The board isn't representative of everyone, and posts like this are really the exception.

Having said that, not everyone is in on your end of the spectrum, either.  You seem to be looking more for companionship than you are for sex, and that's fine.

Both ends of the spectrum are completely valid, but realize that most people fall somewhere in the middle.  The whole concept of GFE basically means something in the middle, where there is sex, but also affection.

as long as it works for you, who gives a fuck what the other guys are thinking?

Now don't get me wrong, I am still one of the board's "assholes" I will be among the first to jump all over your ass if you ever post one of those insipid "i have fallen for a provider and can't get up" type of posts, and I will equally jump your shit if you start in with "all providers are goddesses and should be worshiped for putting up with us",

Now that we've got that out of the way. (I do have a reputation to protect after all) Your attitude is probably the majority opinion here, and you shouldn't have to feel apologetic about it. It's your time and your money, you don't have to have a PSE to get your money's worth, if you are happy at the end of the day, that's all that's really important.

Nothing wrong with that. Yes, most of the time I also wish to bed her and do. I too like the whole woman. I chose the mouth because oral sex is my favorite and also I wish to hear what she has to say.

What's good for you may not be good for others. Although, I am always in perfect form.