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I avoid last minute (same day) arrangements and like to give at least 3-4 full days notice. I don't think I'd be interested in scheduling too far out, like 2-3 months, because so much can happen in that time.  

If it's a traveler, then I'll make contact at least a week before her visit (more time if I know she fills far in advance), and give 1 or 2 preferred times and ask what she has open.

I've never asked for a pre-screen without specific times

Just curious how long in advance most providers will accept a prescreening request?
Is it different in her home area or just to be screened for a future tour?
Personally, I have been prescreening people for areas I want to tour to- the most prescreen requests- will be where I start my tours.

A friend just told me she does not allow prescreening without a specific & close date in mind because a person could become blacklisted in the meantime- OK - I understand and respect her choice but for me I feel "most" people that are in my home area or an area I will travel to - if they prescreen- we will have a major advantage to actually meet.
I miss so many appointments because people wait to the last second.  
Sometimes I can't answer emails for two weeks and it aggravates me when I find out the appointment was missed because the person waited until 2 or 3 days before when they knew about the business convention 2 months ago.
I am just wrapping up moving and have requests from 3 weeks ago - I'm just going to answer tonight- some people have been a little cranky and some very understanding that I have to be settled in to my home first before I can really plan too much.
If a request is easy- like the person has 140 OKs- great its easy to answer fairly quickly but even that- I had got a request from p411- I looked at it while in the middle of standing while the movers were bringing in furniture and I planned to answer when I was with my calendar but the guy thought I did not want to see him because I had not responded right after viewing his profile- thankfully when I explained why I had viewed the profile but not responded- he was good and we have a lovely afternoon planned.
I love the people are super smart & are planning now for Dec, Jan, & Feb NOW- I LOVE THAT!!!!!

I understand the spur of the moment can cause a person to want to fuck NOW - which is great but do you as hobbyist reach out to girls to prescreen or providers do you feel like the person should just reach out when they are actually ready to pick a date

The few times I tried prescreening were totally ignored.

I avoid last minute (same day) arrangements and like to give at least 3-4 full days notice. I don't think I'd be interested in scheduling too far out, like 2-3 months, because so much can happen in that time.  

If it's a traveler, then I'll make contact at least a week before her visit (more time if I know she fills far in advance), and give 1 or 2 preferred times and ask what she has open.

I've never asked for a pre-screen without specific times

cuppajoe184 reads

Getting screened is a project for me, as most of the ladies that I see are repeats.  Getting references lined up, waiting for replies, some back and forth on schedule, etc.  Not to mention that the appointment might be a week or two out.  Doing this once or twice a year is about right for me.

I imagine it's a lot of work for a lady if most of her clients are new acquaintances.  Just keeping track of who's who might require a spread sheet, at least a bunch of notes on the phone or an old school little black book.

Once I know my travel dates I'll start reaching out a week or two to a couple girls to get pre-screened and set a date with one of them. An then if something happens, which it has, an she has to cancel, I have a back up. I've also been lucky in getting last minute appointments with virtually no screening. Just a simple call chatting on the phone an letting them know how I found them an their availability.

so I contact to BOOK, not to "pre-screen".  

I may book a date as much as 2 or 3 months in advance if I am planning to travel, but if I'm booking a local date I'll typically book 3-4 days or maybe a week in advance.

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