It seems that a decent percentage of providers go with a no FIV policy. I have not asked for a reason since I'm not trying to mess with the mood in the moment. I assume there are one of two reasons for this: (1) concerns that the guy hasn't washed his hands (although not relevant when there is a shower at the in-call, for example) or (2) some guys are jamming their fingers around at a depth and pace that leads the provider to feel like her cervix is being scraped. But can anyone (esp. providers) shed light on reasons for the no FIV approach?
For me personally, it's a major disappointment. I really like rubbing the g-spot while DATY.
I do note that I welcome it because I do welcome it. I enjoy a lot of foreplay and stimulation and many seem to really enjoy providing it to me as well. Oral and digital stimulation alternating are edging to me and build me to higher heighta of orgasmic waves increasing anticipation, FIV also appeals to my submissiveness there is nothing like being manipulated by a strong experienced lover manually probing me artfully seeking and finding those specific spots that send me soaring, as I squirt ( more like flood),the sheets and his hand, Even better is when he can get in a position to feed himself into my mouth simultaneously he is in complete control of me literally and figuratively manipulating my buttons as i submit to being used. Many have told me that giving that to me provides them a great deal of pleasure too, Taking the time to delicately touch and stroke me as I get wetter and begin to open up before slowly working inside and then taking me over completely while I writhe on their finger(s) and even hand is powerfully erotic and submissive for me. I become swollen and extremely sensitive so when they take me with a cock i am on multi orgasmic waves that continue to grow in intensity. But YMMV of course, too much too quick can be irritating even painful, a poor manicure or even a small area of dry rough skin on the hand or finger can be a big problem ruining the moment for me and him. Not being shy I have no problem in saying NO if such is the case. I'm gonna say from my knowledge base that many allow it depending on whether or not all stars are aligned but advertise not to avoid every swinging dick or really every roughly probing finger that comes along.
Oops gotta go now....i am so fucking wet, stay tuned.
You sound slyly like you may be my kinda guy...ie a one man spit roast, yummy. No on DC but you will find me conveniently located at the Atlanta Airport, as they say you have go thru ATL to get anywhere, just call ahead for a memorable layover. Suzee
Yes, I'd love to meet you, I think we'd have a great time. Unfortunately, my living situation prevents me from flying down to ATL - would raise too many suspicions!
I guess I'll just have to keep on fantasizing... If anything changes I'll reach out!
But especially point 2). Guys who don't trim their nails properly can scrape the inside of her pussy and make fucking painful. I agree that a "No FIV" policy is a turn-off.
but if and only if the guy goes about it in the right manner. I can't think of any woman who enjoys a guy just ramming his fingers into an unstimulated, ie DRY pussy. I don't own a pussy myself but it certainly sounds uncomfortable at best and extremely painful at the worst to me.
Now OTOH, if you start off by rubbing on the OUTSIDE of her vajajay, with a little gentle attention to the "man in the boat" until she is good and wet before sliding your finger in there I think a lot of these women who are anti FIV won't be objecting in the least.
But you seem correct as to the why not. Guys might start with one finger then the next thing you know they're fisting the broad. Then it turns into a WTF moment. It's not my style... but that's me.
Finger play is best left to the clitoris, or softly stroking the outer labia. I know there are guys who wanna find her G spot with the finger hooking motion, but I havent found many women who really enjoy being prodded by digits. Ive always had better success with staying outside, with varying pressures and motions....and most of all patience, and devotion to finding what makes her motor hum.
YMMV. I get a professional manicure once a week, keeping my nails on the short side and they are always immaculately clean. I have had many providers allow FIV who's profiles and reviews said it was a no-go. Many that take if off their menu do so after a unhygienic customer transferred a nail fungus to their pussy and they lost a week or two of work time while it was treated.
I have seen very few woman who seem to enjoy and allow it. I always have my nails short, cuticles trimmed and I moisturize my hands so they're soft. I always ask if there's a problem and no lady has been able to explain why they find it uncomfortable. I personally feel that FIV is an integral part of DATY.
The last lady I saw for the first time really got into it and even asked for a second finger. I love that.
