She approaches you slowly, maintaining eye contact all the while. Her lips then run all around your face, but never touching your skin yet. They especially stay away from your lips. You can hear her breathing. You can FEEL her breathing. Then her lips approach your neck, then higher to your ears. Now her breathing sounds like the pounding of a drum. She still hasn’t touched you yet. Now her lips slowly brush across your face. They approach your lips, but she then starts to move even MORE slowly. Her lips are now a mere fraction of a millimeter from yours, but she holds this position for what seems like minutes. Finally, finally your lips touch hers, very softly at first, then slowly, very slowly the pressure builds.

What comes next can vary; you now belong to her no matter what shape the rest of the kissing takes.

The slow approach is the most erotic. Delay the moment of lip contact. Try it next time. This was taught to me by the most erotic Beverly Fisher of Denver.