It seems to me that low-volume providers usually aren't the ones who are posting photos in the photo forum, or putting ads in the regional ads forum. BCG is one of the exceptions, as are Taylor Steele and others who post in the General forum regularly.

Means no M&G's. I could be wrong but logistically it makes sense they would avoid them.

Stepped on my tongue, as I so often do.

A ny M&G used to be one by the same hobbyist for many years. He would often get low volume/ less aggressive marketing ladies to come. When it was taken over by the next guy, they stopped coming because that fool invited a journalist.  

...than by almost any provider.  When I meet someone at an L.A. M&G, there's usually no further screening because they know I've been thoroughly vetted.

There are UTR and low volume providers who do go to M&G's precisely to remain UTR and low volume.  Sometimes their clients go away and they can meet new potential clients without resorting to advertising.

After someone invited a journalist. But I truly would love to. Doesn't matter the volume. Some just want to converse with other like minded individuals. I thought about hosting a small dinner party, but scheduling hasn't worked out.  

And I've met several.  Does that make them non-UTR? No idea.  As for screening, the guys I know who run M&Gs screen as rigorously as any hooker.  And there are M&Gs in NYC.  There were 4 or 5 last year through last summer and I know of at least 1 being planned for the spring.

And I've attended several M&Gs throughout the years. And I broke my boycott of the photo board about a month ago, lol.

I'm not UTR obviously but low volume, um yes!



Steph

Seems that many gals claim to be low volume...and guys seem to like that illusion as well.

I've having my first date of the week tonight for dinner and romance.

when I travel, one person a day. I used to be able to see 3 peeps a day but preferred 2. Since being back "on the job", I had to change how I market myself.

And after I get back from a trip, I pretty much don't leave the house for at least a day because I feel like I've just gotten back from a 3 a day 3-4 night trip.

But I'm still "Steph", imagine that.



Steph

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There was a gal on one of the regional boards a while ago claiming to be low volume yet she was averaging 20 reviews a month! Maybe her sister or her mom averaged 35, so in her family, she IS low volume? Dunno.

...the one Meet & Greet I've been to had a fair amount of both.

Seems it's totally subjective.

Posted By: MatureGFE

I've having my first date of the week tonight for dinner and romance.

when I travel, one person a day. I used to be able to see 3 peeps a day but preferred 2. Since being back "on the job", I had to change how I market myself.

and after I get back from a trip, I pretty much don't leave the house for at least a da because I ell like I've just gotten back from a 3 a day 3-4 night trip.

But I'm still "Steph", imagine that.

Steph

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If I sleep with one person once every other day or 5 people a day for 3 days, does it change anything? I believe it's just a term designed to keep slut shaming alive.

As I said in my reply to myself, I stepped on my tongue in the first post. I don't know what low volume is, and don't much care as long as I'm treated well. I don't think Tobi or Taylor are high volume. They post too often.

+1

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Seems it's totally subjective.  
   
 Some dudes think that exclusivity means low volume while others figure only 3 a day "ain't all that many"  LOL  
   
 I think the thing most dudes will agree on is they don't want to pass the prior john in the hallway    
   

Posted By: MatureGFE

I've having my first date of the week tonight for dinner and romance.  
   
 when I travel, one person a day. I used to be able to see 3 peeps a day but preferred 2. Since being back "on the job", I had to change how I market myself.  
   
 and after I get back from a trip, I pretty much don't leave the house for at least a da because I ell like I've just gotten back from a 3 a day 3-4 night trip.  
   
 But I'm still "Steph", imagine that.  
   
   
   
 Steph  
   
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Are you talking to me?

Stop making sweeping generalizations.

And as far as that tired subject of what kind of person has much less risk STD wise, again another stereotype. It's what a lady does when seeing someone that puts her more or less at risk.

Have sex with the wrong lower volume lady who allows risky behavior versus a lady who is higher volume but stricter. Maybe you can figure it out.

