Curious to hear from others (ladies or guys) who are in a very happy monogamous relationship with someone who used to be an escort.  
We now have a great relationship, but it took almost 2 years to develop into what we now enjoy.  I had to prove I was sincere (via actions, not words) thst I was sincere in wanting to help her with the transition out of “the business”.  And it was hard for her to trust me ...  or any guy, after being in “the business” for almost 10 years.  Wasn’t always a smooth or easy transition… but absolutely worth it.  

With our 7th anniversary this week, in fact.

I've been an escort since I was eighteen & a half. I stopped for up to 5 years. Then got back into it. I would never do get out of the business again for any man. I made decent money.

And what a wedding it was! Time flies.

Don't tell me what I said you should do, do what I'm telling you to do now....

Would love to hear these testimonials--as the challenges are certainly greater!

Should I ever get into another civvie relationship, that's one of my litmus tests.

?? t-rex uses t-paper? How does t-rex even reach around to clean up with those tiny little arms?  What do you do? Wrap the t-paper around a tree or rock or a neighbor's house and then rub?  

Posted By: trex44

Re: I'm now married to a former escort...
Should I ever get into another civvie relationship, that's one of my litmus tests.  
   
 If she's an "under," then we're incompatible!

one top escort once asked me hypothetically ...  could you marry me? .. i said yes ..  her reply , what about what neighbors would say,   my reply to them would be  "sorry nobody would pay to sleep with YOUR wife! "  

I was fucking this hooker from behind and she started yelling, "I love you! I love you! Marry me! Marry me!" I almost fell off her laughing.

and lived with some in a real-life relationship.  Being the boyfriend of an active hooker is not for everyone.  If you are inclined to be jealous at all, then it's not for you.  I always make an agreement in the beginning that transactional sex is not considered cheating for either one of us.  That way, they can still do business and see their customers, and I can still see other ladies, as long as I'm paying.  As long as she gets paid, and I'm paying, it's just business, not personal and no one gets jealous.  With that said, every one of these ended anywhere from 3 to 10 months later because of jealousy . . . . . hers, not mine.  A point would come where I would see some other working girl that they know, and they would get extremely jealous.  Then they want to change the deal for me to be exclusive with them.  That's not a level playing field, so I leave.  

When an escort tells me that they love me, it's time to leave.

If your definition of an escort is rigid, then I have never had relationship w/ one.  However, if it can be expanded to Sugar Babies then I had almost a year long relationship with a Korean hottie.  More like Korean American.. Born and raised here.  

In the moment it was funny as hell. And I knew she was joking.

Happy 7th! And many, many more!

2022 - 2014 = 8

I just find a friendly Triceratops and use one of those horns.

Time sure flies when you're having fun!
Happy 8th Anniversary!

"I'm having an old friend for dinner." ?

Posted By: trex44

Re: I'm now married to a former escort...
I just find a friendly Triceratops and use one of those horns.  
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 And then have them over for lunch, afterwards

Yeah, I don't care much for fave beans, but a nice Chianti goes well with Trike.

on being horny.  When you say you're horny I bet they don't see that coming.  

That's the best way to get lunch...when they don't see me coming.