however you classify it; most women don't need to pay for the services of a gigolo, there are plenty of adult dating sites out there.
That's what my (now ex) wife did after she learned about my hobbying. I'm not sure if her aim was to make me so jealous that I would stop hobbying and go back to her, or if she was truly looking for fun for herself; maybe a mix of both.
In any case, her plan didn't work. I was sort of glad she was getting some on the side. I figured it would take the onus off of my hobbying, and if it made her a happy, so much the better.
Eventually, it didn't work, she decided she could not "live a lie" (Whatever the hell that meant.) and took off. She's still looking for Mr. Right as far as I can tell.
Even with the high financial cost of divorce, I still think things worked out for the best.
What would you do if you found out your wife had been seeing a male provider? Would you be mad? And,if yes, isn't that hypocritical since we're hobbyists.
I am not married. I was once, for two years, 31 years ago. I told the lady at the time what to expect from me. Sexual issues had nothing to do with ending our marriage. Since this time, I have cohabited with quite a few SOs.
I am not possessive or controlling or jealous by nature. I guess I'm wired that way, because I do not understand why people generally are. And I am mystified by those providers who have SOs, and expect them to be exclusively theirs. I do not make commitments of exclusivity and I do not desire them from my SOs. This to me seems unnatural.
When my current wife and I were dating about two decades ago, we were having dinner with another couple and the question came up whether I would be jealous if my then girl friend went to a conference, say in California, met a really attractive man, and had a week end fling with him. I am not jealous in that way and I said I would hope she had had a good time. She didn't talk to me warmly for weeks and I learned I should have said: "I'd track him down and kill him." The fact is, if it gave her pleasure and she didn't bring home any diseases, how does that hurt me?
If she visited a male provider, I would hope she would have had the same kind of wonderful experience that I have frequently enjoyed with some of the lovely women I have met.
I'm sure certain men would really enjoy the tricks and tips that their wives might learn with a provider and then be able to share back home to spice things up with their hubbies. An open minded and liberal man would probably only benefit from his wife enjoying the company of a well bred male provider. --Sitara Devi
a question like that. The only safe move is to kick the idiot who asked the question in the knee as hard as you can for putting you in a no-win situation.
IMHO, There are two truisms in life: Men will never figure out women, and Pussy makes a man stupid.
because of my wife's emotional issues that come from childhood. I still think she's the sexiest woman I know...after almost 30 years. I've started to hobby only after going sexless for about 3 years and realizing it would be for the rest of my life.
If she didn't want me and wanted somebody else I'd get a divorce.
And hobbying gets me nice ladies, a couple are very dear to me. But nothing replaces real love intimacy. Nothing. And I miss it terribly.
however you classify it; most women don't need to pay for the services of a gigolo, there are plenty of adult dating sites out there.
That's what my (now ex) wife did after she learned about my hobbying. I'm not sure if her aim was to make me so jealous that I would stop hobbying and go back to her, or if she was truly looking for fun for herself; maybe a mix of both.
In any case, her plan didn't work. I was sort of glad she was getting some on the side. I figured it would take the onus off of my hobbying, and if it made her a happy, so much the better.
Eventually, it didn't work, she decided she could not "live a lie" (Whatever the hell that meant.) and took off. She's still looking for Mr. Right as far as I can tell.
Even with the high financial cost of divorce, I still think things worked out for the best.
He who wouldn't trade money for piece of mind deserves neither
if it hurts to be in a relationship, it's gotta be priceless to get out of it and get on with life
I've known too many men who lived in misery for too long because of not wanting to part with the money. And they were well enough fixed that this was not going to mean working two jobs or losing their retirement. Every guy I've known who has faced the music and gone on with his life has been happier for it. I'd say the same for a majority of the ladies in fact, eventually, though they do seem to struggle a bit more in the aftermath....
what would I have to be pissed off about? You know, what's good for the goose...Blah, blah, blah. If it was a civie relationship, that might be a different story. Since her health isues have had her sexually inactive for well over five years, I don't think I have to be concerned with either situation.
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