I think I've seen this discussed here before, but it's been a while. What's everyone's opinion on multiple hour appointments? I normally think 1 hour is not long enough to talk and get comfortable, so I usually schedule 90 mins or so. 90 mins vs. 2 hours, is there any extra added benefit? Is there a lot of time spent chatting and reaching a level of comfort? I'm always torn between the 90 mins and 2 hours and I was hoping I could get some insight on people addressing longer appointments, even overnights or 2 hr plus appointments.
If I had the time (suddenly much scarcer for me) and the money, I would always prefer a few hours. The problem is that if things don't click, the lady and/or you get bored and annoyed. Usually two hours is pretty safe for a first time.
I have wanted more after 3 hours.
I agree that an hour can feel rushed.
This is a situation where more is better.
I haven't had an overnight, but I think I would like it.
A weekend? With the girl I have in mind it would be awesome.
It's hard to enjoy yourself when you are being rushed. 90 minutes is comfortable but 2 hours gives you time to enjoy each and every part of your company.
I hate to rush but i'm a big fan of getting into the thick of things right away. I could kiss and make out for hours and many gentlemen feel the same.It's a great way to get comfortable at the same time.
Many ladies give a discount on longer dates so check their website for that info. You might be surprised to see the difference in cost from 2 hours and 4 hours
Kisses Haley
so if I'm in sport fucking mode, 1hr, or max 1.5 if the lady has an extensive menu, is fine for me.
And I participate in this sport for the *sex* lol.
45 minutes of solid sex is enough for me at my age....
Now there are ladies whom I find interesting and simply fun to be with. In which case I will book a longer appointment. It is nice to have an unrused time, to build a bit of a connection.
But my priorities have moved away from this expresson of the hobby for the most part.
I would guess it all depends what you want to get out of your time. Some clients only do multiple hrs others only do 1hr appts.
Each to their own. Chemistry plays a great deal into any appt and a longer appt its key in my opinion.
I have many Gentlemen I see who prefer longer appt, they like the whole "date like" atmosphere so do I. That doesn't mean I think longer appts are for everyone, but some are truly great fun.
For me it depends on what I am looking for that day. Sometimes I just need to pop a load in which case 1-HR is usually enough time but then there are times when I could use a GFE to talk to as well as have sex with therefore I would need 1.5 or 2hrs. I just can't see anything more than 2 hrs though. JMO
I do an hour when I see someone for the first time. I'm a man of simple needs. However, with my atf she does outcall to my home. It usually goes 3, 4, or 5hrs. Would love to do an overnight with her, but this recessions has been tough on my business.
The amazing thing is how quickly it all slips away.
We have just got to find a way to freeze time!
agree with that. It can go by quite fast. When the company is good time is fleeting for sure.
and if it's going to be MY fantasy, that's what I want. I sometimes will go a couple of months between visits, so I usually ask for a dinner date. I prefer to spend the entire evening with a lady. I have yet to do an overnight, but have discussed it with one special lady.
From my perspective, 1 hour is more than enough. I just can't fathom doing more extended periods.
I don't get to hobby that often (maybe once or twice a quarter). Because of this, I am more inclined to look for the best experience I can have with a lady. I usually try to book at least two hours. Once in a blue moon, if I really want a special experience, I'll try a multi-hour deal with meal or some public activity like a show or night club. Regardless of the length of the appointment, I rarely get any more or any less "extra curricular activity" during the session. The extra time simply allows for a more intimate, more relaxed pace for our time together.
i do not have a 90 minute rate, because that would involve too much clockwatching for me and therefore take away from the experience overall. i like for things to be very organic and natural, not professional or mechanical.
i think that the length of session a gent prefers will depend greatly on what he is looking to get out of his time with a provider. if it's a simple sexual release and nothing more, than an hour will do for most. if you want a bit more relaxed erotic counter, two or three hours may be more your speed. if you just want to really enjoy the company of a woman you really like and who likes you in return, then overnights, full-day, or weekend dates may be more your style.
I have never scheduled less than 3 hrs with a lady and I don't plan to. I just don't understand short sessions, let alone half hour or even quarter hr sessions. I could pleasure myself and save a lot of time and money. (I have been pleasuring myself for a long time, and I am actually pretty good at it!) I don't have the opportunity to be with a gorgeous woman very often, but when I do, I want to savor every moment. I have always gotten good value for my money doing longer dates, the ladies seem to have appreciated the unrushed, unpressured atmosphere and they seem to remember me very well. I often get priority and deep discounts if we go out on the town, do something she likes or is excited about outside the bedroom. Sometimes I leave a few minutes early and sometimes I stay late, but I have never had to watch the clock. I have never had a bad date. Maybe I have been lucky, or maybe I do my homework, or maybe we have time to really find the good in each other. I have also had several overnights resulting in friendships that will last for ever. Having great sex with a person with whom I have a personal connection, respect, and true affection for, as well as who honestly likes me, is really what it is all about for me. I don't think I could reach that level in a one hr session. Maybe I could reach that in several one-hour sessions, but I don't have time for a lot of hit and miss and its a lot more expensive in the long run. And finally, after I have made a connection with a lady, I could never get enough of her presence in a short session.
awful so I fixed her computer, washed her car and did a little ironing.
She invited me back!
Really....I like 90 minutes.
Now that sounds like the ultimate GFE.
are right for me. It takes a while to get me there... all fun... My recovery time is too long for a second cup. That said I don't like to rush... 1.5 is pretty ideal but I usually go with a single hour because of budget.
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