Don't get me wrong, we're blessed(?) here with fantastic agencies. Love 'em, but what I enjoy most with an indy is the opportunity to establish a steamy level of interest in each othe before we meet. When there's some hot flirting leading up to a first meet, It's a great ice breaker. Actually, it's more of a "I sooo want to meet you" theme

You have a much better chance of establishing a rapport with an indie over a gal who uses an agency.

It seems since coming back after a couple of years there are substantially more
agencies.

Get a girlfriend.  

Posted By: nothrofboston

Don't get me wrong, we're blessed(?) here with fantastic agencies. Love 'em, but what I enjoy most with an indy is the opportunity to establish a steamy level of interest in each othe before we meet. When there's some hot flirting leading up to a first meet, It's a great ice breaker. Actually, it's more of a "I sooo want to meet you" theme  
   
 Examplejust one)  
   
 There's a steamy milf whose looks and blog make we want to walk to NC in a blizzard to see her. We texted, talked on the phone, and agreed to meet here on tour. I then sent her a seductive email describing how I'd like to start our date. She likes to be in control from the onset, but I wanted her naked on the bed with something loose over her eyes so I could seduce HER before I let her ravish me.  
   
 Sooo hottt. And I like the heat. Can't do that with a agency girl.  
   
 Comments and examples welcome ...  
   
 

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The idea of going to a hotel, having never had a personal messaging beforehand, or doing my own research is EXTREMELY off putting. I prefer to at least have a little back and forth with the man or couple in question. I think that this puts most people, especially myself at greater ease. This is why I don't even use a personal assistant type of service. For me this is a *personal* business, and I like the intimacy of all the details.

For me the lead up is essential for a truly great date!

Your the best.

throwing up in each other's mouths, such and insightful and serious pair. Maybe you two can be co-dependent SOs in other ways too?

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no way zak, if elaine is moving, she's coming out to los angeles to be closer to me!!!

But he has a point....

i.e. your pictures? Paid companion is a bit different. Of course, if she wants, she can flirt with you by e-mail or some sort of messaging, but 1) There are people who want to flirt with no intend of meeting. 2) Paid call can prevent your communications 3) This is an escort job to be a good enternainer as well, so your *flirt* can be a bit mechanical. I encountered some gents who also wanted me to be fluent erotic writer, which is a bit difficult for me since English is not my native language. So, if I have time and inspiration and if I see that I can learn from a gent thing or two, I'll try to be a good corresponder. However, I suspect I am paid not for writing. And also, it's a bit a lottery - you can be dissappointed with actual meeting with a person who is great conversionalist and be blown away with a girl who you didn't talk before at all. Xo

It's 60 degrees and beautiful in NY today.  

for the first time, i do agree with you

Don't get me wrong, I have most definitely met (a handful) of providers who
tend to want to communicate a bit prior to the date(s); Especially the first one.

as long as conversation beforehand is tasteful and classy then it helps to break the ice and leads to a great date.

maybe why not try it!

i can totally understand how anger-making it can be to spend time flirting by email/text only to have the guy never book.  guys are pigs.

there's a better chance the meeting won't occur. If you not tasteful before a date, I would expect the date wouldn't be much different.  

Not all guys are pigs. There are wolves, dogs, alpha -pheasants, and lots of monkeys. Such lifestyles assume that escort's fauna is variety rich. Xo

I like messages with a personal tone that are geared with each interaction towards setting the meeting up. There's only more if the provider initiates.

and I totally agree with the time waster part. My time is valuable too, so I NEVER engage with flirting unless I'm 100% intent on meeting that person, which might include a road trip on my part.

Road trip? Wow, nice to meet you, you are real cowboy

Do you fly, railroad ot by car? I hope that is combination of all..lol

for an hour and a half...let me know when you are in los angeles!

so we could make our schedules match?

I have never been stood up by an agency lady, there have only been a few times that an agency lady has been late, and never more than 15 minutes. I cannot say the same for Indy's (in my experience).  

It is exactly how it has been for you and I am not going to disagree because agency ladies have someone to answer to and possibly would get fined of late.

You may have something there. It could be the name of a movie. Just a little cowboy in me tho ... very little, but exceptions will be made

My assiciation with all of these was the child playing with toy railroads, cars, etc.. and how in the future all those things intersects or grows in life.

That will not be necessary. I don't need you to write sonnets to me, just a couple of thoughtful replies is quite sufficient, and only necessary before the first date. If someone wants to message between dates that is fine too, but I do not initiate those conversations.  

I'm not asking to move I'm just asking for a visit. P L E A S E  

Do I need to spray you all down with a garden hose?

Not all agencies are good...in fact, some are technically nothing but pimps with a legal business card.

eom!  i said eom!  can't you read???