Most of you want a provider that's GFE. Why do some men book a lady that advertises PSE and expect her to give you a GFE session (or any type of service that's the complete opposite)? It's like going to In-N-Out, ordering a double double, and asking why you didn't receive a salad. Since you've read nearly all of her reviews beforehand, what makes you book a provider if she doesn't perform the service you're interested in? There's also the option of asking the provider in advance if they are okay with doing the experience you're looking for instead of showing up and assuming they'll be okay with it.

Not being a rookie but hardly a grizzled veteran either---first,all gfe's and pse's there is some overlap and the definitions of those terms differ with certain providers and clients from what I can tell.I had one escort tell me years ago her definition of pse had to do with recording the experience or simulating like it was a video.Just that alone told me to stick with gfe.As for you asking the provider in advance what you want....how you supposed to do this if you're seeing them for the first time?Providers cut off communication with you the moment you start mentioning sexual details,right?You'd be the first to tell me differently.Only when you are mutually nude that you can start to discover what she does or doesn't do.Anyone want to educate me differently on what I just posted,go ahead.

BIG difference. Guys are sometimes stupid and think it is different to them. Girls choose how they are and that is the end of it. Very few offer either or. So if her reviews say GFE you are jumping leaps and bounds thinking she will PSE. Totally different mindset.

Hi,Rusty! ( I see you are not THAT rusty I am a provider and would like to prove you wrong... May I ?..

quite a few pornos actually try to show passionate sex with lots of DFKing, etc...  

and in your post you offer no description as to exactly what you advertise vs what these men are asking for, so no one can answer your question accurately beyond that.

many guys think with their little head and not with their big head.  It can and does cause issue with compatibility. Also many guys don't know how to research, if you don't read the juicy details or you don't have VIP membership, you won't have an idea of what the escort offers.

I'm fully aware that many guys are oblivious. I'm addressing the issue that the OP brought up regarding advertising GFE vs PSE. It is a significant issue because many people have in mind a definition of those terms, and it rarely matches from person to person.

And we have a sacred right to change what we want and how we want it on the turn of a breeze.

It's the American way!  (And if you don't like it, you can go to Russia.)

8o)

That's as close as I have seen the Fish come to a curse!
It had to happen eventually.

The OP's post is a case study in double jeopardy.  Yes, GFE and PSE are fuzzy descriptors by their very nature and thus are an imperfect thing to go on.  One simply compounds this by not reading the Juicy Details, which, even though they are often bullshit, are the best way to judge what her sessions are like.  The only other thing you can do is PM some of her reviewers.
It's called doing your homework.  If you don't, you really have nothing to complain about.  And it ain't that hard.

I've met some people who look at PSE as including everything GFE would plus a few more things.  How do you define them?

I could see if a gfe was expected to offer things like anal and facials, but not such a stretch to expect at least kissing from a pse. They kiss in porn

If she can't give the client what he wants (GFE), then she should return his donation and send him on his way. My guess is she's not doing this, she's still taking his donation and not giving him what he wants and complaining about it later.

i all of you, I read this and think perhaps one of the reasons for confusion over this is because the term is confusing. I advertise as a GFE but also have a fair amount of PSE in me if the mood strikes so it is very hard to differentiate unless the client asks for a very specific thing and one can say yes or no to that.

Whom is that question directed to?