And YES I'm extremely low volume and do not participate in risky behavior. Most would find my profile rather vanilla but I seem to be doing ok.  

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Hopefully you'll see a listing of who's attending, or at least was confirmed at that point.

Posted By: 89Springer

As I said in my reply to myself, I stepped on my tongue in the first post. I don't know what low volume is, and don't much care as long as I'm treated well. I don't think Tobi or Taylor are high volume. They post too often.  
   
 The reason I was asking about M&G's is that there's one coming up in a major city the next state over where I've seen some providers. I'd like to see some who have good reviews and all, but who haven't posted enough (or at all) in either the photo threads or ad boards to really get a good idea of what they look like.  
   
 

Women here don't even realize they are looking their nose down at other gals in the same line of work as they.  

"Hi I'm an elite escort and I see 12 guys a day cuz I'm in high demand"  

12 guys really isn't all that many if you figure they are all 15 minute dates.

But yeah, I don't need to hear she is "high volume" lol but don't pawn off this low volume crap on me.  

would he think that she's low volume? unless she tells her,  how would a guy know?  this kind of feels like "schrodinger's cat" again.  

She told me she'd sometimes fuck a dozen guys a day because she wanted to.  Freak of nature, y'know.  I'm crazy about her and more power to her.

I thought "low volume" meant that she isn't loud.

ever hear a girl scream loudly in bed?  not very discrete.  

My favorite provider so far once told me out of the blue that she wasn't high volume. It was an answer to an unasked question, which is always curious. Her statement confirmed to some degree my suspicion that the two times I'd been rescheduled were to fit in other guys.

doing as many guys as she can in a day.  I forgot her name.  

What did you do, cancel a few appointment you had lined up today to get that upgrade in your status? lol.

...in the last 27 days.  That's one every other day.

Do you really think there's that much difference between "very" and "extremely" that it's worth arguing over?  C'mon, dude, have a vodka or something.

She's now EXTREMELY low volume! lol. Maybe she got a frequent flyer upgrade?....or in this case an INfrequent flyer downgrade? Oh, I can't keep this hooker babel straight.

It's free advertising and a hope to be named Hooker of the Month.  But how it can possibly relate to a gal's volume is beyond my feeble intellect.  I'd say you're over-thinking this one.

Although this week,  I did see a new girl with great reviews who told me she tries to see (some high number) a day.  Brutally honest too but probably cuz she's very new,  working for an agency,  and doesn't really know "low volume" yet.

You might want to ask our girl since she felt it necessary to make the distinction, not I. All the same to me Nick.

First of all, no one (except the gal) will no for sure how many guys she'll see in a day.

Second, what difference does it make as long as each guy feels like he is the "one and only" for her while they are there?

A gal could see one guy a month but if she treats the guy like a schmoe, what advantage is there to her being "low volume"?

I suppose in this ad-hype infused world the term will continue on indefinitely, but there's no reason for any of us to put any store in it.

It makes sense that a high volume gal would be a great provider.  How could she attract the high volume if she wasn't great?

Maybe the low volume provider is low volume because she just can't cut it.

If they're considering giving it out for the most pussy shots I know who would have won this 3 months and running.

some of these fuckers would just read it through once before putting up incomprehensible crap

Low volume -vs- high volume??
Everyone will have a different opinion on the subject, but there are variables that lie within what makes a provider High -vs- low.......She may be with an agency that she has no control over how they schedule for her. Therefore, she could be considered  high volume. A lady that advertises on multiple sites 2-5x's a day = High volume!! the reason behind it? It is her reasons only!!  It is your choice to choose. Personally, I like to stay hidden as long as i can, but enjoy being part of the show!! I play often, and enjoy every chance I get. I have never been to a M&G and probably never will, but I am content when I do meet somebody New!!

the cheese?  

I might have agreed on more things.  :P

How I had to remarket myself is not nonsense. And I'm not being critical of any lady's choice of how many people she sees. YOU are, with the bullshit you said about ladies with hundreds of reviews.

