If the conventional wisdom that many if not most hobbyists turn to the hobby on account of the wifey no longer being interested, then the business could take a real hit if this pill pans out.

Or, does the male desire to spread his seed overtake his wife's newfound desire?

This could be interesting.

Gals:  Just curious, would you be interested in the pill, or would that be just dumping more gasoline on your fires?

I'd say that such a pill, if it works, could solve some guys' problems of a "loveless" marriage.
For many other guys, that is not the reason they hobby- which goes to your alternative theory.

It could open up the market for the gigolos. If the wife gets all horned up on women's Viagra,  who's to say she would turn to the old fat smelly hubby for relief?

Yes-I agree-In my own situation I simply like the variety-nothing better that having an attractive woman that you have never met before fondle your nut sack and all that goes with it-I mean like-what is better than that ??!!

.. the whole thing smells fishy to me. BTW, Bill Cosby has a hilarious joke about his search for Spanish Fly. Skipping the long story and cutting to the punch line he is in Spain where he is certain his long quest will finally end. He gets into a conversation with a local and when the guy realizes Cosby is an American he asks "Hey man, can you get me any American Fly".

...will be minimal.

She doesn't see it as a problem.  She likes things as they are.  She'd never take it.  So I'd still be without.

and if anyone here really needs me to tell them what it is, you are on the wrong site. Hint, it has Ben Franklins picture on it.

(1) Despite a couple of comments above, quite a few of us have already said that we turned to the hobby after wives went through menopause and lost interest. For you youngsters out there, menopause comes earlier than you might think.

I had NEVER considered the hobby until the sex dried out at home. If my wife wife maintained the desire and interest in exploration that existed in the first 5 years, then I probably wouldn't be here as I'm still totally hot for my wife. Now that I'm here, I admit that it's hard to resist the variety.  

I love how you put it.  I love home cooking, but I like to eat out at a nice place once in a while.  And you can't worry about how many groceries the cost of a restaurant meal could have gotten you.

We all have our own reasons but I think the main one is that wifey is not putting out or even interested in any play what so ever. And yes guys do drool over good looking women and the temptation is too great. I do think the in the end though happy and sex filled marriages would put providers in the poor house.

Amen!!!

Like a cookbook. Am I right in assuming that?

My guess is that you chose the hobby as an outlet over starting up a civilian relationship not only to be discrete but also because you really want to continue growing your relationship with your wife with or without. Things change over time. Sounds like you have a healthy attitude toward both the hobby and marriage. Probably most men do.

I even waved Ben in her face lol

that last 40 years may exist, but there aren't nearly enough of them.  That pill is also aimed at pre-menopausal women, so guys older than 40-45 may see the home fires flickering out anyway.  And isn't that the main population of hobbyists?

You realize there are providers in menopause? Uh yah. No offense, but after even five years, I would get bored fkin the same guy too... especially if he gained 40 lbs. and stopped shaving his balls.

Is this it, huh, huh?

I'm skinny as a rail and been married 25 years, not five.  Y'know, it's a good thing you quit the business because it's made you very bitter.

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Honey, I have talked to plenty of wives who don't want to fk their husbands, and menopause is what many tell them. Is that true in your case? Maybe, maybe not, but it appears that women are not the only naive ones lol. I find it hilarious that you can sit here and brag about fkin around on your wife but the thought of her not wanting to fk you, is so out there.  

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bremelanotide

A husband who defaults to “my wife is not interested” (while, very possibly, completely disregarding why she’s not interested), will need to find another justification for doing what he really wants to do (and will keep doing) anyway if wife starts to take F-iagra.

explained postmenopausal urogenital atrophy and sex pain. I'm not bragging about the hobby, I'm resorting to it.

My only point was that there are providers in menopause so there must be SOME motivation to fk. Could it be the envelope? I am aware that menopause affects different women in different ways, pain being a side effect in some cases, but I am also aware that if hookers can get through that pain for money, so can other women.