I give $20 tip.  Even when the cost of service $400+.  Is that an insult? Am I better giving no tip? Bear in mind, I'm 71 years old, so the lady has to put up with my old age.

because your frame of reference from your past is that a twenty is a generous tip, and years ago, it was.  Not tipping is worse.  Give what you can and are comfortable with.  Most ladies will take your age into consideration and will not be insulted.  $20 is typical among older gents.  

 
We had a monger in SoCal on social security and a small pension who was a lot older than you (80's) and saw two Kgirls a month, and always tipped $20.  Most of the girls he saw really loved him.  He wrote the most entertaining reviews under his username, "rockynutz."  I heard we lost him to Covid.  All-around great guy and a credit to the brotherhood of mongers.  I hope I'm still going in my 80's like he did.

Really your call.  Guys that tip me usually give in the $20 to $50 range, sometimes more. A gift card is also a nice gesture.  Just don't give $8. I had a guy pull out a five and three ones from his wallet and it was very, very weird and awkward.

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The reason age doesn't matter to them is because they aren't marrying you or establishing a serious relationship.  You are a customer.   As long as you are clean and friendly they will gladly invite you back.  

You are not required to tip anything at all.

As I've stated in other threads I have been doing this since the 80's and I have never "tipped".  I'm not cheap, I'm not penny pinching, I often hobby at least twice a week with quality ladies and occasionally see the traveler that catches my eye as they pass through and not once have I been asked for a tip, was refused service, or had a lower level of service than anyone else including the guys who seem to think that "tipping" will make them more "special" to the lady.

If you ever dive deeper into this lifestyle and actually talks to the ladies, the ones who will be honest, you are actually someone many would prefer as a client.

With experience and some maturity many ladies prefer clients like you to be a regular.  You probably won't be trying to attempt gymnastic feats of daring do or going for multiple shots on goal and many ladies prefer a client who isn't going to wear them out or try to break some personal record.

Don't look on your age as something you should be apologetic for or that you need to somehow compensate them because of.

It is a business and you'd be surprised how many ladies have older clients and how they prefer them.

That being said, feel free to tip, or not tip, whatever you prefer. It's your choice, we are all buying an illusion and if it makes you happy then more power to you I say.

Just don't think it is mandatory.

I've met ladies who actually seem to want to be ridden hard and put away wet. But I've met a lot more who appreciate a gent who takes his time and relishes all the nuances of the encounter.

I can't ignore that some of it may be selfish on the part of the lady--an old gent such as me is probably less demanding. But part of them no doubt genuinely appreciates that we like our sex at 33 rpm. More time for both parties (or all 3) to smell the roses.

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May I know your age?

I'm in my mid 50's.

I have gotten to know many ladies in this line of work very well over the years, some I've dated and some I've become close personal friends of.  In a few weeks I am heading out of state to attend one friend's daughters graduation party.

Amongst many of the fine ladies I have known over the years what I stated is exactly what they have told me.

Make no misassumptions, I've had my wild and crazy encounters, threesomes and foursomes with multiple providers, planned encounters with a twist, once in a haunted house ride at an amusement park, etc... but one of the nicest compliments some have told me is that they like being with me because I am easy, I'm comfortable to be with, I don't feel like "work" and they enjoy spending time with me.

These ladies are human, and that gets lost a lot in the stark spotlight of places like this, and many actually do enjoy having a pleasant time at work with someone who makes them feel good without trying to recreate the latest weird porn video they just watched involving a camel, a washing machine, a midget, and 50 pounds of high explosives.

That's probably enough of my bona fides for now, as I have said, please feel free to do whatever you want as far as tipping is concerned, I just wanted to point out that it is not necessary and you won't risk offending the vast majority of these ladies by not doing it.

I've been told many times the best tip is a return visit.

Yeah--I had to give up the high explosives once I hit 60. Especially that Acme brand my friend Wile E turned me on to.

The only time I've ever tipped is when I felt that the escort was charging too little for the service that she was providing.  That, and at massage parlors, where a tip is expected.  

where I ever said that anyone is REQUIRED to tip.  In fact, we are on the same page on this one.  If everyone tipped, there would be no basis for preferential treatment for those that do from providers or agencies.  I fully support the idea that guys that don't want to tip shouldn't.  Nobody should tip or give gifts to anyone if they don't feel good about doing it.  

I rarely tip, but the last time I did it was a lady who only charged 260/hr and wasn't exactly model material but did provide an unbelievable level of passionate service.