My apologies if this has been covered before but has any hobbyist here actually had success using a hook up site?  

Civie women who advertise for one night stands are just an urban myth right?

SOME of the women are real, maybe 10%.

If you sign up for a free account, you will receive periodic PMs from "women" until you upgrade to a paying account in order to read/respond. Then these interested women disappear.

The 10% who are real mostly fall into two broad categories. 1. Women you don't want to know 2. Women who are too good for you and aren't afraid to let you know it.

Overall, a scam and a bust. You could get laid there but a provider is a better deal.

disappointed in the few hookups I did make...

Stories would curl your  hair... just too awful to really believe.

c'mon BizzaroSuperdude, I just made pop-corn! I'm waiting! Please do share one of 'em...

AM is very much real but with things in the civvie world you need to have some skills besides willing to pay.  IF the only way you can get a woman who wants to fuck you is by paying her, AM is not for you.

Most of the people there that aren't scammers are looking for an extra marital affair.  They wish to remain married but want to fuck around.  Its not NSA in that they still want a relationship,  someone to email, chat with, and talk to.

I've met three people from there.

Its more like traditional dating for married people than pay to play.