I also came into the hobby from the swing life.  I loved it and the leap to this realm wasn't a big one, and hey, they PAY YOU for this??!!!  I have met so many amazing people from both sides of the fence.  The money has been good and the flexibility to work around my family's schedule is priceless.  

I was a late bloomer into the sex world. I lost my virginity at 19 (I'm soon 23) . Once I explored my body and etc I fell INLOVE with sex. I was always a people person, really easy to talk to and I don't know why but strangers just magically wanted to converse with me out in public. I've loved meeting new people and sharing our differences or agreements.  I then started college and my regular job wasn't cutting it with paying these loans So I discovered sex work and it was pretty easy for me to get into. I get two things I love a lot. SEX & MONEY haha. oh... and great people I can meet

for managing the vagina use.

Most of them spend their money as fast as they make it...and have a great time doing so.  

for my ex-husband that meet with escorts and me checking up on him... learn about this! ha-ha!

I had a lot of fun stripping, but I had (and have) exactly zero hustle, and - with my little-girl body - I was never going to be the biggest money-maker in the room.  Most of the strippers I was working with considered the line between stripping and sexwork to be the line between keeping and losing your dignity.  (I won't get into the vagaries of how different girls drew different lines around what was - and wasn't - "sex".)  For me, though, the opportunity for adventure and easy money made the decision easy.  Apparently dignity was low on my priority list!

During the days when $1000 tips were not unheard of, I paid for a second college degree at a top-tier college all in cash.  Looking back, I'm not sure it was the wisest investment I could have made - but there was some satisfaction in unloading an armful of cash at the bursars office every semester.

I discovered that if I batted my eyes, the boy in the next crib would give me his blanket.
Nothing much has changed.

Im glad your son is ok. I have kids myself and would do anything for them.

with a sign saying "Will work for blanket."

I loved kink when I discovered it in college. It was a whole wonderful word of sexuality and acceptance and FUN and I wanted to share it with everyone! I wanted everyone to experience what erotic liberation could really feel like.  

That sounds SEXY

...... and the ladies would have this exact talk. There were so many variations as to why.

...to a life of Hedonism, I guess.  With 15 years in that business,  lines began to blur and my sexuality began to grow by leaps and bounds.  There was a lot of cross over to swinging,  I enjoyed the exploration, anonymity (especially the multiple partners/gangbangs) and I found I  was (quite selfishly)   capable of multiple endless orgasms.   The rest is history......I intend to continue to make history as often as possible.
Suzee

She is way to attractive to be out of work.

There are more then one answer  to that Question....Men,  Sex and Money..💋💋💋

I loved sex and I was always thought of as a good girl to everyone....So I sneaked away to discover what this was all about the first chance I could.  I've loved it ever since!  I love having this little sexy secret!

.......divorced, then married again and we were swinging, house needed a big fix to it, my boss was always after me for sex, discovered Date.chxx, posted ad, had first date. LOVED IT! Left my job and even though I make less $$ now, was well worth it to work at what I was really meant to do!  xoxo

Of you pushing a lawn mower, or wielding a hammer, whilst I lounge on the chaise with a cocktail... why does my head go to these places?! 😂

i was still in school and i guess sex with everyone no money made then one of my friends father offered me money for sex wow and i beb doing free i started lookin for a manager found one almost as black as me he rented apartment hired a towel girl tolle me i could take care of all the brothas the other girks dint want i have loved it

i like the way he dresses but i like mine with more gold and rings that shows what a good stable he has

Now I wish I had it back.

The government doesn't take taxes out of rates.Selling paid fantasy making good money.Escorts make clients believe they're different from rest of hookers.A high education doesn't work a legit job with their degrees work in adult business.Low or high volume escorts trying to making living.

Dear Adelle,
Just wondering in light of the fact that sexual harassment charges lead the news right now, has your boss become  
A client?  Also has he tried to verify on your sight? If so what was your reaction when you came across his information? Also has anyone else from your civilian life come across you or had any curiosity about your alter ego?

Some people can never move pass certain things.

