Does this happen to other providers? This is a first for me.

And you realized that just now?

Never....never reply to her. Don't even acknowledge her emails. Do not answer or hang up instantly if she calls.
Same if he tries to contact you. Definitely never see him again. No matter what. Do not see him again.

Keeping in touch just prolongs the drama. Block is his email and texts. Just move on. He will too, cities are chock-full of chocolate (and vanilla) kisses for hire. He'll do just fine.

LOL...I totally agree with what she said.

You disrespected her because you're young ... and black? I've heard that rubs off ...too bad for her.
 

This guy cannot handle this and sounds crazy.
You are doing the right thing by not seeing him anymore.
Just make sure to block him for good!

I cut off contact with him when he confessed to me weeks ago. Then she emailed me last night. I was surprised.  

I hope she doesn't call. That would be crossing the line.

Agree with the advice given, but curious if you felt a thing for this guy. Getting personally involved is never a good idea for either party.

You are in no way shape or form responsible for or accountable to his indiscretions.

Is this your boyfriend or your client? One, I wouldn't even get involved in the crazy bullshit and when I worked as an escort, I used to cut off the wife talk, especially bad mouthing. You are believing a man that tells you they haven't been together in 4 plus years ?  

Yes and me not prying cause it's none of my business. It's just a job. Like I said, "with a grain of salt". He's the one who confessed all this drama to me a few weeks ago. Then she decided to email me. How am I involved with him personally?

No, I'm not looking to be in any relation anytime soon. He just saw me often, so I sort of knew him. It was always awkward when he'd tell me he loved me, men say many things.

I haven't reached out to him since I cut ties. I'm not interest in stirring the pot.

and had a forensic computer person go through it and got my history and everywhere I had visited.  She never contacted anyone though, but I could see her doing that.  It all boils down to the refrain in that poem:

I am sorry to hear that you were put in the middle of this.

YOUR security has been compromised.  You must screen all your calls & messages.  Does he have any personal info as to your real identity or location?  You may need to lie low or even relocate.  You don't know what a crazy soon-to-be EX might do.  Stalk you.  Drop a dime on you (to LE).  

He's been seeing you for like what? 5 months and already he says he loves you? That's what puts most people in shitty marriages. It can also be because one or both parties in the marriage have changed over time and this happens ALL the time. It can also be because most men are masochists.  

I would never see a gentleman whose wife confronted me and I would be extra cautious.  Scarey situation on so many levels.   A scorned wife is worse then LE and often will drop a dime on you.   Stay safe.

Had a similar experience.  A client was contemplating filing for divorce and became careless.  She checked the cookies and browsing history while he was traveling and then began to dig deeper.  She started checking cc statements and his paypal account.  Money was no option so her resources were far reaching and she spent a boat load terrorizing me indirectly.  But, don't think if this woman's financial resources that contacted you are limited that she can't make your life miserable.
Her Attorney was going to depose me but luckily he and his Attorney did a good job of circumventing and diffusing the situation.  This played out nearly 2 years.

Agree completely with harborview, and I'd add that wifey may not even need to work too hard on following the tracks...

I'm betting he's been seeing others, not just you.  Further, it seems he's been actively hobbying for awhile, which likely added to his wife's suspicions.  Dude got caught!

The moment a wife contacts you, you exist as either evidence, leverage, or a ghost.  Pick ghost.

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If it's just email, ignoring it is probably the wisest thing you can do.  

She emailed YOU.  You need to immediately change your e-address.   Anything he or she sends you will bounce back as undeliverable.  
He has your "work phone" number...  she may have it too.   You may need to change numbers.  

I'm not sure I understand the logic. If her provider name is the same, what's going to change if she publicly advertises?  The wife could google her, right?

There is absolutely nothing good that can come from it.  

While expressing "I'm not the one who cheated" might make you feel better, it can only make the situation worse since it acknowledges that her spouse cheated.  If he is following the wise advice of "deny, deny, deny" the LAST thing he will want to see is an admission from you via text or email of the relationship... and I also doubt that you would want the potential of a future deposition.  Ignoring her and not responding at all is the best decision.  She will eventually begin to examine her real problems and leave you alone.

follow the advice of this video !!  

now that's cute...as to the first part, hard to believe that's the same guy from Mad Men and as to the second part, my ex would have lit into me with all fours by the time I got the second "what?" out of my mouth.