Weird experience a couple days ago.
I made an appointment with a FBSM provider who I have been seeing for at least a year. She always provides a nice body rub with heavy teasing, followed by a happy ending. This day, because whe was in a new location to me, she met me outside of her apartment. She was wearing black bra and panties, and a sheer coverup. Very nice way to meet - she basically didn't care about the few people who were outside looking at her. So I follow her inside (with the great view of her ass provided by the outfit), greet, and begin to undress for the massage. She tells me that she no longer is giving happy endings, as she wants to be "more professional." So I dress, say my goodbyes, and get out of there, lamenting the loss of a favorite FBSM provider from my list. Anything like this ever happened to you guys?That sucks. Could have told you before you went
Get any ideas about going to school now ! I like my ladies hot and sexy . Massage n no happy ending , like x mas with no presents , or easter with no bunny , or a bris without getting your Weiner cut , oh not that , that happened to nick. Ummmm , a provider who doesn't have sex , oh not that either , that's London . Hey when u gonna visit me ? xoxo
I need a little help through your messages, lolol.
I don't even know where you are, Mr. Mysterious, haha. I can't answer unless you reveal a little more, lolol
I just got wood ! xoxo. Okay currently I'm east of the Mississippi and north of the liberty bell ?
Ok, Ok. I need to get re-acquainted with it anyway... :P
Well I really want to see how well u can navigate around until u reach the right spot ? And when u get an A+ , the next class is biology xoxo .
Sorry to hear that. Something or someone must have scared her off. Maybe the neighborhood got wise to what she was doing and reported her to L.E. or the Apartment Manager.
was she prancing around in what amounts to lingerie outside?
If she was spooked, she would have met me in sweats, not lingerie. Believe me, she wasn't spooked.
It's possible she didn't recognize me over the phone, so therefore didn't know to tell me that the rules had changed. The wasted drive is not a big deal - I live in a pretty small town, probably only a ten-minute drive to reach her. The issue is I have never imagined a FBSM provider changing her rules like that. I would expect her to "retire" and change her advertising, if she wants to "be professional."
The mixed messages she's sending. If I was a new client I would: 1. expect to be allowed to touch her sexy body as soon as the massage started, given the outfit she was wearing, and 2. would have been hard as a lead pipe, and expecting the "normal" ending for that type of session.
I would have been pissed if at the end she told me "Nope, nothiing on the menu, sorry." Well what exactly am I supposed to do with this thing you've been teasing for the last 45 minutes???
That seems the most logical way to go but to get you over there and then announce that. If she had gone legit with no HE, her FBSM phone number should have been terminated, no ads on malls but ads in legit areas. Technically, you should not have been able to get hold of her if she was serious about going "professional". At least that's what I would do there was no ambiguity what so ever.
I made an appointment with a FBSM provider who I have been seeing for at least a year. She always provides a nice body rub with heavy teasing, followed by a happy ending.
This day, because whe was in a new location to me, she met me outside of her apartment. She was wearing black bra and panties, and a sheer coverup. Very nice way to meet - she basically didn't care about the few people who were outside looking at her.
So I follow her inside (with the great view of her ass provided by the outfit), greet, and begin to undress for the massage. She tells me that she no longer is giving happy endings, as she wants to be "more professional."
So I dress, say my goodbyes, and get out of there, lamenting the loss of a favorite FBSM provider from my list.
Anything like this ever happened to you guys?
She's also sending seriously mixed messages dressing like that, though I've known a couple of "no-HE" providers that still dress pretty skimpily. But they were always "no-HE" providers, didn't make a mid-season change!
But if that was the case, all she had to do was mention something discreetly in an email that HE was no longer available. Not col making you drive out to see her and then announce the change.
That was my next thought. If this was the case, she should have said she didn't want to see you anymore. There are plenty of other Providers to take her place.
Some ladies opt for a more devious but less ego jarring method to fire a client.
I don't have any reason to think my behavior with her warranted being fired. A previous time we met, she has asked me to pick her up from where she was having lunch, so she's been comfortable enough with me to ride in my car. (Come to think, that time she was wearing bra and panties under a short coat, bare legs, and heels. Made for a very uncomfotable walk of shame from my car to her room, as I was fully aroused.)