I've always had a full-time job but was a single mom living in an area with both high taxes and a high cost of living.  I decided to look for a job waitressing in a strip club, thinking the tips would be good.  I applied to a club and the manager convinced me to try dancing.  I still remember how nervous I was the first time I got on stage!  But soon it was second nature.  I wasn't the best hustler, but I loved dancing.  I loved meeting the clients and I loved the whole sexual aspect of the work.  The clubs I worked in were strictly non contact and fairly high-priced.

I decided to become a escort maybe about a year ago. I had sugared for about 3 to 4 years prior and danced before that. I always loved the sex industry. When I decided to do it it was very very nerve racking to me. I was nervous and had so many thoughts going on in my head about it. I had a friend build my site and decided to take pictures and after a couple of weeks fell in love with it all. Escorting is wonderful, you meet so many great people from it, you meet wonderful providers to. It definitely does allow you to have more free time to pick and choose when you want to work, be able to go to school and pay for it and not be as stressed. I honestly can say everyday I love what I do. This sort of thing does have a shelf life so going to school and setting your future is so important to. Just remember that.

This is a great thread....thanks for starting it.  As a client, I am often intrigued at the stories of how women got started in the business and these have been some really interesting responses.  Clearly love of sex and a desire to make money...for whatever the reason....are two big drivers. I am very impressed with how business savvy many of these providers are.

All good questions! I never did anything with my boss because at that point in my life I thought maybe I could 'play it by the straight'. He gave me such a hard time because I wouldn't play (with his) ball which is the reason I left. He has since retired. I haven't seen him. If he did try to verify, I would see him and give him a good spankin'! lol.  And maybe a little sugar'. Yep, could of had a nice settlement I suppose but not worth it to me. I am just as guilty of the next person of a being lustful and a bit adventurous.

Good question...well I was the untimely young slut and overall early bloomer and always reading about kinks, sexual physchology, etc at 10 years old lol!! So thinking back on it, I'm actually not surprised...

At first it was becuse I was a struggling college student and I figured "everyone my age is screwing one night stands so why not get paid for mine" . after awhile in the biz I strated meeting people who are genuinely great and my hobby pals, I started being able to help some ( I love helping others) who generally I wouldnt have been able to, and I started experiencing things that most my age could never even imagine. I came to truly enjoy the biz for the people in it. Now I'm in the biz becuse I love meeting new people and expriencing new things as well as catching up with old hobby pals. Its like a fun social hobby which as a bonus I get paid for ( which helps me pay for my additional education )

Dear Eva,  
Would you say that dancing is an initial occupation to becoming a full fledged escort? Especially when the clubs are  slow and you tend to get opportunities from customers? Also do you tend to hear girls think about escorting and how to make the transition?  Also do they tend to have more questions regarding the marketing aspect and how things work on all of the different levels of the industry? Also did you have someone with whom you could openly discuss these and other items of interest related to the industry when you where contemplating you ascent from dancing to escorting?

I initially started providing because it was quick cash and transitions aren't cheap, so it was a means to an end. However, after I'd been at it for a while, it ended up being a way to finance other endeavors unrelated to transition. As of late, it's been a very poor excuse to travel around a ride some of the finest singletrack the world has to offer.  The longer I provide, the harder it gets to justify working a civilian job. There's little else that's going to maxamize my freetime, earning potential, and travel to the extant the providing does.

I have a bachelor's degree in business and always wanted to start my own company.  I was already sleeping around lots, so I thought hmm, would guys really pay me for sex? Yes, yes they will!  

I became a S.W. as a means to an end. It wasn't supposed to have lasted this long. I was tired of getting fired from jobs because of insecure women being threatened by my presence. So with the knowledge of how to survive and common sense I posted an ad on BP and worked my way to where I am now. Low volume, nothing but respect, and loving my job. I make this look good. I enjoy meeting new people and knowing that they enjoy their time with me. I feel desired and beautiful and in return they get the best of me. I like being my own boss and don't take things too seriously. I live in the present and am grateful for what I have been able to accomplish in such a short time.

