You will find out that communication is key and generally welcome. Choose (if you haven’t already) a reviewed provider with her own website. You can use info from her site as a way to start talking. If you do not initiate DFK, she won’t either. Similarly, you can as for the cover anytime; she won’t mind - safety is on her mind as well.

Try to relax and think of her as a friend. You are not there to perform and she will take care of you. Enjoy!

You can tell the provider you don’t do any fluid exchange or unprotected activities and they’ll be happy to abide.

For myself, I have dental dams for DATY, condoms (non-latex and female condoms), even condoms and gloves for fingers because I like to avoid bacteria and risk of getting scratched up there!

Showering off immediately before and after, using hand sanitizer and avoiding cross contamination (don’t touch their genitals and then yours or vice-versa), letting the provider be the only one allowed to touch the condom, switching condoms between activities and partners (female condoms are great for 2-girls) using baby wipes with alcohol added to clean off any fluids before insertion are all good practices I learned working at the brothel where we were tested every 7 days. I still do a full panel test regularly (next appt is coming up!)

  Have fun! There are many legit providers here including me! Some don’t do bbbj or kissing on mouth.

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You want to play safe with as less risks as humanly possible.

Not a problem just be honest & any professional provider will respect your candor. You’re interested in a none GFE session Full service with everything covered. Any pro will be happy to accommodate your request.

You can to. Just be sure to communicate that to whomever you choose and there should be no problems.

Just be clear, you want to relax and enjoy yourself.  So some hugging, touching. No French kiss.  You get to relax and get a CBJ followed by covered FS.  She'll tell you how much.  You agree and meet.  Then enjoy and write a review.

It sounds like a scenario a lot of girls would like.  You are clear on expectations.  She knows what to deliver.  She gets paid, you get laid.

Diving into the deep end to start...look at you

Everyone is telling you what to do, search for well reviewed TER girls, blah blah blah..Tell the young lady that you're a safe guy, she'll understand. Although getting a CBJ and no DFK,,,is a deal breaker for me...but this is about you so, Just tell her.
This is what you DON'T want to do...Don't get caught up with the $200 girlie ads, trust me you'll regret it. Stay away from the CG's, casino girls. She'll give you that wink and a smile when your path cross. Flirt with them, talk to them, have fun cutting the shit with them but DO NOT TAKE THEM TO YOUR ROOM! If she's wearing sandals and with a friend....RUN!!
Look, just see a well reviewed girl who tickles your fancy....have fun...but don't be STUPID..haha