Yes, I'll pick up the check almost all the time, except on my b-day and at the holidays. I don't pay to watch a hooker eat or sleep or read or cook or shop or sew.
I'll ask after our session if she/they is/are hungry and if she/they would like to join me and they usually say yes, unless they have a John waiting or other plans. It's all good.Let's say one decides to try the "dinner date" thing. Typically, does the same rate apply during dinner that applies **after** dinner, despite dinner being a strictly hands off affair? I'm not sure that makes sense, but don't want to make anyone feel insulted/offended. If you've been down that road, what was your experience? Is there any sort of industry standard or does it vary depending on the person?
Yes, I'll pick up the check almost all the time, except on my b-day and at the holidays. I don't pay to watch a hooker eat or sleep or read or cook or shop or sew.
I'll ask after our session if she/they is/are hungry and if she/they would like to join me and they usually say yes, unless they have a John waiting or other plans.
It's all good.
...the dinner date package. Others in the thread gave him the proper advice. OTOH, you took the opportunity to brag about how you cadge OTC time.
The OP asked what was other's experiences here and I gave her mine. If you are too scared to ask a hooker for some OTC dinner time, get a dog.
And If being honest here is bragging, I stand guilty as charged sir.
Since you think Jack was being a bad boy, maybe I can get Alyson to spank me?
Maybe I'll even take her out for a bite after. OTC of course. 
is dinner has to be after the session. Performance issue
where longevity is concerned. And I'll usually will abstain
from alcohol ... even worse for my boner ... if we're gonna
go back and play some more.
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so it is usually some compensation for dinner time but lower rate than bed room activities
...be on their website and possibly their TER profile. Website is your best bet on this. They expect to be paid for the entire time. Dinner included.
Jack is correct there are many that will do as he described but that's a bit different. I've done that too. You usually have to have built some trust before a provider will do that. Even then some providers won't do it at all.
My advice is check the provider's website for her dinner date rate. If you can't find one ask her if she has a dinner date rate. Remember in the discussion don't talk about sex at all. Keep it to dinner rate.
I assume you've contacted her and passed her screening. If not you can ask about dinner date rates in your introductory contact but I wouldn't do a dinner date with someone I'd never seen.
but there is no "industry standard" in this industry.
you pay whatever the girl asks for, or you move on.
i have one lady who only asks for an extra couple of bills for 2 hours of dining pleasure, which includes nasty things in said in my ear and hand under the table in my crotch. then her regular rate for 2 hours back at at the hotel.
i have another lady who only asks for a little more than that for 2 hours of public time which included m##rb@@ing in the car on the way to the restaurant, and oral satisfaction until the pop in the parking garage. not to mention a dinner full of footsies and double entendres. plus 2 hours regular rate back at the incall/
some women will just charge their hourly rate, whether you are doing the deed or walking through the park. don't ask me, it doesn't seem fair, but whatever the market will bear.
best bet is to ask the lady. or it can never hurt, if there's no dinner price offered on her site, to ask "hey what if i give a donation of XXX for 2 hours of dinner and then regular donation for sexy fun times back at the room?"
if done civilly and not trying to cheat her out of apparent pay day, she might go for it, or counter.
good luck, it can be fun! also, be a gentleman and pick up the tab! no splitting the check!
arm touching, you get the picture. So dinner with me doesn't have to be totally hands off, lol. Most ladies I know have dinner date packages. Check with the lady you are interested in.
Steph xoxo
Now there's a dinner date that is definitely on the clock. 8o)
seduction that happens over a meal before retiring to private places. Those who are more cerebral tend to like this kind of engagement- they need and desire stimulation in ways more subtle and sensual than a quick hour in a room. It's a whole experience- definitely something to do if that appeals. Many people like the feeling of being with one of the most beautiful women in the restaurant, with all eyes enviously on him. If she can hold her own in a conversation, so much the better.
As has been said, most ladies will have a dinner engagement listed along with her other options, but if she doesn't, just ask. I will say, however, many ladies who don't have dinner engagements listed aren't really into them. They'd rather watch paint dry than dine with a client. Ladies who list this as an option, on the other hand, are typically very much into this experience. You can read reviews of ladies or PM gentlemen or ladies who have seen them to inquire about that experience. It's wise to do so- make sure you won't be embarrassed by her manners or dress, or by a possible tendency to get inebriated. I've heard nightmare stories... due diligence is imperative for this kind of investment.
So choose carefully and have fun!
where a provider will have a "dinner date" option where they will have dinner and a night out (usually 2-3 hours) followed by 2 hours of private time for not much more than the 2 hour private time rate. I would do this if it was available in my area.
What I do with a guy depends on the situation. I do have a dinner date package and if he wants to pay to watch me eat, that's fine. But I met more than a few guys who are just cool and, under the right circumstances, I'll be happy to join for dinner OTC. Here are my rules:
1) I don't have any more dates that day. Gotta earn a living, y'know.
2) I've got to really like you. IOW, you treated me right in every way. You were not just clean, respectful and brought a full envelope. You were also good looking, made me laugh and were more than adequate in the sheets. This makes you quite different from some of the socially-inept morons I get paid to fuck.
3) I was hungry.
That's it! I would say about 10 percent of the guys I see fill the bill. But I love that 10 percent and am happy to have some OTC time with them. Once I even bought the guy dinner. He fit the description above, took me to a museum, gave me a great lecture on modern art and even bought me a book in the museum store. It wasn't a fancy meal but I really wanted to do something to say thanks. He loved it. And it wasn't Mr. Dunphy either. We're not from the same turf.
(note: the following scenario may or may not involve someone I wrote a story about.)
There was one lady I know / knew whom I text once in a while to check on her, normal every day stuff. I had inquired about a dinner date, and naturally she gave me the breakdown of it since it wasn't listed on her site. I arrived at the restaurant and waited for her to arrive. I was looking over the menu when I felt a tap on my shoulder, it was her. We ordered, ate, drank, and talked about our lives and generally caught up with each other since we last saw one another. We walked backed to her room for the intended reason of being there; and before I knew it the sun shone through the window after falling asleep together. I gently nudged her to wake her up and said our good-byes. The envelope was where I left it, I reminded her to keep it safe, showered, got dressed, and drove off.
The time spent at dinner was 'OTC' and 'OTC' at the same time. we had enjoyed each other's company that we grab a bite to eat together Off the Clock when I pass by her she's at AND if she hadn't eaten already