...and simply tolerate it for the sake of their partner/client. I personally dislike it and have been told by many sex workers that they will allow it for the enjoyment of the client, assuming that he/she has proper hygiene. It's interesting because I've had many sex partners attempt to try it on me, some rather aggressively, and I had to gently shut them down. Live and learn, lol.
that failed to compliment me on my digital and tongue work, both hookers and Civvie women. Like a lot of things, if its mediocre, they can take it or leave it, or as you say, take it if they are getting paid. When I'm repeating with hookers, its usually them that initiate the idea of FIV on subsequent dates. Not trying to toot my own horn, just reporting the facts.
I started reading the comments after I just made my own post I was looking to see if you commented lol (since in your case all of your partners are women (i'm personally Polysexual but I digress)). When in civvie situations especially and female sex partners gear up to insert digits and I stop them I get the confused Pikachu face lmfao.
Posted By: lopaw
Re: Many women seem to dislike it in general... ...and simply tolerate it for the sake of their partner/client. I personally dislike it and have been told by many sex workers that they will allow it for the enjoyment of the client, assuming that he/she has proper hygiene. It's interesting because I've had many sex partners attempt to try it on me, some rather aggressively, and I had to gently shut them down. Live and learn, lol.
I stay away from it. To this day I fell like a klutz with FIV. Female anatomy is a mysterious and wonderful thing. There have been a few, very few times I have been invited in, and that’s ok.
Re: Unless invited To this day I fell like a klutz with FIV.
I agree, WI, and I'm the same way, I don't really know what I'm doing down there. I don't have very much experience fingering women's vaginas (religious upbringing and zero sexual activity as a teen, then too many years in a one-woman man relationship and practically everything was off the menu). My very first provider-hobbyist get-together, she was VERY much into getting fingered, so much so that she started doing it to herself and asked me why I wasn't joining in. I awkwardly tried it, she grabbed my wrist and said, "Not like this, like THIS!" She showed me some moves. Of course, those moves were what she personally liked, every woman is different.
I haven't had a whole lot of opportunities or invitations from other women to do it, just a few scattered instances, so I remain a novice.
I appreciate a man who can admit that he's not Bond, James Bond in bed.
In addition to the stimulation, I find it useful and both a making sure there are no warts and be making sure that it will be nice and tight. I have found that some girls do not do enough Keagle exercises and I am A little disappointed in those instances.
First: not every woman enjoys G-spot stimulation. It can feel very uncomfy to some. Second: too many people don't know what they're doing in that area so it just feels like getting probed by aliens. (no offense intended to any aliens lol)
Personally, FIV during DATY does nothing for me. It's actually distracting: I like DATY or FIV, alone. Not simultaneously.
I recently updated my profile here to state that FIV is a no-go, but it's really on a case by case (day-by-day) basis.
The reason? Well, that's probably "too much information" but what the hell....
It's a menopausal thing for me. If those symptoms are acting up, then NO, I cannot handle it.
If everything is normal down-below, then I'm okay with it.... up to the point of it being really uncomfortable (borderline painful) which tends to happen more often than one might think.
So Cosmo magazine recently did an article basically taking back everything they have ever tried to sell us about the G-Spot.
In my own experiences I do and have squirted but only from fingers just barely in me and clitoral stimulation and from just clitoral stimulation by itself.
I believe every woman is different and its to each there own.
That being said I prefer No FIV usually when receiving DATY but am not against it. Every situation is different.
But read the article and feel free to continue the dicussion!!
Happy Holidays and Happy G-Spot Hunting lol xoxoxo
My personal experience is that the individual does not get a manicure on the regular & their nails scrap the vagina that can cause bleeding, which is an obvious hazard. Also, to ruff is not always fun it can hurt & be painful. I like to instruct to go slow & be gentle. I am glad you care enough to inquire. Sharing is caring.
....in and out of the hobby I do NOT really enjoy FIV at least not for more than a minute. So...personally my having 'no' on my profile (well actually 'Touch Pussy on the outside') for FIV has nothing to do with just the guys lol. Gloves, no gloves with cut & clean nails, no matter the technique or how much of an expert the 'giver' thinks they are I'm not cumming from FIV. I do get off from g-spot stimulation in combination with clitoral stimulation tho if penetrated with a penis OR a vibrating toy tho. For some women g-spot stimulation just either does nothing for them OR it's even painful (yes, painful) sex worker or not.
I have had GF's that loved to be manually stimulated, but most women I know much prefer either a hard dick or a soft tongue over a finger or fingers down there.
One thing that I have found to be almost universal, no woman likes to have a finger, (or anything else for that matter) to just be jammed up there without a little time spent getting her moist first.
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