Talking to a friend- said another buddy had confided that the other buddy got sex once a month from his SO.

Independantly, I had come to the conclusion that men on a single shot per month diet get sex elsewhere.  

I'm now counting the days until this marriage breaks up or I notice the tells of hobbying going on or affairs.

1)  Am I wrong?

2) Am I an asshole for saying this- "Sully's Law" - SOs- if you are having sex once a month or less with you spouse- YOU ARE NOT ALONE...

I am not dissing anyone with this post- just putting a "NEW RULE" out there for comment..

The other 1% being guys with no money to hobby, guys to scared to get caught or to religious to break one of the ten commandments.

my 2 pieces of zinc, 2strk

I did not have a serious desire to hobby until the sexual frequency with my SO dropped to once a month.  Sometimes only once every two months.

You may have discovered the new Law of Gravity!

I'm sure everyone is different, but I wonder if once a month is the final straw that forces a lot of men to start looking?  My vote is Yes.

If I haven't gotten it at home for aver a month I start looking. If she does come through then I put it off for a month. Most of the time

Thanks guys for confirming why I am staying single and Alimony free. LoL

Me, too. My gawd. I like to hobby because hey, it's fun to pick up a chick in a bar and all, but it's also fun to dial a babe who is instantly horny and nasty for ya' without guessing how much liquor it might take or if she'll pull a psycho clingon on ya'. Besides, some of the hottest and coolest chicks I've met hobby. I might be losing my taste for civvies altogether.

How many SOs end up at 1/month?
also 99%

if so...how long does it take?

I would gather around 1-3 years or after children.


Why?  Ah now, there is the rub.

I hadn't been getting it home for 2 years, with the exception of 1 late-nighter and I don't think either of us was awake enough to realize

If you are cheating on your spouse, you will be so careful about covering your tracks, you will not notice your spouse is cheating on you at the same time.



TMT Spouseless in Seattle

Men are, as a whole, a lot hornier than women.  By the time she cheats on you with another man, you will likely have done it with 10 other women already.

...infidelity is all bad karma and inevitably bites you in the ass in the end one way or another.

Stick to fantasising and jerking off about the secretary on the third floor I say. Even Clinton could have got away with doing that and saved his legacy.

I freaked out a bud when I told him I no longer could really go ballistic if I caught the SO  in an affair- I gots no high ground-

Note to BassMan -MUST HAVE MAIN ACTION TO HOBBY!

And they are not hot n nasty FOR YOU- they are hot n' nasty for CASH.  If you don't keep perspective- you start thinking $800/hour is a rate...

..."so what did you do today dear", lol

Perhaps eating your meals in silence with furtive knowing looks is better.

Catatonic, a true knight. (or is that blight?)

...I wouldn't mind but probably 5 of the 10 hottest lookers that I have seen have cost $150 or less in Buenos Aires, The Amsterdam RLD and UK walkups.

That encompasses a long, varied and highly expensive hobbying career. It is easy to get seduced and pay for nonsense. Even if you don't need the money you can end up feeling silly afterwards.

...don't mention that gem in court.