Perhaps she wanted more money than I was used to giving her? I was one of her first clients in the area, so maybe I have been getting the "beginners" rate. And she was tired of "grandfathering" me in?
Not firing but then why didn't she just say her fees went up?
Perhaps she wanted more money than I was used to giving her? I was one of her first clients in the area, so maybe I have been getting the "beginners" rate. And she was tired of "grandfathering" me in?
If she is not, then you were not being given the old heave ho, if she still is, then check my first post.
Well that was a really crappy way to let you know she went legit. She comes out in all this sexy getup looking to entice you and get you all aroused, then lets you know she not going to give you the very thing you came for. That's bullcrap. She should have let you know this upfront. To quote this guy from The Dark Knight "a phone call would have sufficed !"
by the way, good on you PittPanther for having the backbone to put you cloths back on and walk the hell up outta there. I applaud for that. I know so many hoobyist who would have felt too guilty to leave without going through with it, but you totally did the right thing. Can't let providers dupe you like that (in fact, she's not eve a 'provider' any more).
Had some guy tell her she was to good to jerk guys off and they would pay the same for less. You know , like the guy who tells the provider to raise her rates ? Were her rates the same ?
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Ok, what gives? If you click on my post above, you get another provider's post in a whole new thread. Damn glitches again.
It makes NO sense. If she's gone legit, then she needs to dress differently.
I have received legit massages... typically the masseuse would wear scrubs or medical looking attire & not show much cleavage per LMT rules. And the charges are about half (in my area).
Dressed as she was, she IS advertising herself as a FBSM provider... If she charges the FBSM provider rate & only offers a basic massage, she will have very unhappy customers. She will get bad reviews... basically has now become a scam. She might even put herself in danger by doing this without proper notice... not everybody is a gentleman, particularly if she accepts the higher fee.
I do not get bit about appearing in public scantily clad. Is she off her meds?
Her new ad has all the right words about "therapeutic massage" and its benefits, blah blah. But the accompanying pic (stolen of course) is of a young lady in red-bottom heels, blouse, and tiny tight shorts. Fully dressed, but seductively posed to highlight her legs.
Talk about mixed messages!
No therapeutic masseuse dresses like that. She is seriously going to get herself into some serious issues if she tries to pull this off or have every guy walk out when she announces there is no HE.
The big question pitt is, where is her ad? Is it anywhere near escort or FBSM ads? If it is, she is not legit, she is crazy.
Backpage. In my town, BP is the only game in town, so to speak, so please everyone keep your anti-Backpage comments to yourself.
If you know BP, it has a "Massage" section under generic Services, and a "Body Rub" section under Adult. Her latest ad is under Massage. But in my town it makes no difference - there are NO (none, zero) legit masseuses under either category. There are AMPs and independent girls I have gotten HJs from, under both sections, so her ad location makes no diff.
I agree with what you said, she will soon piss off a lot of guys and will be out of business.
The big question pitt is, where is her ad? Is it anywhere near escort or FBSM ads? If it is, she is not legit, she is crazy.
she should dress like a "legit" masseuse. WTF being outside in her bra and panties with other people looking at her and YOU?
Couldn't she have told you no more happy endings before you drove over to see her? Sounds kinda shady to me.
Hope you not only left but took your $$ with you.
1. Another poster said "maybe she's off her meds." LOL! I said to her "You're really putting it out there, aren't you." But she made no response.
2. She probably didn't recognize me over the phone when I made the appointment. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt on that one...
3. No money changed hands before I left. I usually pay her at the end, so I never reached for my wallet before she told me the new deal.
When she told me about the change, I was so taken aback I never thought to ask her "Why are you still dressing like a FBSM slut, if you're trying to go professional?" 20/20 hindsight, of course.
Couldn't she have told you no more happy endings before you drove over to see her? Sounds kinda shady to me.
Hope you not only left but took your $$ with you.
not every fairy tale has a happy ending..