This may be among the most interesting threads I’ve read in quite a while.  It confirms what I’ve always believed;  the women who excel  at this are getting many of their physical and emotional needs met through it, which is why their TER performance scores are typically very high.  As with any other profession, those who do it best genuinely love what they do.  How and why women begin the hobby is wide and varied.  I find that information particularly interesting.  I hope more women contribute to this thread.  

In fact, I can relate there were many reasons along the years.... There was an evolution that progress following the goals I wanted to reach.  

Because I was a Nympho and a slut so I thought to myself, hey I can make some money doing what I Love to do! LOL

Okay, so we all know me not to sugar coat shit. That being said- im gonna come right out with it  

Brittney Star‏  
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I grinded so bad during my nap today i chipped my tooth 😒😒 i need to get to a dentist buuuut the way my wallet looking... I cant afford that shit 😂😂😂😂 my health insurance dont cover sweet air and i have a needle problem

Maybe obamacare would be okay with laughing gas 😂😂😂😂 hey, make fun. I think im the most blatantly honest hooker in America.  

I doubt they like giving laughing gas to pregnant women.. So i gotta suck it up and just go. 😞😞😞😞😞😞 but im scareddd

I think there is a generic name for this situation -- war bride.  Since the dawn of man, warring tribes have over-run each other, killed the men, captured the women.  So evolutionary history is defined by those captured women who could live in the new environment and successfully pass their DNA down onto their sons and daughters.  In other words women are naturally predisposed to mentally adapt to forcible relocation and "marriage."  (Before GaGa misreads this and goes ballistic, this is not a justification of kidnapping and rape, it is an explanation of the psychological adjustment to it.)

Now i feel marginally less stupid for it all.

You shouldn't feel stupid at all. Life was not kind and a lot of horrible things ended up happening to you due to horrible people taking advantage of your innocence. We hear it all the time on the news, either in the US or elsewhere, about children being exploited and brainwashed by pimps for sex and money. Inevitably some of the women that experienced that are going to be on this website, and it's good to hear from their perspective as well.

But definitley not everything. I never liked being "gfe" and i dont wanna sell myself short.  

It took a lot of courage to write this.  I really hope that the glimmer of light you are seeing right now, turns into full-on sunshine.   Good luck.  

Thank you, i appreciate the response

to older men and being spoiled.  I started as a sugar baby when I was underage that lasted 2 years.  Then at 18 I was a sugar baby again to a few men.  They came from Alabama to a car auction every week and met me and one of my friends that would play with them, hang out and drink with them.  They paid our for our cars, gas and gave us spending money.  My life went to crap really fast, living very fast with these men.  Left them for 1 sugar daddy that lasted 4 years.  I got pregnant once and aborted while I was with him because he didn't want any children.  I got pregnant a 2nd time and told him to fuck off that I was having the baby; and I did.  We have had a wonderful relationship for 20+ years and he was a client of mine escorting for 2 years a decade ago.  I know he has always loved me and he would do anything for me today.  I am so happy that he has a girlfriend his age today.

#1, to help provide for my kids (which was taken away)  
#2, I have no desire nor will I ever civiee date again to ever be put in situation #1 ever again
#3, men who willingly pay for my services get my utmost respect allowing me to provide for #1, (which is awesome)
#4, men who willingly play games for my services lose all of my respect reminding me why I'll never go back to #2 and why I'll never see those men again keeping #3 nice and simple the way I like it

I started as an SB for a few years. I knew my then SD and I's arrangement was about to go on hiatus for a bit due to personal things going on in his life.  I went an the hunt for a new SD. The sugar bowl was basically a shit show due to the mainstreaming of it and had men on sugar sites offering pennies or nothing to what I had before.  I got tired of the games, the haggling, and the low balling, so I made the leap.  Plus my FT civvie job was ending, and I needed find another source of income.  So why not transition into escorting?  I like being basically a self made entreprenuer and being in control, especially my rates.  I love creating wonderful experiences for my clients and making them feel amazing.  Plus I'm a bit of a freak and becoming more sexually fluid than I was in my 20's. Escorting does has its challenges (as any business does) , but I've learned so much about running a business, promotions, IT, and finance, probably more than I what learned in college.