Re: How far in advance?

I am currently getting screened and planning something for this fall?

I normally have 3 - 5 backpage providers in my list if I decide something on short notice.

I call the first one. If not available, I call the 2nd one - she was not ready. Then, I call the 3rd - she picked up.

Did this 2 weeks ago and had a blast with my 3rd called - she picked up and she was waiting. I went to the hotel; she undressed; we kissed: I rubbed my tool on her wet kitty; and I had a superb time.

As always, it depends on the provider.

Some examples: one girl's website declares that first-time clients MUST book at least 24-hours in advance. Returning clients may call at any time.

Another girl actually states the exact opposite. Only returning clients may pre-book in advance.

I've had several girls thank me for my one-hour notice as they are used to fifteen-minute notices (not that they like them, but business is business.)

I've had one provider tell me as I asked about a date for the next day to just call her back tomorrow when I was ready.

It all boils down to how the lady structures her business. A girl who jumps from hotel to hotel is at her incall, sometimes bored to tears, so a last-minute call is welcome. Ladies who have civie jobs or are not situated at her incall will definitely need advance notice.

Sometimes it depends on how she sees herself. Some ladies will find it rude that you expect her to be waiting for your call. Some will gladly jump your money, preferably NOW!

I've heard, from more than one lady, "I'm not doing anything right now," so they tried to make the notice as short as possible, where I was the one trying to give myself time to get ready.

Some girls have bad experience with cancellations, so advance notice is worthless as they feel more exposed (refusing appointments because of your date, then having you cancel). They figure if you call for a "right now" appointment, you are not likely to flake.

So to answer your question, there is no answer. Every girl is different. Just call and ask.

-tessen

Someone I had seen before - I can meet with 2 - 4 hours notice, if I am available.

New client? Unless i can reach his references on such short notice I will always pass on same day appointment.


Lina

I personally prefer advance notices...now as far...

as how far in advance...at least a day and I get appointments as far as 3 months out...with those gentlemen I do a lot of flirting with emails and do a count down...the only way I would do a couple hours notice is with one of my regulars...someone new...no way...I have to do a background check first...I gotta know who I'm meeting...just like I am sure You have checked out the provider before contacting her...safety first...Fun second

Some providers are same-day only, others like advance notice. It's usually spelled out in their ads. If not, call or email and ask.

The impromptu meetings are fun...a little spontaneity is refreshing.......

Longer meetings are best planned out for me!



Peace!



Shelby-K

You take your chances!  What many gents don't realize is that the ladies do not keep office hours.  We don't normally sit around in our sexy outfits, showered, primped and ready to go.  The nature of our biz is that we are often out doing other things and may need more lead time.  We do have lives.  

While we try to accomodate last minute requests, this is not always possible.  That is unless we happen to be sitting at our incall or just finishing another appointment.

You are certainly welcome to book last minute, but you may have to make a few calls.  I am sure that your perserverence will pay off.  That is, of course, unless you have your heart set on a specific lady, or ladies.

I almost always plan about a week or two ahead.  Most mine are when traveling and as soon as I know when I'll be where I try to set up a session.  Better success getting it with the provider I want at the time I want.  Longest I've done is 1 year in advance for a provider who shares the same birthdate as me; saw her for a dual birthday celebration one year and booked the next before I left.

Different guys probably have circumstances that require more short term notice.

The problem with planning is this. You plan with a solid provider you know for the following week, for example. Then, at the beginning of the week something pops into town on tour that makes you drool (for effect).

For me, I can't cancel my original date, even if I can only choose one.

Generally speaking 2-3 days in advance, but sometimes a week or more. For me the anticipation is part of the fun!

Ocassionally a traveling provider will notify me months in advance too.

Some people like to plan well ahead of time.

I doesn't always work out however.  For example I should be bouncing on my waterbed right now with a gal from Chicago whom I set up a trip for months ago, but instead I'm typing away on here thanks to some jerk in the TSA refusing her passport because it had a few "spots" on it. (She has used it jus that way before many times.)

Best laid plans to get laid oft gang agley.

Just about every time I plan way in advance it is a bust. Something always happens... I would like to do shorter but I really have a wtf with ladies who advertise and do not reply to inquiries. It really can take quite a while to make it happen. The Ideal time for me would be 1 day or less in advance.

I find most well reviewed TER ladies to be the most responsive and accommodating! Perhaps why they are well reviewed!

If it is a gentleman I have seen before I can usually see with 1hr or 2 hr notice.I usually require 24hr notice for gentleman I haven't seen before.There are exceptions to this if the gentleman has provided all necessary info for screening I can reach references I have seen new gentleman maybe 5 or 6hrs later after initial appointment request.My pet peeve is the gentleman that read my website request an appointment and do not provide any info they always reference my website.Okay,if you saw my website then you know screening is required for new friends.If a gentleman provide necessary info saves a lot of time,but don't get mad at me if I can't accept your appointment because I didn't have the required info.I have had gentleman contact me 2 wks to a month in advance and there was no problem.

Twenty four hours advance is just as good. I cannot stand it when some dummy says " Hey, you available NOW?"


Um no, this ain't Domino's Pizza.

I have dates planned out to at least December. Sometimes I have stuff planned even further out than 6 months.

For a Indy provider I generally give 2-3 days notice.

I Keep a good Agency on Speed Dial for same day appointments.

With a day job, school, and trying to maintain a semi-normal social life, I need at LEAST 24 hours' notice, and more is preferable. Most of the time I typically already have plans. I hate getting bored, so I stay pretty busy.

I have seen maybe three or four people the same day they requested, but that's over the span of a few years, and each time they asked in the morning for a date later in the evening. There's no way I could screen (if he's new), shower, shave, get purty, and arrive at a hotel (either outcall or incall) within just an hour or two. I'd have to have superpowers, or be able to superpower his references to reply in minutes.

I do have a limit on how much in advance I'll accept a date. I've noticed that dates planned more than two months in advance have a tendency to end up not happening (typically due to a change in his travel plans).