maybe i am nostalgic by nature but do you ever wonder what happened to your first encounter .. provider or client ..
mine was in Vegas around 1989 .. $150 to come to the room to learn that was just agency fee .. oops so got quick $40 HJ and she left ..late 30s woman white next door type from cleveland so she might be in her 60s now first FS was a couple years later around 94, met this young hot russian blonde $180 for FBSM .. so she is doing a nice HJ and says hey lets have sex, back then i was too naive to even ask if that was more $$ . well it wasn't but took me a while to pop in missionary i was so nervous i was sweating!! ... of course i was younger, had hair, flat stomach so a bit more appealing than i am now! LOLMy first time was truly terrible. It was before I knew of TER and it was woman who was approximately 30 years older than how she was presenting online. I got scammed and the session was horrific and I will leave it at that. I didn't come back to the hobby for years and really thought that would be my one and only date as it was THAT bad.
I had no idea how to research so you could say it was my fault, at least partly. "Buyer beware" and all that. lol.
Then I had a few great people mentor me up and show me how to have fun in this realm and I have never looked back. It's been an incredible ride.
Good post!
Nuff said.
A quick, covered BJ in the front seat of my car. Then I found a tabloid with ads from East Side cat houses and went that route. Cost was $120-$150/hour, everything covered. But I was young and it was fun. This was in the late '80s, so pre-Interwebs.
… venue was different…. a porn theatre on 14th St… then I found the same cat houses as you. The rest is history and I mean that scene has been gone for decades. Nice while it lasted though 😆
When Rudy became Mayor he had the cops shut down all the cathouses in the city. Ironic, considering what we know about him now.
Well, I do hate him, but as a former resident of NYC, I actually liked that he cleaned up the streets. Times Square was gross and unsafe back in the 80s and early 90s. I would say this is the one thing he did well. I don't need street walkers in my backyard when I can have a classy escort waiting in a nice hotel room.
And, of course, he did a great job in the aftermath of 9/11. But I can never forgive him for shutting down my favorite whore houses.
OK, so it wasn't quite that long ago, but you get the idea
In any case, she was a very skinny but young blonde gal with an apartment not far from Harvard Square in Cambridge.
"One hour massage" read her ad, but more like ten minutes. She was fully dressed but just before the happy ending she did pull up her shirt so I could see her AAs. The massage was awful, by the way. A bit of talcum powder and very light rubbing around. The hand job was not great shakes either.
She left the room after that and I just laid there thinking she would come back to give me my hours worth, but then she poked her head in and asked why I wasn't dressed already.
Live and learn.
Cost $40, but I was impressed enough to repeat a few weeks later and got a BBBJ the next time for $60. She spit it out onto a wad of tissues.
And no, I haven't really wondered what became of her. I soon went on to bigger and better things.
Mine would have to be when I first got interested in BDSM and bought my first strap on. I could not imagine any guy would actually pay me to do this with them so I placed an ad on backpage to see if I could get one response and got about 30 replies within an hour. LOL
I had no clue what I was doing, no idea how to do screening, no clue how much to charge, anything.
My first pick of the litter said it was "amazing" and I saw him about 5 or 6 times after that.
I never in million years thought I would be pretty enough or thin enough or young enough (I thought all guys wanted tiny blonde barbie dolls in their 20s!) so I learned a lot about the business and men in general.
No regrets and the best life decision I ever made.
I know she's still around. She wasn't the best experience around but for a first time it was good enough. She's kooky but a nice lady.
She's still working and is in her 60s now.
My father and a few of his buddies decide to take the boys to Vegas. One of the sons and myself jumped in a cab after he won a a few hundred in a slot machine. Not really knowing where to go or what to do we asked the cab driver. Ended up and we got lucky with a cool cab guy. He says for $100 and a case of beer he would take us to whore house. Of course being dumn kids we jumped at it. We drive out into the desert for a hour 1/2 and them come to a brightly lit series of modular home joined together. Security is tight with guards and tall fencing with razor wire at the top. We enter and the cab driver goes to the window to get his kick back. After that we go into a large living room with bright red carpet and the look of a classic whore house. One by One the ladies come in scantily dressed and introduced themselves. My buddy picked out a red head and I picked out a beautiful blond with a killer body. She took me back to the room and while I didn't last long I knew this is something I will do again. I still have the 10 page printed menu of activities to purchase.
can you take a picture of the menu and post it via something like imagecoast ? how long ago was this ?
My 1st time was an agency call quick 15 minutes no repeat ever. $300 for a fast hand job with a condom. lol this was 2001 don’t judge me.
That was an expensive hand job!
to overcharging. Lol
When I was in college, I went to Amsterdam with some friends looking for fun times! Of course we came across the red light district where the girls hung out in storefront windows trying to seduce guys walking by. I found a hot girl and she invited me in! I remember getting a bj, then she turned around, bent over and said stick it in! I think the whole thing was covered, and I know I didn’t last long! It was a good experience!
The next time was after college on a trip to Thailand! We discovered “Pat Pong, a street loaded with bars that each had what seemed like hundreds of hot young girls looking for action! Coincidentally, in one of the first bars we visited we ran into a college acquaintance who explained the deal to us which involved paying the “house” to take a girl out. It became quite addicting, and we returned to PatPong several nights in a row! We also found paid companions at other stops along the beaches we visited! Those girls were all young and hot as well! Back then we thought you had to go to foreign countries where those activities were legal to partake!
My intro to hobbying in the US was spotty and slow to develop in the last 15 or so years!
I found it thoroughly dispiriting. Fat Western tourists being hustled by women who look too young to drive, too small to be interesting, too jaded to be any fun, and/or too well-hung (not that there's anything wrong with that!). Between the Sodom and Gomorrah feel, the general seediness, and the feeling I was going to be pickpocketed any second, I couldn't wait to get out of there.
First time was a dreary "house" on a dingy alley in Philadelphia. For the princely sum of $15, the tentative and off-putting young lady offered a BJ/HJ. Could barely stay hard and didn't even finish because it was so awful.
2nd time not much better. Equally dismal setting with a superannuated woman who had that super attractive smoker's raspy croak. I was able to do the deed to a thoroughly uninspired climax, after which she turned to me and said lovingly "Didn't get no big popper, huh?".
How I bounced back from that, I don't know.
business trip to Tampa in the early 1980s. Went to a bar near the airport that had the look of a singles bar with a dance floor. Asked a nice looking late 20s woman to dance and then bought her a drink. "Do you work in Tampa" I ask. "I am working now" she responds with a very big smile. Don't remember the cost but remember the rest of the evening at my hotel very fondly!
After the CES show, January 2004, at The Chicken Ranch. I had a several hour "party" and it was EXPENSIVE. We never copulated and the BJ was covered, but what the hell did I know.
First time in the Hobby, per say was 2011. First time using TER and P411. I posted a review and it is still there.
I have seen her recently and many times prior. Excellent first experience almost 13 years ago to the day.
nevertoolarge,
I am a straight forward person. Meaning, I'll tell you all of my rates and explain what you get for those rates. Just email me at [email protected]. My real name is Janet.