Wanted to get everyone's opinion on what you define as the age of a mature provider and for the gents only - what is the age of of the oldest provider you have seen? For me, I define a mature provider as someone over the age of 40 and I seen a bunch of traveling mature providers (Summer, Cali, Janelle) and the oldest mature provider I have seen is probably Jessie from Florida who was about 60 when I saw her about 3 yrs ago.

Women in their 30s, 40s and 50s have been my most fulfilling partners.   I just had this discussion with a provider after realizing that Kate Beckinsale is over 40 now, and she pointed out that she looks better now than in her 20s... but it's even more than just looks. We both agreed there are some people who age, while there are others who simply pass through time and are literally timeless - many of the latter being in the TER community.

Mid 30s+ to me is where timeless begins tho if I see an ad for a 'mature' provider I am thinking 40+

 

 

 

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although maturity is not always the same as age, as well all know...

otherwise we wouldn't be playing here...

still waiting for Robbin to visit up my way

mature ladies are the absolute best..they truly appreciate a good stiff hard cock and are super wet when you knock on the door..48..she is retired now but one of the best i have ever had..

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... the ol... er, most mature provider I've seen was 46-ish.  And she was as energetic as a 20-year-old, with a body most 20-something ladies would die for, but with skills that only experience imparts.  She's returned to her civvy career.  There's several providers in their mid-40s to 50+ who based on their reviews, reputation, and photos I'd love to meet someday.  Being more mature myself, I find women of that age especially copacetic... although some of my favorite providers are/were in their 30s.

I have seen two providers in their 50's, one being at least 55 and they were both fantastic.  I prefer at least 30 something versus the girls in their twenties.

from the time of my first relationship at 16 years of age until now -  there is something about that age that presents a certain je ne sais quoi

but when it comes to providers,  I mostly like 21 - 30 though there have been some notable and quite worthy exceptions -

once as a young man of 24  I literally got picked up by and fucked a lady who was 60 at the time, but who looked to be in her mid to late 40s.   Good lord she was beautiful and well turned out and in excellent shape.....

Have at it

Obviously I can't speak from experience, but I think women over 35 have acquired a certain grace and self-awareness by that point in their lives. I'm kinda stoked for it.

because you are quite right though as a European my experience has been that this shift occurs a bit earlier   say early 30s - which has always been an state of grace and elegance that has held much attraction for me in real life.....

but

women seem at their most fertile when they are but teenagers.....   and at a certain ripeness of perfection physically younger in life then when they come into their bloom of personhood -

that is an irony that does not seem possible unless a male deity conceived (!) of it....

were between 22 and 26.
To me "mature" is 30 and above, but I have known many early 20s gals who are "mature for their age."

I agree with PS.  My youngest was 18, oldest was 36.  I think "mature" is over 35.  Since I have a sexy mature wife at home, I don't seek out older providers.  The younger ones fill my fantasy, and yes, some of the younger girls are really mature for their age.

For my money, the women between 30-36 are the most desirable. And if saying that out loud means I get the come-on from all those who currently fall in that fleeting spam of years via PM's galore, so be it. That age, worldly smarts, and big breasts go a long way toward reeling me in.

I like cutting the fool with younger women, because I learn a lot from them, but they don't make the old warhorse rear up on his hind legs like their big sisters do. And they know it. More than one has confided that she wished she could shimmy like her sister Kate, and I could say nothing more but that I hoped she developed the knack by the time she reached 30.  

And I'm not saying that after 36 it's all over. A woman can lie about her age as long as she looks the part, and if I'm convinced, I'm all in.

Maybe it's in the point when they fully understand life enough to feel passionately about wringing every moment dry, but not yet at the point where they get the joke and see life for the selfish bitch she is. I'm only guessing on that, and maybe projecting a little of my own misery into it.

Anyway, those years are the heart of the melon, the T-bone's filet, and the crispy end of the brisket of beef. God, just thinking about them makes me drool!


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I've always been attracted to women in their 30s and 40s.  I really don't even look at profiles for the under 30 age group.  IMHO, mature women are way better at sex in that they know what they like and aren't afraid to let you know.  They are also usually more experienced which only adds to the pleasure.  The best sex I've ever had has always been with mature women.  Less game playing and more attention to detail.  This applies to both civvie as well as hobby sex.  I'm going to Cali soon and I have a session planned with a mature provider that I am SO looking forward to.  Honestly, I wish there were way more mature providers to choose from...... Rock on ladies!!!