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My first time was with a provider
LovetoDaty 7 Reviews 397 reads
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It didn't go as well as I has hoped it would - but at least it "broke the ice" and gave me the confidence with dating civie girls. Prior to that I was always too nervous around a civie girl since some of them were more "experienced" than me and I was afraid I couldn't perform well.  I still remember this provider (her name was "cookie", she was at least 10 years older than me)

LovetoDaty1659 reads

I see that a lot of ladies only prefer to see "older men"; but there are a lot of "20 something" guys out there that are still "virgins." (Heck, there may be some "40 year old virgins", too. LOL!). For some guys their first full experience is often with a provider. (not all guys "lose it" in the back seat of a car. LOL!)

1. Ladies would you "bend" your rules about dating only mature gentleman if you knew that the client was really a "virgin"?

2. How do you react if you are meeting with a guy who is so "inexperienced." Do you like to take the lead and "teach" him in the "ways of the flesh", so to speak?  

3. Do you get a special "thrill" knowing that you are his first?

(of course, assuming the guy is not lying, but you can probably tell if he is lying and just playing you.)

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SinCitySinner433 reads

While I didn't lose my virginity to a provider, my 2nd fuck was a Korean from AMP.  

One of my biggest problems in my 20s was to get a 2nd session. Girls probably thought I was like 15. When I shave I look very young, and I have never liked facial hair. I finally found DC Eden (old timers in DC, remember Heather who ran the agency... Such a nice lady...) and used them for a long time.  

Women in general are very emotional about that shit and anyone with some level of conscience would be declining the appointment if they really felt that the guy was virgin. Just like most decent men wouldn't want to fuck a virgin hooker either...

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LovetoDaty398 reads

It didn't go as well as I has hoped it would - but at least it "broke the ice" and gave me the confidence with dating civie girls. Prior to that I was always too nervous around a civie girl since some of them were more "experienced" than me and I was afraid I couldn't perform well.  I still remember this provider (her name was "cookie", she was at least 10 years older than me)

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SinCitySinner406 reads

After my first time losing virginity, I didn't even feel like having sex for a month. I was disappointed that the whole "sex" thing that people go crazy for didn't live up to the hype.    

Then I got horny again and it got better from there....  

And now, at 33, I am Whore Monger Extraordinaire  :D

-- Modified on 4/15/2013 9:25:58 AM

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SinCitySinner253 reads

Lets put it this way.... I borrowed it.. :D

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GaGambler241 reads

Maybe you can get a sweep of your own this week, and you get the Mets after that. Before the season started the Mets looked like a pretty easy team to beat, but someone forgot to tell them.

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macdaddy1944353 reads

mine says " Connoisseur "..fits in perfectly..

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AlexandraMilw354 reads

If a lady is going to put a preferred age of who she will see, being a virgin is not going to change that. I do not know how any other ladies are, but I do have an minimum age (35 plus). I am willing to over look it if he is mature, a gentleman, wanting a real GFE and not a PSE... but it just depends on the individual. So while I occasionally do see younger guys, it is rare. There are some guys on this board who are younger than 35 who I feel are mature enough to meet. I don't know if it is because they hobby, do reviews, do not act crazy or what lol. I think it may be because they get the P4P and know how to act?  

Also from personally experiences I do not like being someone's first as sometimes the other person doesn't know how to handle the feelings and may want more. I am not sure if I'd feel thrilled about it or not. Virginity can be at any age, so I am not 100% certain if I would see a guy who I knew was a virgin. Might just depend on how they come across.

I have met with inexperienced guys before (very few sexual experiences) and I take the lead. Not a problem teaching them or relaxing them.

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LovetoDaty291 reads

I can see that maybe that the young man then "falls in love" with you and that can be a big problem, for sure. I do see some ladies on Date-Check who advertise as "cougars" or "milfs" so I assume they would be more willing to take on such young men? I agree, "age" is not written in stone.  I'm sure there are a lot of guys under 35 with great jobs/income and have the "mature" personality to match.

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WondersOfTheWrld440 reads

I was feeling cougar-ish (I'm 30) and met a 25 yr old that I wanted to bone, I'd take his virginity....and rock his cradle. ;)
Generally though, I enjoy older men, so he'd have to be a 25 yr old going on at least 30 mentally, that is until I shut him up by pouncing on him

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DawnArlington312 reads

I did not know he was a virgin until he arrived and told me.  I won't say his age but he was older than most virgins (more than old enough to buy beer) but young enough to still fit into boot camp.

It was weird.  I just felt "motherly."  No, I do not do the mother fantasy at all - nope nope nope.  But I did lecture him on condoms, and safety and all that stuff... even with a girlfriend... before we started.  I just couldn't help myself.  

The whole event definitely felt like on the job training.  Not something I would knowingly sign up for.

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