I decided to start posting there because I wanted to and guess what, some gentlemen who book those extended dates do peruse it.

I wish I could travel more but I can't and I had to change how I do business.

I had one date this week. I have one next week. I may have another one next week.

I posted in response to the OP asking about M&Gs and whether low volume/UTR ladies attend them or post on the photos boards.

I don't see many people and I do both. I'm just glad I can travel some to the cities I love and really thought I'd never see again.

Steph


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BTW how did you get so jaded in such a short time here?

You were the one who made nasty comments about ladies who see a lot of people.

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Best way for them to meet people.  Why would you assume anything. Nothing in this world is like you assume

but I never come off like a jackass, none of us asians are hung anywhere near like a jackass.

Holding grudges on a fuck board is the  biggest waste of time and energy I can think of. I'd even be willing to accept Turdy or Tardy here if he would ever "buy a clue" and she would ever stay on her meds.

Jack can be an asshole, that's a given, but is that REALLY such a bad quality on a fuck board??? I think not.

We spent about 6 nights a week together,  I would see her appointment schedule and she would see 3-6 guys just about every day, and THEN not only spend the night with me, but have plenty of gas in the tank to fuck me both at night and then again in the morning. I guess she must have been a REAL slut, and I am most likely much better off without her.

Funny thing, we broke up over HER jealousy, not mine. Go Figure.

I guess everyone needs to look down on someone, Courtesans look down on escorts, Indy's look down on agency girls, they all look down on BP and AMP lady's who in turn I guess look down on SW's. I don't really remember who streetwalkers look down on as it's been almost 20 since I've been with one, but I imagine women who work "so and so street" look down on women who works two blocks over  on a street not as nice. lol

I believe a few of the hookers that hang out on the Newbie board do so strictly to indoctrinate new hobbyists into  how to be a mangina, follow THEIR rules, and be a good little boy who does exactly as the nice hooker tells him to do.

As for Steph, I think she just failed to catch Jack's sarcasm, but I have ZERO issues with her either.

I am going to explain this to you as several people have told me you are a good girl.  

adverbs/adjectives is fine. You shouldn't use the same modifier repeatedly in a well-written document.

after you find a provider that is willing to see you.

they belong to me instead.  

Just because she is low volume doesn't mean that she wants to be, just like I know a lot of "non profit" corporations aren't that way because they want to be.

And if you READ my response to CPA and Bigpapa you'll see there's more to why I'm low volume. It's what I HAVE to do now. And I wouldn't have brought it up if the OP hadn't ask the questions he did in the FIRST post on this whole thread.

Yes because I don't know you, I thought you were BLASTING ladies with 100s of reviews and that pissed me off 'cause I know some nice ladies who see LOTS of guys.

Most of your posts make my skin crawl but it was the first time I responded to you because I took your post literally.

You made assumptions about me as well that simply aren't true. I don't run around all over the boards saying it all the time. Sometimes I put it in my ads because I CAN'T see multiple people a day and I can't even see one person a day every day for any length of time now. I had to CHANGE how I do my thang here in this secret world. NO CHOICE but to market myself differently now. Maybe I take my "job" too seriously, who knows...but I truly want my dates to really be the very best they can be and to do that NOW, I have to market myself differently now. My goal is for a short time under the right circumstances I can get CLOSE to what I could do before 2012.

There's a reason I have a big gap in my reviews and it isn't because I snagged some SD or something like that.

OK?

Steph

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The M&G's bring the same guys & gals who post on the boards.  The ones that I had attended were disappointing.  I will not be attending anymore.  As a provider lots goes into attending with out of pocket expences.  Most are looking to grab & kiss every provider who attends because they feel we are there to be fondled for free.  lol The worst is no gents offering to buy a girl a drink.  Last 1 I attended my twin & I have bought a few items to eat only to have the guests assume it was all provided for by the M&G.  For the guys to go it is a steal of a deal at the small price they pay.  I would not recommend it for the providers.

