Just move on. Remember, this is a prostitute and you are a john. Nothing more nothing less.
So about 4 years ago, I decided to take the P4P plunge, and immediately met my ATF. We had mad chemistry right from the get go, and when she increased her rate to $400, she told me that she wasn't applying it to me. So I was grandfathered at the original rate of $200, although I eventually went up to $250, because I was seeing another provider at that rate, and wasn't about to screw over my ATF.
We did have one hiccup, though. The second time we got together, I wound up with genital warts. I went to the doctor, got it cleared up, got the go ahead to resume sexual activity. I informed my ATF, and she took care of things on her end. I went back to her, and the problem never reoccurred. However, after that, she was paranoid and would no longer let me eat her out, although everythimg else stayed insanely hot.
So one night I was drunk and pissed off at my ex wife, who was banging her new boyfriend at our house (I hadn't moved out yet). So I sent my ATF a drunken text asking if we could do a $100 outfall and piss off the ex. My ATF had actually suggested doing this, but the $100 part pissed her off. She sent me a nasty text, saying that I was seeing $300 girls and only giving her $250. She also said that I gave her the genital warts, and ruined her body and life.
I want to fully apologize to her and make this right, but she needs to take responsibility for the fact that she was the one who gave me the warts, not the other way around. I don't want to lose my ATF. ladies, how should I handle this?
Most people unknowingly get the HPV virus pretty quickly after they start having sex. So it's likely you both had it when you met, you just hadn't broken out with the warts themselves yet. You also don't get it "cleared up." HPV is forever and the warts can come back during times of stress. So don't bother trying to get her to take the "blame." You've already lost your ATF, so move on.
This is not HPV Warts. It's HSV2.
Otherwise, how would you know what each of them actually has? The OP said "warts," and the usual cause is HPV. HSV2 does not cause warts, it causes lesions or blisters, a totally different thing.
... the argument that she gave you the warts. Never. There is no type or quantity of evidence, let alone "persuasive argument" that you can present to get her to think it's on her. It wont happen so don't even try.
After all, do you want to be "right" or do you want to get laid?
Tell her you are sorry - for everything. You are now super careful about keeping your junk clean and protected from exposure. You are sorry about the rude and low offer because you know she is different/special/a princess/whatever and so she's worth what she asks for. But since you have limited budget and really like being with her, you are very grateful that she gives you a discount.
If you are not willing to hand her your balls this way and hope, then fucking move on you little pussy. There's a million p4p providers. Go find some new strange.
...it's broken, and no amount of groveling on your part is going to get you back to how things were before...you could maybe convince yourself that you have, but her feelings regarding your patronage have been made clear and you're never going to erase it from your mind...
Move on...
Gential Warts = HSV2 (Genital Herpes)
Gential Herpes (HSV-2) doesn't really affect you that much physically but it can be problematic if the wife/SO decides to have children later on as gential herpes can cause complications with pregnancy. If you are a male, the only thing you have to worry about it is the uncomfortable flare-ups and such.
I have HSV-1 (contracted it a long time ago in high school, kissed a boy and got a bump on my lip!) and I take meds to prevent flare ups. Actually, the only time that I've had a flare-up was when I fell ill with strep throat as my immune system was totally compromised. Lastly, if anyone thinks I'm nasty/tainted, please be aware that HSV-1 is EXTREMELY COMMON in North America. Ever heard of a cold sore? Yes, that's another word for HSV-1 (Oral Herpes).
Moving on, when it comes to getting tested for HSV-1 & HSV-2, your doctor won't even test you if you're not having symptoms. A lot of STD clinics don't test for HSV-1, and will only test for HSV-2 if you show up with a bump on your dick.
Please google "genital warts" and get yourself better informed. - MM
Bottom line: beware of taking medical advice from ANYONE on here, including me. But especially from Ms. Baptiste in this case, who can tell a wart from a blister.
tell the wife, which she ever so often declares.
If you tell your Dr to do a FULL PANEL it will tell you everything! It will even detect cancers, vitamin and mineral deficiencies, etc... Warts isn't herpes. It's Human papillomavirus. 2 different viruses all together. Both are extremely common here in the US.
A full panel cost more but I strongly encourage everyone in p4p to go that route. Sure get regular testing every 3 or 4 months but a FULL PANEL atleast once a year. A clear conscious is a great feeling but a clean body is priceless! 😚
XOXO
TL
After all she's banging other people in his presence. Most of the times I heard these stories are the spouses who give it and transfer. Unless you do uncovered with your provider.
I think this story is BS and I wish I didn't read this garbage. $200 bucks is a steal while you're popping warts on your cock. Smdh.
May the farce be with you..
I think this story is BS and I wish I didn't read this garbage. $200 bucks is a steal while you're popping warts on your cock. Smdh.
Just move on. Remember, this is a prostitute and you are a john. Nothing more nothing less.
If you only found one ATF in four years, you don’t know what you are missing! Get on with it and make 50% of your sessions with new girls! If you are active you will be picking up a new ATF every month or two! By the way get out from under the same roof as the married, cheating bitch ASAP! Good hunting!
then go back to the wife, and with the money you save on alimony, you'll be able to afford the $300 gals.
how you resolve the he did it/she did it of the warts is something I'll leave to the greater minds on this board.
do you know your wife didn't give it to you? I mean really, you already said your wife is banging other people. I'm quite sure people are going to PM you to find out what provider it is. You're throwing that provider under the bus when you don't really even know it was her. Goodness.
Fyi.... The estimated incubation period from HPV infection to genital wart development is 2 weeks to 8 months, with the majority of genital warts appearing 2–3 months after an HPV infection.
And you're positive it came from the provider? I'd be demanding the wife get tested too!
XOXO
TL
We both got tested after that happened. She came up negative for everything.
Did you see the results or did she just tell you and you believed her? Count me as a sceptic.
We both went to the same clinic and we both showed each other our test results, which both came in the mail the same day.