There is some degree of latitude for most of those categories [for instance, a 10 in looks is not a necessity, nor is a BBBJ], but I will NOT see a provider if she has too many inconsistent performance reviews or I see the phrase "YMMV" in too many of them.
Beauty is the standard starting point, but I've seen, and read about, hot-looking providers who think their looks can compensate for sub par service. I'm sorry to generalize, but I think that's prevalent among 18-22 year-old providers. I'm sure there are exceptions, but they only prove the rule.
Pics are just the beginning. Checking reviews on TER are a must. No matter what the pics look like or the ad says, if you don't check reviews you stand a much better chance of getting dissapointed. Also sometime ad pics aren't the real deal.
There are a few things that make me want to see a provider: pics, reviews, posts on this or other boards, if her personality shows through on her website. I try to get as much information about a lady from these sources. Then I'm ready to take the plunge!
Invite 4 or 5 hobbyists over and run a slideshow of all of her photos. Then all of you have to masturbate profusely (or whatever comes out) and if you or whoever has the largest puddle by volume gets to pay $$$ +- to get another HJ from the lady of your affection... Go for it!
I'm much more interested in finding the right attitude. This comes through in reviews to some extent but more in a gal's website and her participation on these boards. If initial email or phone contact leaves me with a bad feeling I will not pursue the appointment any further no matter what the lady looks like.
I enter certain search criteria, select the ladies that "catch my eye" then look at the reviews. You need to have VIP status to read the juicy details. This is well worth the $20.
If the lady has multiple reviews (generally a minimum of 5 or 6 from established reviewers (again, multiple reviews over time) then the odds increase for a great time that will be worry free. But, nothing is 100% safe except for abstaining.
Last but not least, her availability needs to match my schedule.
I agree with you on the multiple reviews, but I usually go with 2---that's worked for me in the past. In my long career as a hobbyist, I've been ripped off twice. I've learned to think with the big head first, THEN use the little one.
Pics first. $$$ next, if it's too much, I move on. Check reviews if she has gotten past the first two steps. Will also check with local hobbyist buddies for more info/reference.
Generally, I go with my gut feeling. The pics tell me if I want to research her further, and then the $$$ becomes the main factor in rejecting someone. Too many roses, and I just won't see her unless maybe she runs a special with reduced rate. I did see one provider because of this and glad I did. I just had problem in paying her normal rate.
Do have some providers on my want-to-see list who are not the hottest looking babes, but have been highly spoken of by local buddies.
So who has a fool-proof system? I don't but am interested in other guys methods in selecting who to see.
1. The first is her eyes. When I look at a picture that shows her eyes I can tell alot from that. And that can lead me to contacting her. I have seen pictures of ladies who were absolutely beautiful that showed "empty" eyes, just nothing there. I have also seen pictures of ladies who might not be called classic beauties but who's eyes just glowed in her picture. 2. Then, how she communicates with me is important. If she is at ease and easy to talk to that's a plus. 3. I always make a phone call and listen to her voice. The way someone speaks, the inflections in her voice tell me a lot about a person. 4. If she has posted on the boards, I read her postings and through that I can get some real insight into her personality. 5. After all that, I read her reviews. Why read her reviews last? Because I when I read a review, I am looking for a common thread that runs through, like "she's nice", "she treats you like you were the only man around", "she's comfortable", etc. My time spent with a lady isn't based on "what she does" or "how she does it". I want my time to be totally at ease and enjoyable for both parties.
Of course, the bottom line is that we all have different criteria and techniques we use to find that "right" lady.
There is some degree of latitude for most of those categories [for instance, a 10 in looks is not a necessity, nor is a BBBJ], but I will NOT see a provider if she has too many inconsistent performance reviews or I see the phrase "YMMV" in too many of them.
Beauty is the standard starting point, but I've seen, and read about, hot-looking providers who think their looks can compensate for sub par service. I'm sorry to generalize, but I think that's prevalent among 18-22 year-old providers. I'm sure there are exceptions, but they only prove the rule.
1) The pics are a start. 2) She has to have a few reviews on TER or another Board which will go unnamed. 3) She has to provide certain services which a reviewer has confirmed and 4) The price has to be in line with what I will pay for the privilege of hobbying!
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