I'm beginning to think that the provider who insisted she's low volume is not, but would like to be, and maybe has convinced herself she is. Too much demand, and she just can't turn away the money.

You charge a $1,000 a fucking hour and you are all butt hurt because guys that don't make a tenth of that won't buy you a drink??? Give me a fucking break.

and please don't try to turn this on me, I have hosted a couple of M&Gs myself, and I didn't even bother to charge anyone. I sprang for the whole thing out of my pocket with nothing to gain, but a good time. The thing that pleasantly surprised me was the fact that although I made it known that the only thing I asked for was for everyone to have a good time, the majority of both the guys and the ladies either brought a bottle of booze, a pot of something yummy to eat, or asked where the jar for them to leave something towards the cost of the party was. BTW, there was no such jar. I didn't ask for either the guys or the ladies to contribute a dime, but it was a real pleasure to see almost everyone offer.

I don't know what kind of cheapskates you were surrounded by, but my experiences were the polar opposite. Maybe it's a matter of reaping what you sow?

as far as food and drink goes, and the gals get in free.

As for fondling, I got a few pretty good fondles from gals, but neither I nor any guy I know be so gauche as to fondle a gal.

They've always been a very good time.

I've been to about a dozen and none of them were remotely like what you describe.
1) Virtually none of the other males were board posters.
2) Every one had an open bar and ladies drank free.  The guys each paid $100 to cover the food and drink. And there was plenty of both.
3) While the rules were different at some of the parties regarding sexual activity there was no, repeat no, unwanted ass-grabbing.  The men I know will certainly grab an ass (or boob) but only if it is offered to them.
Bottom line: you are hanging out with the wrong people.  And please don't assume all M&Gs are like the ones you've had the misfortune to attend.  I've never been to a single on that fits your description.

Yeah, ladies...you hear that?  
So, don't forget to iron those beds!

Sorry you took this reply, so personally.  I have attended M&G's in other states besides CA.  Never assume.  Thanks for the negative response.  I already stated I will not be attending anymore M&G's, so why post I will not be welcomed?

The more you post,  the more I get that you don't really like the men you meet here, but I guess for a grand an hour you've learned to fake it, Well most of the time at least, this doesn't seem to be one of those times.

As for honesty, honesty is not always a hookers best friend. I doubt that it is yours.

I would say your right honestly.  If you refer to all providers as hookers, than I do not consider you a respectful gentlemen & sorry you do not grasp the fact that some of us have the freedom to pick, and choose who they entertain.  I feel sorry for the gals who have to rely on catering to jerks to pay their bills.  Post on, so you can stay on top as the #1 poster here on TER.  I have better things to do with my time today it is Easter & postivity is always better, than negativity.

and yes I am a "John" but I don't mind looking in the mirror and seeing the reflection. That doesn't seem to be the case for many here, including you. That's why you have to wrap yourself in political correctness, and take offense to words like hooker and john.

BTW some of my best friends are hookers,

Feliz Semana Santa, and have fun praying to your invisible friend in the sky.

Oh FWIW YOU are the one that PM'd me, not the other way around. As I said, honesty is not always a hookers best friend, you certainly don't seem to be able to handle it. Putting someone on ignore after initiating contact with them is the surest sign you are losing the argument

And clearly your lack of respect for a hooker that's now asking (as in bid price) for $ 1k to be a hooker she is clearly on drugs.  But she won't share with you either...they're all hers  LOL

I pm you lames to get you to respond, so I can ignore you.  You have nothing positive to offer this board.  You use your board posting as a negative influence to bully the hookers who see your sorry selves.  I am not a BBW, and have never been fat, or large, & I am not a drug user, so direct your slanderous remarks to another.  I am not amused.  TER is obviously you boys is life & I feel sorry that you have no real substance besides this board.