Will you be able to have a normal relationship when the time comes for you to hang up ur hobby gear?

this is the way to go.
To much drama in a relationship.
I still have my adult kids and grandkids to love.

However I have said this before, a provider has to put up what she would not have in a civvie relationship and I think the business has made me less tolerant of certain things in regard to sex and possibly relationships.  

Hell , I have a normal relationship now and have for years.
Of course I don't think enjoying the hobby is abnormal.

Both hobbyists and providers may have issues dating after leaving the hobby world.  Even while in this world dating will be weird.  Amanda Brooks has a great post on her blog about hobbyists and dating, I attached the link.

both individuals, not just you. Consider your partner's wants and desires too.

Wow, the blog post was interesting. Although I don't agree that all "hobbyist" are as she described.

But I can see how hobbyist may let this get to their head.  After paying to have beautiful women put in their best effort for you I'd imagine dating and/or marriage life would be somewhat of a let down.  At the same time, when my generation's idea of dating is friends with benefits and "hey want to cum over and watch a movie" dating for us can also be somewhat of a let down.

Like the normal white picket fence rotting  in boredom ,
   normal relationships are prone to disappear .  

I guess if you have money to burn I can see having an attitude like that, or if you don't truly value a woman. I am not that much older (9yrs) than you and don't understand the idea that dating now is FWB and ordering pizza and watching a movie. What happened to going out for dinner and drinks, a show, paddle boat dinner or just plain putting some effort into dating.

Sad but i tried but it is just not as interesting.

she sounds like a lady who is very unhappy with her life choices.

I would think so... If you are getting paid, of course you do what the boss wants, it's called work for a reason.

The 20 something men these days are extremely lazy and self entitled.  I call it "man boy" syndrome.

and since there are plenty of clients out there who are not "hobbyists", it's all good.

That is illegal will alwys be seen as abnormal. To think otherwise is delusional

he can't be that unhappy....the entire world has seen her face in association with escort services.  

Yet money is a strong enough motivator to allow you to compromise your own principles which you claim are paramount?

and not for others.

I did not mention I had to compromise principles that were paramount. I did however say that there were things I did that I would not do in civvie dating, not a huge deal although clearly you wanted it to be in order to back up your perception of my very simple post.  

Only illegal is surpressed backward cultures.  
Criminalzation of the hobby in itself is abnormal.

In p4p my wants and needs are second if not ever considered depending on who I am with. In the civvie world I can speak up and tell him what I want and need in order for it to be MUTUALLY satisfying. IF he does not care about that here's I get up and leave and won't feel bad about it.  

I have a business which took me years to build into a success. The only thing I don't like are the people, and temperments, I have to deal with. But guess what, I can get rid of them if I want haha. No principles ever compromised

If someone is that much of  pain in the ass, they are not rebooked. Funny about you not liking the people and temperaments (sometimes), not unlike this business  and then we have other things here that you don't have to deal with and vice versa.  

It's all relative, is it not?

Name one normal person that has contributed anything of lasting value to the world.

All great achievements in any fields of endeavor have been accomplished by abnormal people who go beyond the bounds that society sets for them.

The last thing I would want to be known for is being normal.

all about YOU. In P4P the guy is #1, otherwise it should be about BOTH partners. Yes, you did use "mutually" in the above post but that was after I posted my comment.