I have a "date" booked with an out of town provider for next week. Her profile says CIM and spits . Some older reviews seem to bear this out but a couple of newer ones say she does NOT allow CIM.

She has someone set up her appointments, so I am a little hesitant to ask even though I am verified.

I have pmed several of her more recent reviewers and none of them asked her for it.

When in doubt, I have often asked the provider in a careful manner. It's nice to know ahead of time to avoid those moments.

If it's who I think it is

She told me I taste great .
 
   If she doesn't have reviews , I wait until she says no before I learn her rules .
 That's a true GFE .  

consenting adults is purely by their own choosing.

I am proud to have twenty-five pages of rules, which I’ve published in a convenient downloadable format available for purchase. It is titled:  "Comprehensive Listing of Unacceptable Etiquette, Lewdness and Excessively Sleazy Sex" – or CLUELESS for short.

When I first met my current Provider, we talked about what we expected from each other. She's Open to anything I want, except Greek. She's Awesome and Adorable so I'm very happy with her now going on 5 months. I'm seeing her this weekend.

now she went and made you go limp by saying that I bet.  
  you can tell and back off and before

when i say its time to go. do not argue with me or

start talkn rag time. I will have vito and the boys show up and you wont be able to walk again. no no no. god kidding people!!!
actually if you read my reviews I never clock watch. with normal nice cool guys.
i got a real doozy mon, and god i def wasnt lettn him stay hear beatn his limo dick any second over 2 hours.
idiot lost his keys too then i had reprimand him while he whimed and tried to rifle through all my shit.  
  he was the most annoying draining customer i have had in my whole I d say this whole 2 years. total dweeb. thank god its over.
  he did make me have to do the security call though. he was that freakn out of control. I wont tolerate having to ask you more than 3 times to start gettn your self together and in shower and all.  
    and there is a protocol in event  this goes down here at the gfe spoa. oh yes .  
i make sure i cover all the bases.  
soomer or later some idiot always has to come try n push my buttons.  
never has any one of the guys that reviewed me or i whitelisted almost 100 whitelist!
  not one of any of them have EVER gave me lip when i say ok babes ship em up n move em out!
  if they are sweethearts i dont care hey we get in a conversation for 15 and i dont have a agenda no big deal. but if the guy is being rude whol session. there is no politeness or being cordial. it dude. you really gotta go. like as in NOW

until the action has started.

I had an appointment recently where the girl started asking what I was looking for before I saw her bra.   She even asked about extra $ for PSE at this point.  Freaked the shit out of me. I almost got up, grabbed the money, and left.

That's rule 1, right?  Don't talk about fight club?  It baffles me when people say they bring this stuff up in pre-appointment texts and emails.  About the only thing I'll ever do is make a simple clothing request.

Once she's began a BJ, then I'll ask for specifics.  I think the girl in your story could have handled it more tactfully, but I think that's the right time to bring that up.  It's a good time to start talking sexy and finding out what each other wants/allows.