have the strength to tell them no. And that was completely on me. It is what it is.
I have lost some sensation as I have aged. It did feel like I was inside, but her reviews suggested she did the stripper thing.
The important point is, at the moment of truth I threw the red flag. Just curious if others had the same experience .
The other point is how cool she was and talented . Check out my review.
Its hard to check out your review when you are posting with an alias AND you haven't provided her name.
been there where at the moment of entry the lady says . its ok go ahead, i trust you .. or words to that effect. very tough call, lets all be honest here. BUT .. if i understand the OP it might have been the case of going BB without his realization, asking first etc. there has to be a zero exception on BB where both parties are clear on what's about to happen and both clearly agree to it. just as guys cant slip off the condom or distract the girl and just enter etc.
i had one lady where round one covered .. now getting frisky again and she in cowgirl and uses her hand to glide me in BB .. wow SUPER tough for me to pull her off and say no.
i dont think women realize one thing about how men are wired .. we are not just fighting out cock, rather our entire body, a large percentage of our muscles are designed for that action. i have to resist and overrule my entire physique to stop that from happening.
This probably happens too often, based on my experience. Seems pretty dumb. I went along, once, many years ago. What followed was a period of abstinence and an extra $400 bill for thorough testing. I wasn't worried, and I think I did the responsible thing, in the end. The provider said, just eat some coconut oil, it's anti-viral! I'm sure that was some cutting-edge medical advice.
I read in some seedier forums where guys are bragging about providers allowing BBFS, you know, because the guy is such an irresistible stud. That narcissistic shit. Hard to say what is fantasy vs. reality.
I like the P2P action, but, I'm thinking I need to start handing out latex panties, beforehand. I've had similar experiences to ones described. Penetration was allowed. Not my intent, and I stopped to suit up. I guess the thinking was that I was assumed clean. I don't care what the supposed powers of intuition might be, it's always a bad assumption.
The whole "I got more of menu items because I look good/treat her well/etc" is mostly bs. Yes sometimes you will click and will get more service, but most of the time familiarity plays way more of a role than initial appearance.
best to know your provider and if you do it you should get tested.
I have the great skill of confusing people.
I am not advocating for BBFS, just in case any one might get that impression
Please know that both times we connected the FC was in, so there was no real danger beyond the normal.
Message I was trying to convey is:
1) What a talent this young lady has, I had no idea the FC had been inserted.
2) How dumb I was , and if I was placed in a real BBFS situation, would I or any of us resist the temptation.
3) How great FC’s feel.
Sorry if I mucked this up.
BTW. Cardinals are in the playoffs. Beat San Diego. In game one. But I digress.
Either she is rather loose or your senses are dull if you mistook penetration for a pole slide.
Interesting story nonetheless. Personally, I've only experienced fc once and it wasn't that different from a condom. It was a controlled experiment. Same girl, same day.
As far as your teaser opening, what would I do...probably roll with it. I've had one intentional bbfs provider and a few condom failures. Took a few weeks off, one asked for a test, but I didn't lose any sleep.
1. That was a fine example of the benefits of FC2, and of a woman with seriously advanced sexual entertainment skills.
2. I have stopped things at the point of insertion to call for condom, yes.
3. Like another poster, I did let it happen once and went through the abstinence/testing consequences of that.
4. I make a habit now of handing her a condom before we get seriously started so that my intentions are clear.
5. I have been that flustered by pleasure that I could have made the OP's mistakes too. In fact, I try to get that high on her, that deeply into the pleasure. So I try to stick to ladies who will honor my intentions, if/when I do get that way, and who will happily giggle at me over it.
I'd probably freak the fuck out!
I have a very strong fear, bordering on irrational, of a woman getting pregnant by me. I don't want kids EVER, while most women my age do. Even though this fear applies to civvies, the mindset spills over into the hobby a little bit. The only way I always enjoyed my appointments, is because I always saw the cover getting put on me: by her, by me, or together. So if I were to feel like I did BBFS with a provider, it would ruin not only the rest of the session, but the rest of the month!
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But since she took the whole thing on her own, limiting it to the tip would be moot.
Sorry to be the party pooper but just don't do it fellas.. don't let your hornball brain fuck you over, wear a condom.
It happened to me once when I was in a rather passionate and intense session with my long-since retired ATF. I had gone down on her and had brought her to a couple of orgasms over about 10-15 minutes. She reached down to pull my head up towards hers. As I was surfacing, she grabbed the plumbing and inserted it. I was just as caught up in the moment as she was and we did mish until completion, which didn't take too long. At that moment, she was in control and I didn't object. If I ever have another session as intense as that one, I can't guarantee I wouldn't do it again.