I've had one friend tell me it's disgusting and she'd never do it. That's all she would say on the subject. Kinda shocked me. I know some that do and some that don't; more that do. I think it would help if civvie men would shave for their SO. I hate hair in my mouth. Personally, it excites me to see and feel my SO reach that "place" where his balls tighten and his muscles clench. That's a very womanly feeling!
I'm referring to civvie women... Why don't you like to suck dick? I had a civvie GF tell me once that she was not good at it. I pulled out my cock and said ill be the judge of that and it turns out that she was not that bad, after I gave her a few suggestions. I love to lick, kiss, and touch a beautiful pussy. I don't let this sound gay but, if I were a women I would love to suck dick. Having a head of his penis in your mouth while it grows has to feel great.. Right. Why do you think women (civvies) don't like it ? London please chime in here.
...I was technically a civvie, so I don't know why the civvies you're talking about don't like it. I know plenty of promiscuous women who aren't escorts and they like pleasing their man.
Can't generalize on this one.
That is a good point. Probably not a lot of ladies on here who have problems with BJ's.
Because civvie chicks would NOT get it !!! I have had more GFs that love to suck cock than those that don't. But I want to know why they don't like it. Providers please give me your thoughts.
That's like asking an orange why a grape doesn't like being a tomato.
It makes no sense to ask some one who does something ALL THE FUCKING TIME why someone else doesn't like something.
Ask the civvie chicks.
Nothing else really explains it. I CAN understand if a woman had an issue with cum in mouth.
I did date one gal who absolutely loved it. Once she got it in her mouth, there was no way she was letting go. She used to set the alarm 15 minutes early so she could give me a blow job in the morning. Woke up to her sucking me off more times than I could count.
That said, they are few and far between.
1. They've chocked on it. ---- at leat one
2. They're afraid of it going off. They don't now what will happen the first time.
3. Old morality. Anything other than straight mish is not right and that's good enough for them. --- many
4. It disgusts them
5. They don't like sex.
6. They've been told they are no good at it and nobody's shown them -- I had one
and on and on
I can't imagine sex without oral both ways, and I also don't see why so many guys report that civie women don't suck d*ck. I mean hello, we were not born hookers from the womb, so it would make sense that at one time we too were civie women. I was giving head 3 years before I ever lost my virginity if that tells you anything.
London- you are my hero !! What you said makes 100 percent sense. I just can't figure out why ladies won't. I can see why they don't want CIM. I get that. But to suck cock? WTF ? Like I said. If I were a lady for a day that thing I would look forward to is " who am I going to suck today". I think that would be the best part. That's just me
Does there need to be some sort of an intervention here?
"I won't even fk a guy until after he gives me CIM..."
I think I'm in love with a blond hooker from NOLA...
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or don't get payed enough.
the more you can get away with not doing because just being hot is enough for some men. There used to be an old joke that went, "Why do ugly girls give the best blowjobs...because they have to" lol. Or in my case, why do girls with tiny vaginas give the best head...no other choice lol.
Great answer !!!
They're pretty everybody does everything for them. Like my ex wife
This I have absolutely noticed. I also noticed that many of these gals have higher rates as well. Kind of a$$backward, but they obviously have their market.
Absolutely true! The HB10 civvies I've banged were so averse to being perceived as sluts -- and it's so easy to look at them that way whether or not they actually are -- that they avoid almost everything "sluts" do, like giving a head.
I have a nickname for perfect 10s who are sexually lazy- and inept. "Starfish", because that's what they resemble, albeit a good looking one.
Oral is pretty much off the menu in my "happy" household. And that goes for both giving and receiving. If I bring it up she thinks i'm joking.
Women like it as well, if not just as much. A little unconditional lovin' paid her way could work wonders.
Sorry, in non-P4P you might have to work a bit harder 
That's what I think it is. To me, head is much more intimate than intercourse. Yes, I felt this way before I ever started this. The man I was once married to lived in heaven--I'll leave it at that ; )
I had a civie girl tell me it was too soon for a BJ because of that.
No way. A guy can meet some ugly skank in a dark alley and get head but he won't dare fk her or kiss her. Kissing to me is the MOST intimate thing, but I can suck anyone off no problem. That is so far from my intimate scale it is unreal. Yea, I know...I am a true Hooktard.
... it's not always a happy ending for the both of us lol.
I had a bf with the worst diet and worst tasting semen I can recall. I dreaded giving him head (and i'm pretty damn good at it).
How many different tastes have you found?
For that, there is PINEAPPLE
I had a bf with the worst diet and worst tasting semen I can recall. I dreaded giving him head (and i'm pretty damn good at it).
Until that shit starts tasting like an all out fruit smoothie, I'm spitting it on the carpet lol.
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Men with really bad diets should eat more pineapple, celery, kiwi, lots of things that affect the taste. Pineapple really works.
and I might put the stuff in a cup. Until then, the carpet or the plant gets it.
I've got a banana for ya, lol
They've done studies on this. I'm too lazy to link a google search of "tastier semen" here ha ha but from what I remember reading it's a combination of diet + sperm count. The high sperm count = sweet, low = bitter. I used to 420 a ton, the exgf mentioned I tasted alot better after cutting back. Why? Pot lowers sperm count and semenal fluid quality (temporarily). I vaped or ate edibles btw (no smoker's lung or carcinogens for me plz) so it was easy to isolate what needed changing.
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I had a GF once that would rather suck my cock than to have sex. She would ask me "honey do you want me to suck your cock". Of course I said. YES !! She would suck me while driving, even sucked my cock in a department store dressing room. I guess she really liked to suck cock and she sucked and my balls to perfection. On the other hand I have had some that said " I'm not good at it". WTF does that mean ??
I would kill a cousin to be in her husband's shoes.
My friend who will not give her SO a BJ said she did not like the gagging feeling. Others have been worried about CIM.
Thinking back to my teens, my biggest fear was not being good at it. Too many men are quiet during the experience. A simple, "It feels good when your tongue slides around my cock" would go a long way. Once I had a few responsive men give me verbal feedback, I was on my way!! BJ is my favorite thing - even if I know he will most likely CIM and then fall asleep. But for me part of the enjoyment is watching my partner's face and knowing in that moment, he is completely mine. The other part I enjoy is being able to taste him at the back of my throat hours later. It's a sensual reminder.
As far as the taste - most taste like baking soda. But there are times when it is really sweet. My partner's has been the last few times and he has not changed his diet. Personally, I quickly take him further to the back of my throat if the initial taste is bad. That way it just slides down.
I've had one friend tell me it's disgusting and she'd never do it. That's all she would say on the subject. Kinda shocked me. I know some that do and some that don't; more that do. I think it would help if civvie men would shave for their SO. I hate hair in my mouth. Personally, it excites me to see and feel my SO reach that "place" where his balls tighten and his muscles clench. That's a very womanly feeling!
Soo TRUE! Men should take as much care with their personal hygiene as women.
ha I don't have a problem at all as I like to keep my boyfriend but where you are going wrong is to think women think about sex in civvie street the same way men do they don't believe me